FET today AT LAST!!!! β€οΈπŸ™πŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌ - Fertility Network UK

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FET today AT LAST!!!! β€οΈπŸ™πŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌ

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I've just had my fet today!!

We had to be at the clinic for 1.30 and at 11.30 the embryologist called to say it had thawed perfectly and was ready and just sitting waiting for me - at which point I burst into tears down the phone like a total lunatic!! But it's been a long process for us to finally get to this point so I was feeling a bit overwhelmed I think.

Cried again once I got there- lunatic!

Cried again once in the theatre room and got given a photo of our embryo to keep - triple lunatic.

I've not cried for ages about this, in fact my other half has joked that we should keep me on all the meds even when not doing ivf as he says I've been more balance on them than normal! Cheeky git. But he's right! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

So for all the tears today I felt like such a wally although obviously all the nurses were amazing! I think I just finally got a bit overwhelmed with it all and I still can't believe it's actually happened and after all the bumps in the road we have finally had our first (and hopefully only needed) embryo transferred. I was crying tears of pure happiness, joy, and mostly relief I think.

We officially started this process 10th October 2013 and we have only just now, today, had our first embryo transfer done. In the meantime I've had to have 5 different surgeries in preparation for this and then finally our ivf cycle, not without its own hiccups and postpones for more surgeries etc. So I can't express the joy and relief of getting to this point AT LAST!!!!!

Now for the tww....... 😳😩

Praying for positives πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ™πŸΌπŸ™πŸΌπŸ™πŸΌπŸ™πŸΌπŸ™πŸΌβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ xxxx

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C_L_A_I_R_E profile image
C_L_A_I_R_E

Congrats on the transfer! wishing you a positive in 2 weeks πŸ€žπŸ»πŸ€

β€’ in reply toC_L_A_I_R_E

Thank you so much!! I'm lying in bed thing positive thoughts and trying to send good vibes to my womb πŸ˜‚ all this ivf ha sent me crazy 😜 xx

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That's all I do! I'm still growing follies! I hear myself saying 'common follies!' πŸ€πŸ€žπŸ»

β€’ in reply toC_L_A_I_R_E

Hahaha I was the same, I used to find myself rubbing my belly and talking to them as well πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ my other half used to laugh at me.....but then he'd do it as well!! πŸ€£πŸ˜† xx

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E_05

What a journey you've had - congrats on having your transfer today. Lots of luck for the 2ww 🀞xx

β€’ in reply toE_05

Thank you so much! I can't believe we have to wait another 2 weeks at the end πŸ™„ as if this process isn't hard enough πŸ˜‚ xx

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E_05β€’ in reply to

I know it really is unfair isn't, think somehow this is one of the hardest bits to xx

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Sa_Ra

Wow what a journey 😭 Wishing you all the best xxx

β€’ in reply toSa_Ra

Thank you lovely ❀️ xxx

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Amanda86

Congratulations πŸ™‚ It's such an amazing feeling isn't it having your transfer? Very overwhelming!

You've had such a long journey. I'm keeping everything crossed for you that you get your BFP πŸ€žπŸ™ πŸ€ xxx

β€’ in reply toAmanda86

Thank you so much 😊 I want to now let myself get really excited but at the same time I don't. Still torn with the emotions but time will tell!! I never thought this day would come so even if it doesn't work this time I feel better about everything anyway and moving forwards xxx

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mupcake

Praying for you πŸ™πŸ» Good luck ☘️

β€’ in reply tomupcake

Thank you ❀️ xx

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sunshineyellow

Oh wow you've been through a lot. Don't worry about the crying I'm sure they're used to it. I balled in front of my acupuncturist last week and he said it happens all the time πŸ˜‚

Wishing you the best of luck for the 2ww and a positive outcome. We've got our frozen transfer on Friday at midday so just a couple of days behind you. Hope you're managing to relax and got some nice things planned xxx

β€’ in reply tosunshineyellow

Eeek how exciting!! Good luck with it!! It certainly is an experience πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ being laid up on the bed legs a Kimbo- face height of the poor doctor πŸ˜‚πŸ™ˆ as we were leaving the clinic and checking we had everything my other half said 'have you left anything?' To which I replied 'only my dignity in the theatre room' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Haha I remember it from last time. Almost have to laugh as the whole thing is so serious in there, but how can it be with our legs like that!!! Will keep in touch!! Xx

β€’ in reply tosunshineyellow

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I know!! It's awful lol xx

β€’ in reply tosunshineyellow

Do let us know how you get on xx

Wishing you lots of luck. Xz

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Thank you xx

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tish44

Wishing you lots of luck πŸ™πŸ» xxx

β€’ in reply totish44

Thank you xx

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Tugsgirl

I always well up at transfer, it's a magical time. Good luck for the tww πŸ€ xx

β€’ in reply toTugsgirl

Thank you so much! Good to see I'm not alone ha xx

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TTCs

Ah an exciting time for you! I would have been the same with the tears no doubt! Best of Luck to you, hope you get your BFP xxx

β€’ in reply toTTCs

Thank you so much ❀️ xx

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cls37

Wishing you lots of luck xxxx

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Thank you xxx

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Leesara

I will keep my fingers crossed for you oxo

β€’ in reply toLeesara

Thank you so much xx

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emiraven62

Wishing the best of lucks! xxxxx

β€’ in reply toemiraven62

Thanks πŸ’•πŸ€žπŸΌ xx

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Lynnr54

Good luck. Easier said than done but try and relax now for the next 2 weeks!

β€’ in reply toLynnr54

Definitely easier said than done haha! Thank you πŸ’•πŸ€žπŸΌ xxx

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CountryCat

Everything - the works - crossed for you xxx

β€’ in reply toCountryCat

Thank you!! β€οΈπŸ’•πŸ€žπŸΌ xx

Good Luck xxx

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Thanks πŸ’•πŸ™πŸΌ xxx

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Jaky76

Sending loads of positive vibes and wishes... Good luck πŸ€ got everything crossed 🀞 xxx πŸ’‹ xx

β€’ in reply toJaky76

Thank you! πŸ˜ŠπŸ’•πŸ™πŸΌ xx

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Bluebelle1

Ah its an amazing feeling isn't. Getting all the way to that stage where it actually happens. Before we started treatment I was so naive to the process and just thought if you have IVF then its quite straight forward but as we learnt every cycle is different and if you get to transfer stage then thats an achievement in its self with everything that could potentially go wrong along the way!

Wishing you all the best for the 2WW. Try and stay happy and positiveπŸ’« xx

β€’ in reply toBluebelle1

Thank you so much! Yeah I think that's why I was crying so much! I just couldn't believe we were finally there! Crazy. It's been a particularly crazy couple of years and to finally be at this point is like OH MY GOD! We made it!! πŸ™ŒπŸΌπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ so fingers crossed it continues with a health pregnancy 🀰🏼 I'll keep everyone updated xxx

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Elou81

What a journey you have had. I'm not surprised you were emotional! Wishing you the very best of luck X

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Thank you!! I've pulled myself together for now πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ‘πŸΌ ❀️🀞🏼 xx

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kelsbels88

Wishing you lots of luck for the 2ww...hoping for a positive xx

β€’ in reply tokelsbels88

Thank you so much! πŸ˜Šβ€οΈπŸ™πŸΌ xx

Huge congratulations on getting over the hurdles and you know what rock those tears and panda eyes πŸ‘€ 🐼

Welcome to the TWW, where your sanity will all but disappear!! Everything crossed for you xxx

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Hahaha thank you so much!!! πŸ’• It's certainly been a rollercoaster so far!! Where abouts are you in the process? xx

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It is a complete rollercoaster, take care of yourself this is your time now everything else is irrelevant xxx Sadly after 3 failed IVF attempts and 7 years of trying for our family we are moving onto DE soon I'm happy that we have tried and are now looking into other avenues xxx

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Oh I'm sorry it hasn't worked for you ❀️ it is such a crazy be long process well done for doing it so many times!!!! You're a strong woman! πŸ’ͺ🏼 it's hard. Good luck with exploring new avenues, please keep us updated as to how you get on as it's always helpful to be informed and learn from others πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’• xxxx

Good luck and hopefully this 2ww will be as quick as possible for you xxπŸ™πŸΌπŸ€πŸ€ž

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Thank you πŸ’•πŸ™πŸΌβ€οΈπŸ€žπŸΌ xxx

Wonderful news! Wishing you lots of luck xx

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Thank you πŸ’•πŸ™πŸΌβ€οΈπŸ€žπŸΌ xxx

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N_M_10

Wow what a journey. Wishing you all the luck in the world. xx

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Thank you so much πŸ’•πŸ™πŸΌβ€οΈπŸ€žπŸΌ xxx

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abcgirl

good luck! What a journey and hope you get the result that makes it all worth it 🀞

β€’ in reply toabcgirl

Thank you so much!! Period is due today but hasn't arrived yet.... but since starting ivf they've been absolutely crazy and all over the place anyway πŸ™„ so finger crossed it stays away!! xx

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N_M_10

Good luck xxx

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Thanks xx

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