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So today I am 8dp5dt, as soon as I woke up this morning I knew AF was on her way and sure enough she has. Feeling beyond devastated x

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Oh Im so sorry to hear this, I had this twice and its devastating! Sending you bit hugs!xx

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Thank you, im devastated but kind of relieved that im not stuck in limbo anymore if that makes sense? Xx

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Yeah, I get what you mean however the rubbish thing about it is that you will be asked to carry on your meds and still do your test which is just a smack in the face when you are just getting on with things again!xx

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Oh really? I didnt realise that. Ive rang them this morning, just waiting for a call back. Im back to work tomorrow so that will be a welcome distraction xx

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Sorry to hear this. It's horrible and hard xx

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Thank you. The whole thing has been so much harder than I ever expected xx

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I know. You have done well and you have done your best. No one could ask for more xx

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Thank you xx

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Sorry to hear your news xx

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Thank you xx

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I am so sorry to hear this. Big hugs xxxx

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Thank you xx

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Sooo sorry to hear your news! Big hugs xx

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Thank you xx

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So sorry to hear this xxx

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Thank you xx

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Aw no! Bfn's suck!!...really sorry to hear this. Do you have any in the freezer? I got a bfn back in March from my first ever icsi (ttc 5yrs)...I was lucky to have some frosties so got straight back to it and got my 1st ever bfp on sat!

I know it's awful right now but take it from someone who knows. You'll bounce back, get back on the horse and get ur long awaited bfp xxx

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Thank you and congratulations on your news thats fantastic. I didnt get any frozen unfortunately. Hospital said the bleeding may be implantation but its heavy now and I know its my period :( xx

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Aw well I can promise you this is just a bump in the road...not the end of the journey! Go out, spoil yourself and have fun because before you know it you'll be in the 2ww again! 😘

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Oh I'm so sorry. This process just really sucks. X

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Thank you, it was my firdt go so atleast next time ill know what to expect xx

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It is such a tough journey! As the other ladies have said, you have done your best...no more is possible. Very sorry, it is so gutting 😒 Give yourself space and time to grieve. Thinking of you xx

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Thank you, its so much more than you can prepare for isnt it? Atleast next time I can be a little bitmore prepared xx

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so sorry to hear this. It's beyond cruel. You will get stronger in time. It may not feel like it now but you will bounce back. Best wishes for your happy ending - stay positive xx

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Thank you xx

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Sorry to hear this Hayleigh, this happened to me twice and it really sucks. Everyone says it could be implantation but you just know don't you πŸ˜” big hugs xx

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Yeah, you know your own body. I hoped this morning that maybe it was but it definitely isnt. The ironic thing is i have PCOS and very irregular periods but this one showed up bang on 28 days - typical x

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So sorry Hun. Sending you a huge hug. It's such a gruelling process. Make sure you spoil yourself to help heal after all you've been through. xxx

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Thank you, this forum has been a godsend, it makes all the difference to be able to speaj to people who really do understand xx

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Thinking of you and hoping it's not AF xxx

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Thank you, i hoped it wasnt but it is and I knew deep down xx

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Thinking of you - it's really tough. We had a negative test on the 25/6 June just before our OTD and we're also heart broken. The first week was really hard but I'm beginning to feel better. Sending you hugs. Here if you want to talk xxx

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Aww thank you and im sorry for you too. Ive been back at work today which was but tougher than i thought xx

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So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you x

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Thank you xx

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I had a lot of bleeding and when I tested at day 7 I had a BFP. It can be implantation....

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Im day 9, tested yesterday and it was a BFN hospital have asked me to go in on monday for a blood test x

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Fingers crossed ... 🀞

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Fingers crossed for you. Xx

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