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2ww torture, OTD not til 10th april. Trying to keep mind occupied but it is so hard. This is our 3rd attempt after failure last yr and yr before. Darent hope, yet how does one mentally prepare for failure? This is going to be the worse 7days...

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It's very hard but there is a great deal of support here. Try not to think about it all the time. At the same time be kind to yourself and don't overdo things. Don't lift anything over 5kg.

Good luck xx

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Laceygirl

So many different things you can do to prepare to fail, but ultimately IMO we are kidding ourselves. It is good to have hope and be positive, the universe doesn’t laugh at you if it doesn’t work. Please be positive, it’s good for that little white dot, and it’s good for you. Preparing to fail is kind of like preparing to injure yourself and causing twice the pain. There is nothing wrong with being positive, and if (🤞🏻 It doesn’t) it does fail, then allow yourself to feel the hurt, anger and frustration at it. Self preservation is a bit like a choker, stopping you from being true to yourself and from properly dealing with the multitude of emotions you need to experience to deal with everything properly. This is only my opinion and can totally get that people might think it’s crazy and hope it doesn’t offend anyone. Sending you much love 💕 hope 🌈 and hugs 🤗 for a BFP. Xxxxx

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emu2016

Ah. Laceygirl is so right. Remember how much positive vibes help. You can’t stop nature taking its course... but you can try and be as positive as you can be until proven otherwise. Remember: PUPO. Pregnant Until Proven Otherwise! X

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Wishfully

I’m in the 2WW at the minute too - time is passing sooooo slowly! The quickest days have been the ones where I’ve been active & busy 😊 - can you find some distractions? Best of luck to you for your BFP this round xx

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NDE1987

Hunny there are a few of us on here in the two week wait!! This week is dragging and I just hope that we all get out happy ending. Positive vibes only!!

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baby2016

My last 2ww was by far the easiest one I had and I put that down to just living life as normal (as much as possible) I didn't do any heavy lifting etc, but went back to work and pretty much went out most nights for tea with mates etc. Before I've always had the 2ww off and sat going literally nothing which drove me insane! Not long for you to go now and sending lots of luck x

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ness021983

thanks for the comments, ive had a busy day at work which has made the day fly by, feeling much more positive about things. A little perspective gained i think x

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Becky179

I'm 12dp5dt today but I was naughty and tested from day 6! Tested day 9 last cycle and waited until OTD on our first cycle. I've luckily had a bfp this time which showed up straight away! The 2ww is a nightmare! Good luck for Tuesday! Xx

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