Supporting my little sister have her baby... IT HURTS

Little sister went into labour today, she wasn't happy at being pregnant in the first instance now am here supporting my her through it.

Stiff upper lip....

But it hurts because I want it to be me.

[Tugsgirl]

That's incredibly brave and selfless. I'm sure your sister will appreciate you being there for her xx

[Aleelilook]

Oh wow that is tough, you are an incredible woman, I hope your sister appreciates how hard this is xxxxxx

[Hidden]

Wow, don't think I could have done that. But it will be a special experience. xxx good luck xxx

[Rainbow_86]

Just wanted to say I am thinking of you..... you are so strong to do this despite everything you must be feeling. Sending big hugs xxx

[E_05]

What a brave lady you are! As others have said I hope your sister appreciates how hard this must be for you, we're all here to support you xx

[Lou9]

You are incredibly strong and quite frankly bloody amazing. Thinking about you. X

[Hidden]

Wow, what an amazing woman you are. I have a huge amount of admiration for you doing a selfless thing for your sister, I'm ashamed to say I couldn't do what you are doing. You will be an amazing Aunty to the baby, and you whilst it won't take the place of the one very special thing that you want, it will cement a very special relationship with you niece or nephew 😘😘😘

Enjoy the biggest bottle of champers/gin/tequila when it's over, with a huge but gentle hug coming your way 🥃🍸🍹🍷🥂🍻🍺🍾🍶

[Sa_Ra in reply to Hidden]

Agreed dolly_daydream I have an amazing bond with my niece and my sister always say she is ur baby too and apparently tells me to look after her because it's good training for me lol x I don't mind though it has helped a lot with my stress levels and stopped me crying every 2mins over not having a baby. Our time will come 🙏🏽

[Hidden]

Thanks ladies.... I endeavour to hoe that just 1 day it will be me

[Bumpwanted in reply to Hidden]

It will be!! X

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Iv been there hun when my sister had hers after my second m c I know how hard it is I hope your OK. Hope your sister appreciates it. Your a strong woman and you'll be an amazing aunty. Your time will come hun sending big hugs. 🤗 xx

[Leesalou]

Totally understand I did with my ex best friend was one of her birthing partners , I was the same as you wishing it was me, she got pregnant to get a house main reason we aren't friends anymore as priorities so far apArt.

It will be your turn one day and hopefully that be one day soon xx

[baby2016]

Aw tamtam, your obviously a very strong, brave and lovely person. That takes amazing strength to do and shows just what a superwoman you are. Xx

[Hannah143]

Respect to you 🙌, of course it hurts it must be killing you inside, but shows your resolve and the lovely person you are. One day it will be your turn and I hope your sis can support you through your time xx

[ShellyC]

Well done you, that must be really tough. Thinking of you lots xx

[Leesara]

That is so selfless and strong of you. Thinking Of you.... stay strong xox

[Kelly-03]

You are such a kind, caring sister x one day keep hope your dream and miracle will

Come true xx

[Hidden]

That's very selfless and generous, you should be proud. And a nephew is really like half your kid (instead of 50% of you is 25% identical to you) so there is a lot of you in that baby too. I really hope It will be you soon xxx

[Hidden]

*******UPDATE*******

Hi all

Thanks for the support.... it was very hard.

She went on to have a baby girl this morning @ 3.59

Thanks again

Hoping we all get that moment one day xxx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I certainly hope and pray that we do too xxx

Congratulations on becoming an Aunty to your niece! Think of all the tricks you can teach her 😂 😘

[ClarabGlasgow]

Well done you & congratulations on becoming an auntie! X

[Sa_Ra]

Feel your pain tamtam because I've been there - sister loves her to bits now though as do I. If anything helping her with the baby will keep you occupied and not thinking about it as much. I absolutely adore my niece and it does help me anyway keeping busy with her. Chin up love xxx

[Hidden]

I think you are so brave and unselfish to do. You're an inspiration. I don't think I would have managed to that. I really hope you're rewarded with your own baby you really deserve it xoxo

[Bumpwanted]

Oh Hun that's so tough for you 😓 I am sure your sister will appreciate that! Massive hugs xxx