Life’s unfair

[VTier]

Just me sharing..

We’ve been ttc for 3 years now. We are on our first cycle for IVF, so far so good.

I am a nurse and I do gynae clinics with consultants.. My recent patient is pregnant unexpectedly and this pregnancy may endanger her life.. She requested for termination and as per protocol she is qualified to have it..

It breaks my heart to assist her with some paperworks.. I can’t help but cry silently after the consultation.. A lot of us are praying/trying so hard to get pregnant and we meet these ones who aren’t even trying and get pregnant..

Just thought life can be unfair in this sense..

[KirstyC90]

This is a hard situation for you. I know I would feel the same! It's hard because we so want to be pregnant and have a little one who we would love with all our hearts and always look after. All I can say is, keep trying and looking after yourself, it is harder for some than others. I wonder why my husband and I have just had to go through an ectopic pregnancy. The surgeon told me that it's highly unlikely I will get pregnant naturally again, and it makes we wonder, how come others seem to have it so easy and 'just get pregnant' and have their healthy babies. But then I don't know these people, they may have gone through more than I thought. Keep trying Xxx