Here we go again 😒: Had my 6 week scan... - Fertility Network UK

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Had my 6 week scan today. Unfortunately no heartbeat detected, I've had a big internal hemorage which she thinks affected the pregnancy. By my measurements the baby died a couple of days ago. Feeling heartbroken. We do at least have one embryo left but was hoping this one would work. 😒 Xxx

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lauren3189

so sorry to read this hope you are getting lots of support around you, fingers crossed for your remaining embie xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply tolauren3189

Thank you xx

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CheshireKit

So so sorry to read this. Sending big hugs xxx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toCheshireKit

Thank you xx

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Chloegreenkiwi

Oh I’m so sorry for you. It such an awful experience. Take time to recover and all the best for the next one. We’d given up after 3 failed goes yet round 4 seems to be working so far for no different reason so don’t give up hope x

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toChloegreenkiwi

Thank you xx

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Crowpingpongg

I'm heartbroken for you. Never give up your dream. At this moment you need time to grieve with your loved ones. Sorry for the sad loss x

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toCrowpingpongg

Thank you xx

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localgrandma

Omg, Im so sorry this happened to you. I hope your last embryo will work out Xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply tolocalgrandma

Thank you xx

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lianm8

Oh no I am so so sorry to hear this. Life can be so unfair. Look after yourself xxx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply tolianm8

Thank you xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Big hugs hun. I'm here for you don't forget that. I'm so sorry lovely πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv

Thanks Hun xx

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AllWeNeedIsluvβ€’ in reply toPenders

Thinking of you πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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E_05

So sorry to read this, it’s just so cruel! Thinking of you xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toE_05

Thank you. Hope your doing well xx

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Cinderella5

Oh Penders Im so sorry! Life is so cruel after all you've been through....thinking of you both and sending love & hugs.xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toCinderella5

Thanks Hun it really has been a tough few weeks. Xx

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Franco81

Oh I’m so sorry to read this. Take care of yourself xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toFranco81

Thank you xx

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Poppy16

Devastated for you. Very difficult and sad news for you. Thinking of you so much right now. I hope you get all the support you need at this time. Be kind to yourself. Take time to recover both physically and mentally. You have had an awful shock and disappointment. Horrible for you. Wishing you every success when the time comes for your last embyro transfer that all will be well. Sending you a hug.xo

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toPoppy16

Thank you Poppy xx

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kumkums

omg Penders, I am so heart broken to read this. I feel so sorry and bad at the same time. I know no amount of words can heal this injury. However please take it easy and be hopeful that this will not happen again. I saw your earlier post on bleeding some days ago but was deleted before I finished typing my response. So I thought everything was going well. May God comfort you and very soon you will have your breakthrough in Jesus' name.

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JULIETJAMβ€’ in reply tokumkums

πŸ™πŸΏ Amen

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Pendersβ€’ in reply tokumkums

Thanks Kumkums. Trying to remain hopeful. I hope your doing ok xx

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Tugsgirl

OMG I’m so so sorry. At times this journey makes me so angry, not just for me, for us all. It’s too cruel!! I’m so sorry xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toTugsgirl

Thanks Vicky. I hope your 2ww passes quickly xx

Oh no I’m so sorry to hear your loss.

I had one at 4 and a half weeks( I had bleeding day after our test) and I had to have it confirmed at our 6 week scan. It is such a huge body blow.

There are no words for it.

Thinking of you xoxo

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Pendersβ€’ in reply to

Thank you xx

Am so sorry big hugs x

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Pendersβ€’ in reply to

Thank you xx

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Lou7744

I am so sorry to read this. My heart breaks when devastating things like this happen. Sending you big hugs πŸ’• xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toLou7744

Thank you xx

So sorry to read this. Thinking of you xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply to

Thank you xx

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JULIETJAM

So sorry. This is not the end of the journey. May God comfort you and that’s you through these hard times x

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toJULIETJAM

Thank you xx

So sorry to hear this , just wanted to send you huge hugs xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply to

Thank you xx

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-noodles-

i am so sorry for your loss. i can’t imagine the pain. i hope you find strength in the days ahead.

sending love & light βœ¨πŸ’•βœ¨

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Pendersβ€’ in reply to-noodles-

Thank you xx

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Thegirl84

So sorry to read this, thinking of you xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toThegirl84

Thank you xx

So sad to read this. It's so devastating and cruel. Take care xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply to

Thank you xx

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Aleelilook

Oh I’m so sorry to read this, you’re in my thoughts. Life can be so unbearably cruel at times. Sending healing vibes lovely xxx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toAleelilook

Thank you xx

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Jm82

I'm so sorry to hear this, take care xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toJm82

Thank you xx

Oh no! I’m so sorry x

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toLizzielizzielizzie

Thank you xx

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Patty74

I'm so sorry to hear this news sending you guys xxx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toPatty74

Thank you xx

I'm so sorry .stay hopeful and when you are ready try again.take care of yourself.xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply to

Thank you xx

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Amanda86

So sorry 😟 xxx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toAmanda86

Thank you xx

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_MrsC

I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending you a big hug. xxx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply to_MrsC

Thank you xx

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Hannah143

😒 god I’m so sorry thats just heartbreaking I’m so sorry to read your news. πŸ’” , take the time for heal and gather your strength xxx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toHannah143

Thank you xx

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Shanks_21

So sorry to read this sending big hugs xxxx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toShanks_21

Thank you xx

I m really sorry... Words can't do much but I really hope things get better from now on. Sending you a big hug xxx

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Thank you xx

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Dunla

I’m so very sorry to hear of your loss. Take good care of yourself at this difficult time. I’m thinking of you xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toDunla

Thank you xx

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vic77

I am so so sorry for your loss xxx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply tovic77

Thank you xx

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Sharonl75

So so sorry to read your news. Sending you hugs and the strength to get through this trying time.xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toSharonl75

Thank you xx

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Leo2017

I’m so sorry to read this!! πŸ’”πŸ˜’ look after yourself!! xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toLeo2017

Thanks Leo. How are you doing? Xx

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Leo2017β€’ in reply toPenders

Hi Penders, how are you feeling today?! I’m so gutted for you!! πŸ’” I’m ok - got a bfp on 16th, scan is on 5th but my anxiety levels are so high as no symptoms anymore!! πŸ˜• hope you’re doing okay and looking after yourself!! Sending hugs!! xx

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toLeo2017

I'm ok thanks still coming to terms with it all. Congratulations that's great news I'm so glad you got your BFP this time. Try not to worry about symptoms easier said than done I know. Good luck with your scan on 5th let me know how you get on xxx

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Lynnr54

So sorry to read this. Look after yourself and take some time to grieve. Do they know what caused the hemorage?

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toLynnr54

Thank you. They think the embryo hit a strong blood vessel when it was implanting. Xx

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Scarlett13

So sorry that this has happened xxx big hugs x any idea what caused the haemorrhage so you can move forward feeling more confident?

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toScarlett13

Thank you. They think the embryo hit a strong blood vessel when implanting. Just bad luck really. Xx

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Ap98

So sorry for you!

You still have an embryo, try and focus on that if that helps!

Try and take time for you if you can.

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Pendersβ€’ in reply toAp98

Thank you xx

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Anna00

Oh I’m so sorry and heartbroken for you. Give yourself time to grieve, sometimes life is so unfair. Sending big hugs xxx

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Dreamingofbaby

So sorry to hear this that awful news. Big hugs. Take good care x

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