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AF has come in full swing and is being as cruelly painful as possible. I feel so deflated, like this is never going to happen for us. We have no reason for our infertility apart from slightly low sperm count and I wish there could just be a reason.we want to be parents so badly.. I just don't know where I belong in the world if I'm not going to be a mum. Totally heartbroken.

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Lou9

So sorry to hear this. It's just incredibly unfair after all you've been through. Thinking of you and I hope that one day your wish comes true. Xx

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Leo2017

So sorry to read this, the journey is so unbelievably cruel!! I also had a bfn, about 7 weeks ago now from our first cycle!! 😒

Look after yourself & take time out for you to heal!! xx

So sorry to hear this, take care of yourselfs .

Sending huge hugs x

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7AVA

So sorry to hear this Indymoon. Look after yourself xxx

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E_05

So sorry to read this, this journey can be so cruel. Take some time to grieve and re build your strength xx

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Rubinaa

So sorry to hear this, but this is a cruel place to live in without any answers, I know how you feel, god blesses children to those without any need and tests those who actually are yearning for them... I've seen many people who take having children for granted and are raising their kids nowhere close to what they deserve as opposed to women who would do everything within their power to have a child let alone raising them well.

Your time will come too sweets.

Sending you loads of hugs.

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Poppy16

Devastated for you. Life is so unfair at times. Trusting that your victory will come some day. Take care. Xo

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Tara2016

So sorry to hear this. Take good care of yourself and take some time off work if you are able to x

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Tugsgirl

So sorry. It’s really hard xx

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry, thinking of you both!xx

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Fredaflintstone

So sorry to hear this. It’s so unfair! Sending you love and strength and hope for the future xxxx

I’m so sorry to read this. It being back memories of our failed cycle. Be kind to yourself and take the time you need to grieve. X

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Loopielu

Oh no. So sorry to see this. Be kind to yourselves today. Sending love and a hug xx

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Scarlett13

We are all here with a deep rooted desire and natural instinct to be mothers. I'm sorry that you're going through this. It's a shit time...but time passes and moves on...soon you'll be able to refocus - keep positive - you'll get there - keep the faith and don't give up xxx

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NMP1026

Oh huni there are no words. It's beyond sad. Sending you a hug and strength. Look after yourself xx

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Squeak2

So sorry to hear this πŸ˜” sending hugs to you xx

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IMaman

Hi Indymoon

So sorry to hear that you are going through this. I share your fear and worry of not knowing what my purpose is if I don’t become a mum. What you’re going through is tough, remember that and be kind to yourself. Remember that you are doing all you can to the best you can. If you need a chat, message me.

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Blondie_81

So sorry to hear this.. I’ve also had 2 failed transfers this year (3 ivf cycles). It’s so hard but as each week passes you get stronger and better. You’re so strong, We are all infertility warriors. Sending love xx

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