Fet transfer booked for Friday 23rd 😮

[Tugsgirl]

Just had my CD14 scan and my lining is 9.1 and my left follicle is 18mm so we’re on the way home now to take my trigger shot! Cyclogest and Lubion start Tuesday and heparin injections start on Wednesday. Transfer is booked for 3pm (🤞thaw embie thaw 🤞) So here comes my 4th transfer 🙏🏻(hopefully) and my 4th tww 🙏🏻 xx

[Fredaflintstone]

It’s all happening! Wishing you all the very best Vicky. Really wishing for good news for you xxxxxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Fredaflintstone]

Thanks lovely xx

[Lilli79]

Hi Tugsgirl, did they sort out your medication for this round? I really really hope it all works out for you. Am sure everyone on this forum (including me) are keeping fingers, toes and everything else crossed for you!! Will be waiting for updates 😊 xxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Lilli79]

Yes meds all sorted. All in a box waiting at home. Trigger shot this evening then pessaries and Lubion injections Tuesday then adding in blood thinning injections on Wednesday xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Lilli79]

Ps thank you xx

[Crowpingpongg]

Good luck with this treatment. I had mine transferred yesterday its my first fet and I have been reading that pineapple and the core are super for day 1 to 5 is this correct? Any other advise welcome. I really hope it works for you xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Crowpingpongg]

That’s correct! Just one slice a day with the core. No other tips other than try not to test early, wait for your otd if you can. There’s a reason why we’re given one. Good luck to you xx

[Crowpingpongg in reply to Tugsgirl]

I won't test early there is no point. Thank you and good luck xx

[E_05]

Wishing you so much luck for this transfer, keeping everything crossed that this is your time xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to E_05]

Thank you 😊 xx

[Pauleenka86]

Good luck 😙😙😙😙

[Goodthingscome]

Good luck my lovely, keeping everything crossed for you xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Goodthingscome]

Thanks xx

[Smang]

Wishing you the very best of luck Tugsgirl! I have my fingers crossed and sending positive vibes your way xxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Smang]

I appreciate that thank you xx

[lianm8]

Good luck lovely 🤞🤞🤞

[AS100]

Wishing you all the very best! 💖🍍💫🥑✨everything’s crossed for you! 🤞 xxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to AS100]

Thank you xx

[Hidden]

Good luck xx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Tugsgirl. Numbers are looking good. Love to you and your fella. Soon little embie will be back inside you where he/she belongs. Thinking of you masses. Diane

[Tugsgirl in reply to DianeArnold]

❤️🐰❤️

[Elizabeth86]

Wishing you lots of luck 🤞🏻 Xxx

[destiny121]

Good luck.... prayer it all goes well xxx

[87Ballerina]

Fingers crossed for you. Sounds great and exciting times for u. I am going to have FET in next couple of months. Had my EC Monday and finally feeling a bit better today. Can I ask how long u had to wait between the two? This is my first ever IVF cycle x

[Tugsgirl in reply to 87Ballerina]

Normally between cycles it’s three months. I didn’t have EC with this one. But in your case it may be sooner, just as soon as everything has all settled down for you I would have thought xx

[87Ballerina in reply to Tugsgirl]

Ahh ok just interested. My clinic said 2 months I think. We have to o for more consent signing on the 5th so we will ask then. Hope all goes well for you xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to 87Ballerina]

And for you too xx

[Missy_22]

Good luck Tugsgirl. All the best, how many are you having transferred ?? I’m two weeks behind you roughly let’s hope we can do this xxxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Missy_22]

Just the one. We only have two left now and I don’t want to risk a bfn on two.. Definitely hope we can do this 🙏🏻 xx

[Missy_22 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Yes we can do this! Wow 2 left that’s good. Fingers and toes crossed for you next Friday xxx

[vic77]

Right here with ya Hun xxxxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to vic77]

Thank you Vic. Hope you’re ok 💪🏻 xx

[AnnieAnnie]

Good luck! 🍀 xx

[Amanda86]

Good luck Vicky. Everything crossed for you 🤞 xxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Amanda86]

Thank you Amanda xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Fingers crossed my lovely lady that this is it for you. Wishing you calmness happiness and every success. I wish you all the baby dust and happiness in the, world 💗💗🤗😘😘

[Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

❤️ 😘 xx

[Anna00]

Wishing you all the best!!🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻xoxo

[Tugsgirl in reply to Anna00]

Thank you Anna xx

[lorraineb61]

Good luck - here's hoping 4th time is the charm!! x

[Hidden]

Everything crossed for you, sending lots of love and positive vibes xxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Hidden]

Thank you 😊 xx

[Lou7744]

Wishing you so much luck with your frostie ❄️💕 xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Lou7744]

xx

[Cinderella5]

Great news Vicky!! Not long to go. Wishing you all the luck in the world!!xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Cinderella5]

Thanks so much xx

[Penders]

Good luck Vicky I really hope it works out this time xxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Penders]

Thank you Penders xx

[bluewanderlust]

Thinking of you and wishing you all the luck in the world xxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to bluewanderlust]

Thanks lovely xx

[-noodles-]

wooooo hoooooo! wishing you all the best of luck. so hope this is your time ✨💕✨

[Tugsgirl in reply to -noodles-]

Thank you Noodles xx

[JULIETJAM]

Great lining. Praying your transfer goes well x

[Tugsgirl in reply to JULIETJAM]

Thank you and congrats again on your bfp xx

[JULIETJAM in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you 🙏🏿 . Have faith it will be the 4th and final one because it will work this time x

[kumkums]

I wish you the very best. It's all happening so quick for you. I pray this time around baby will stay fine and healthy and come at the right time.

On a lighter note. At times I think within myself if it's possible to do the trigger shot on a natural FET, do some bd and still go for FET and if one could get twins from that.

[Tugsgirl in reply to kumkums]

I had been thinking about what would/could happen if you did that lol xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Tugsgirl]

DianeArnold is there any truth to this? 🤔 xx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to Tugsgirl]

It’s a lovely thought, but wouldn’t like to guarantee it! Diane

[Tugsgirl in reply to DianeArnold]

But it wouldn’t do any harm? Cause any risk of infection? xx ❤️

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to Tugsgirl]

No I don’t think it would cause inf3ction. Diane

[Jhenderson]

I’m thinking of you. Keep us all posted. Rooting for you xxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Jhenderson]

Will do and thank you xx

[Emmad781]

Wishing you the best of luck

Fingers crossed xx

[Hannah143]

Good luck with everything, I have everything crossed for you xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Hannah143]

Much appreciated xx

[Hidden]

Wishing you lots of luck, I've got fingers and toes crossed 🤞 xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Hidden]

Thank you 😊 xx

[Kyell2]

Sending you lots and lots of luck x

[Dreamingofbaby]

All the best xx

[Phoebenooby]

Good Luck X

[Hidden]

That's awesome news Vic. Can't believe it's so soon, I didn't realise you'd started the drugs.

Lots of love and luck to you both. xxxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Hidden]

I hadn’t really except for aspirin and now I’ve just had my trigger. Next meds start on Tuesday xx And thank you xx

[tiger-cub]

Wishing u all d luck gurlie. Xx🤞🏻🤞🏻

[Tugsgirl in reply to tiger-cub]

Thank you xx

[Aleelilook]

Good luck lovely!! Xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Aleelilook]

Thanks 😊 xx

[Hidden]

Wishing you the very very best luck!! Xxx

[katya38]

All the best of luck thinking of you xx

[Sprinkles86]

Amazing got everything crossed for you both xxxxxx

[Evie1]

So pleased for you, I have everything crossed for you and your husband. You really deserve this happiness xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Evie1]

Thank you 🙏🏻 xx

[CJ104]

Good luck xx

[Dunla]

Oh fingers crossed for you, hoping so much that this will work for you. Wishing you all the luck in the world 🍀 xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Dunla]

Thank you xx

[Lizzielizzielizzie]

Good luck my lovely!!

Forgive my ignorance but what’s a trigger shot for in a frozen cycle?

[Tugsgirl in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie]

Because it’s a natural cycle, no down regulation so it’s to make sure my egg is released then EC would be equivalent to Monday. I say natural but with all the drugs I’m going to be taking... 😂😂 xx

[Oakey80]

Oh my! Wishing u all the luck in the world!!! 🍀🌍🍀

[Tugsgirl in reply to Oakey80]

Thank you xx

[Poppy16]

Oh very exciting! Wishing you all the best and every success. Trusting and praying that all goes well for you. Xo

[Tugsgirl in reply to Poppy16]

Thank you Poppy. I’m not very excited but thank you xx

[Littledee88]

Wishing u the very best of luck and will keeping everything crossed for u. Xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Littledee88]

Thanks xx

[Shanks_21]

Wishing you lots of luck lovely got everything crossed for you xxxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Shanks_21]

Aw thanks. Hope you’re well xx

[Shanks_21 in reply to Tugsgirl]

I’m good thanks lovely looking forward to hearing your updates xxxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Shanks_21]

I’m sure I can oblige 😂😂 xx

[kt_11]

Good luck! Really hope this is the one for you x

[Hope85]

Good luck I have everything crossed for you Hun 🤞🏼Xx

[Scarlett13]

Wow, good news so far, thinking of you, good luck, you've got this xxxxx

[Squeak2]

Excited and anxious for you all at the same time, so very hopeful all goes well for you 💕 xx

[_MrsC]

Wishing you the very best of luck. I find you so inspiring Vicky. I really do hope this is the one for you. You have really earned it. x

[Tugsgirl in reply to _MrsC]

That’s lovely thank you. Don’t think I’ve ever been called inspiring before, that’s usually the OH because he’s disabled. Thank you 😊 xx

[Sez73]

Pleeeeeaaaaazzzzeeeeee work this time little embie, I’m keeping my fingers, toes, arms, legs, eyeballs & anything else I can find crossed for you from now til your OTD...it’s gotta work, you wouldn’t let me put up with being this uncomfortable on top of all my other pain so here’s to a BFP ASAP! Thinking of you and sending you all my best wishes, you deserve this to work so v much 😘

[Tugsgirl in reply to Sez73]

Lovely message and I genuinely appreciate it. Thank you so much xx

[Sez73 in reply to Tugsgirl]

You’re welcome, I’m willing success comes your way so much, u both deserve it xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Sez73]

😘 xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Sez73]

Btw how are you doing atm? xx

[Sez73 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Not brilliant unfortunately but thanks for asking. Cycles won’t return to normal 5 months post miscarriage so can’t do another transfer yet as things all over place. V bad heart palpitations, ovulating around day 6 yet having 30+ day cycles, don’t know what to do. Feel like my body has just had enough now, Endo flared up & an on my knees. Got 4 embryos frozen from donor cycle but can’t go ahead until things more settled and time running out fast, I’m 45 at Christmas. Starting to panic which isn’t helping the anxiety levels. You know the drill more than most though, it’s a stressful business isn’t it. Keeping my fingers crossed for you love 😘 xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Sez73]

Ovulation on day 6 omg, how stressful it all sounds for you. I don’t have any suggestions and I expect it’s all been suggested re; getting your cycles back on track. Are you doing anything relaxation wise? Like reflexology? Acupuncture? Are you having counselling? Sorry for all the questions and I expect you’ve probably thought of them all before but just trying to think of things that could reduce your stress, which could only be a positive thing xx

[Sez73 in reply to Tugsgirl]

I’ve tracked my cycles for 6yrs since TTC & am always an early ovulater-around day 10 or 11 but 6 is crazy isn’t it. Problem is u get more stressed & In turn that makes things even worse! The one thing I had in my favour was regular natural cycles so didn’t need any oestrogen medication for any transfers which helped massively to not flare up my endometriosis, but now everything is so all over the shop it’s a mess. The consultant said I’d need more medication ie oestrogen, if my body wasn’t playing ball, first step is to persuade my clinic to do a range of blood tests throughout month to try and see what’s happening I think? Miscarriage seems to have thrown everything out totally.

I am not v good at being kind to myself, had a massage for the first time in years last week & just broke down crying, I hold things together so much & try & keep going but I think the massage sort of released some emotion. I’m afraid when the flood gates open I won’t be able to ever close them again!! I’ve tried reflexology and acupuncture in the past but not had great success. Like you, I always have icy cold hands/feet/nose and when I’ve done acupuncture they always remark about circulation and things being stagnant, I think Chinese medicine even refers to Endo as blood stagnancy. I saw a counsellor once but they were just so beyond understanding the extent of the pain & struggle I was going through, it just made me feel even more frustrated! You know yourself how much it takes out of you trying to conceive and I have to try & find a way of managing all that comes with that alongside living with a chronic illness. I haven’t worked for a couple of years to try and reduce stress and have a v understanding partner but it’s too much to handle and I can’t seem to escape from it all. I’m baking a healthy version of banana bread this afternoon and doing some gardening as I at least find cooking and gardening calming!

I just struggle that no one truly understands the hell infertility can bring, bar everyone on this forum like yourself. I look happy & healthy on the outside so everyone wonders what the fuss is about!! Can’t allow it to drag me down though.

Anyway, don’t want to moan and get you down, you’ve got a big day coming and I’m routing for you love, keep strong and positive and I’ll be thinking of you over these coming weeks. Thanks so much for your texts, so kind of u to care when you’ve got all your worries, it’s much appreciated.

Have a lovely weekend 😘

[Tugsgirl in reply to Sez73]

I just wish I could do more to help 😞 Banana bread sounds lovely 😊 Try to have a good weekend too. I’ve got the delights of grocery shopping to look forward to this afternoon... Thanks for your support xx

[Sez73 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Just like I wish I could do more to help your dreams come true. This journey seems to hit the nicest & kindest of people, I’ve a twin sis who is hard as nails, no compassion or empathy to my situation & she had 4 kids, her last at nearly 43, the world can be very cruel but i hold on to believing the bigger the lows that hit you, the bigger the highs will come! Banana bread with maple syrup & coconut oil instead of tons of sugar and butter, trying to convince myself it’s s not healthier!! Enjoy your shopping, drop a treat into the trolley for you! Thinking of you and wishing u all the v v best love xxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Sez73]

😘💕 xx

[Dream32]

Lots of postive love on here for you! Wishing you all the best with your FET 🤞 X

[Tugsgirl in reply to Dream32]

Yes I’m feeling very grateful xx

[Lynnr54]

Keeping everything crossed that this is your time and that you’ve finally found your solution with the extra meds. I like that they can time your ovulation - I hadn’t realised they could do that! My FET is also on 23rd. Here’s hoping it works for both of us! x

[Tugsgirl in reply to Lynnr54]

It’s only timed with my natural cycle but with medicated fet (down regulating) it’s different. Woohoo cycle buddies! Wishing you lots of luck too! Keep me posted xx

[emu2016]

Crossing all the fingers and toes xx

[oharal]

Good luck lovely!!xxxx

[CountryCat]

All the very best Vicky! Fingers crossed for a smooth transfer and the news you have been waiting for. No one deserves it more! Will be thinking of you xx

[Hidden]

Fab news! Wishing you lots and lots of luck xx

[7AVA]

Wishing you so much luck for a successful round xx

[Hidden]

All the best for the 23rd!

[Hidden]

Let this be the one! Sending huge love and good thoughts your way xxx

[sunshineyellow]

Wishing you the very best of luck. I’ll keep my fingers crossed this is your time xxx

[Squeak2]

Oh wow, like everyone else I just want to wish you well with everything 💕 lots of baby dust for you too!! xx

[cls37]

Hey Hun, I’ve only just seen your post as I’ve been absent from here for a while, self preservation and all that!

Just wanted to wish you so much luck..... you are always such a support to everyone on here xxx

[WeeMrsH]

Good luck for tomorrow lovely! Be thinking of you till OTD xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to WeeMrsH]

Aww thanks xx

[Hidden]

I missed the original post! Wishing you lots of luck for tomorrow xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Hidden]

Thank you xx

[Rubinaa]

Good luck sweetie... 🍀🍀🍀🍀 I want to see you with a great big smile in the coming weeks... it'll be a very happy moment for all of us. Xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Rubinaa]

Thank you 😊 xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Tugsgirl]

Ps Rubinaa how are you these days? xx

[Rubinaa in reply to Tugsgirl]

I am doing fine 😘 much more relaxed and comfortable ever since I crossed the 12-15 week mark. I am 24 weeks today and taking every week as it comes, loving the monthly scans and comparing the measurements of the previous months... I guess the time now feels as though it's flying as opposed to the initial days...

I wish all the best of luck to u sweetie, I was once a lady with no hope or direction but God made it all possible for me after 5 hard years of trying, relax yourself and let it all take its course... a thousand folds of luck for tomorrow and the coming weeks. Xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Rubinaa]

Again thank you. It’s nice to know all is going well for you. Thought I’d ask as I hadn’t seen any updates from you for a while. Glad for you xx

[Rubinaa in reply to Tugsgirl]

I've not been very active recently.

[Tugsgirl in reply to Rubinaa]

No.. but all is well that’s the main thing 😊 xx

[Rubinaa in reply to Tugsgirl]

True. I'll be praying for you tomorrow during all my 5 prayers. Xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Rubinaa]

😘

[Lilli79]

Good luck for tomorrow Tugsgirl we'll all be thinking of you xxx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Lilli79]

That means a lot thank you Lilli xx

[Hidden]

Good luck.... not breathe enough to post when things are happening for me but if and when I have good news I will post a pic of my longed for...

Wishing you lots of baby dust and sprinkles

[Tugsgirl in reply to Hidden]

Thank you kind Lady xx

[Hidden]

Good luck for today and the rest of the 2ww- hope it doesn’t drag too much. Hope this is your time xoxo

[Cinderella5]

Just wanted to wish you all the luck in the world today Vicky, hope it all goes to plan!xx

[Jm82]

Good luck today xx

[Tugsgirl]

I’ve been awake since 6am worrying about the call to the lab. Keep having to tell myself “The embie will be fine. It won’t perish. Just get through today. You can do this. It’s not long until 12pm. It will be fine. This time tonight my embie will be back where it belongs. Breathe” 😂 xx

[Krushby89]

Good luck for your transfer.... and a quick and POSITIVE Two week wait x x

[Tugsgirl in reply to Krushby89]

I really appreciate your support after just having read your post xx