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Received the copies sent by my fertility specialist; need to sort my endometriosis out ๐Ÿ’

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Hi ladies and gents.

Happy Easter, I hope that you are all enjoying the bank holiday weekend ๐Ÿ˜Š

As I said i received copies of the letters which have given me a different perspective on things.

Basically the endometriosis although โ€œ fairly superficial โ€œ is โ€œall over my rectum โ€œ and is โ€œ very symptomatic endometriosis โ€œ according to my fertility specialist in the referral letter.

It concerns me it has spread so much ; right now I donโ€™t think my body is healthy enough to accommodate a pregnancy; the symptoms are of quite a serious nature and I canโ€™t think they would be good fir a pregnancy.I know he said no higher chance of a miscarriage, but I canโ€™t help but wonder if my endometriosis left there last time played a part in my loss. That could be paranoia; but so far my gut instincts have all been proved right ๐Ÿ˜’ my baby was due this Thursday and perhaps its hit me hard. ๐Ÿ’”

I am so lucky and happy to get a referral to an endometriosis specialist and I know many ladies really struggle to get one. There are rare. Perhaps if I sort this endometriosis sorted properly ( yeah I know it grows back ) Iโ€™ll be giving the pregnancy a much better chance ๐Ÿฃ hopefully the wait wonโ€™t be stupidly long๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ

Good luck to those trying/ having treatment/ early pregnant ; thoughts are with you all xoxo ๐Ÿ’

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JOSANDY40

Hi my experience was. In preparation for IVF my Endo needed to be calmed down, A cyst to be removed. All of this took 15 mths then a waiting period to join IVF program, I had been on the Zoladex for the 18 mths. Once on the program I was put on the shut down drug, taken off Zoladex, then put on the drug to get my ovaries making eggs. The whole process took 8 weeks and I was pregnant for a short time but was allergic to tablets afterwards and bore down in til I bled. I was also unwell during the previous 2 wks as was after woman. There were 11 of us on this. 1 stayed pregnant. 1 had done IVF 6 times previous and now had no eggs left. 4 had eggs to try again. The rest were told perhaps try again from the beginning. I found the medical and physiologic experience something I couldn't go through again. It was 8ths before I felt reasonable as my Endometriosis had enjoyed the high Hormones during the treatment. I freezed my eggs and finally decided to donate them.

Best wishes J x

โ€ข in reply toJOSANDY40

Oh my goodness what a horrible time you had. So sorry you didnโ€™t get your happy ending ๐Ÿ’” thank you for sharing your story; must have been difficult reliving it xoxo

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The drugs I couldn't cope with during the IVF. I also had the expectation of my in-laws. I am glad I tried it or I always would have questioned myself. I hoped it would work for their sakes. I have no regrets. As things have worked out I am alone now. My Endo is still bad, I don't think these past few years I could have managed children on my own, mentally or financial since he walked out. I have Nephews as young adults and my sister's at a lose end since her partner died at 50 of a rare blood disorder. I feel when I was 27 life seemed very straight forward, I planned everything as I thought. As I've got older I've realises that life isn't like that. We have to live in the moment, enjoy the love we have and take the best of positive thinking. x

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Autumnmoon

Hope you get your treatment and your happy result x

โ€ข in reply toAutumnmoon

Thank you.Hope all is going well for you โค๏ธxoxo

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Wishfully

Itโ€™s really great that you now have such a clear path for your treatment ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š This could be the key for you in your TTC journey & hopefully will also give you some relief from the horrible symptoms of Endometriosis. You are so wonderfully brave & I just know that this will lead to a good result for you, you deserve it! Xxx

โ€ข in reply toWishfully

Thank you for such lovely words ๐Ÿ’ Iโ€™m not sure I am but I do want to give it my best shot ; and to do that I need to hear what this endometriosis specialist has to say. ๐Ÿ˜Š we are all warriors here and should be so proud of ourselves ๐Ÿ˜˜

How are things going with you? xoxo

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Amanda86

Glad to hear your finally getting some answers Jess!

I can totally understand your worry regarding your body maybe not being 100% right for pregnancy, I hope this isnโ€™t the case ๐Ÿคž hopefully you donโ€™t have too long to wait for any treatment so that youโ€™re able to achieve your happy ending ๐Ÿ˜˜ good luck xxx

โ€ข in reply toAmanda86

Thank you.

For my peace of mind I need to hear what this endo expert has to say ๐Ÿ˜ŠIโ€™ve been super lucky with all referrals my fertility specialist has done; heโ€™s sneaked me in very quickly ๐Ÿ˜‰

I hope the pregnancy is going well xoxo

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