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Failed again - BFN πŸ˜’πŸ’”

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So that's it! Full of hormones and feeling crappy but still nothing to show for it, no more Frosties for back up, feeling sad, angry and everything in between, think I feel worse this time, but I know it will pass, just need to ride the emotional rollercoaster until it does, although it's more like a log flume at the moment as the tears just keep coming!

We won't give up though, that's it on the NHS for us but we will be trying a fresh cycle again, I'm considering going to have the tests for implantation failure, already have the info so just have to wait for my body to do its thing and natural cycle to start again.

Good luck to everyone else in their 2ww hope to see more BFP to give some hope to this madness xxx

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Tugsgirl

So sorry to hear this and wishing you much luck for a future cycle πŸ€ xx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply toTugsgirl

Thank you. Hope your appt next week goes well xx

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Tugsgirlβ€’ in reply toNemobaby

Thank you xx

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear this Nemobaby ! Its so hard after a failed cycle. Plan something nice for yourselves to do and allow yourself time to grieve! Big hugs!xx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply toCinderella5

Thank you, think we might need to book a holiday soon xx

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CountryCat

I am so sorry Nemo...the worst news when you have put yourself through so much. Thinking of you and sending hugs xx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply toCountryCat

Thank you. Hope you're doing ok, fingers crossed you get a bfp xx

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CountryCatβ€’ in reply toNemobaby

Bless you. Take great care of yourself x

So sorry to hear this BFN's are so cruel, take time out and look after yourself xxx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply to

Thank you. Hope you're doing ok, fingers crossed for you xx

So sorry to hear his πŸ˜” xx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply to

Thank you. Fingers crossed a bfp is heading your way xx

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Sherry07

I'm sorry to hear that; take good care of yourselves. My thoughts and prayers are with you x

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply toSherry07

Thank you. Hope you're doing ok xx

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Sherry07β€’ in reply toNemobaby

Thanks, trying my best to get back to normality after a natural miscarriage. Tough time x

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Tara123

So sorry to hear this all the best for ur next cycle xx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply toTara123

Thank you. Hope you're feeling better, fingers crossed for you xx

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_MrsC

So sorry to see your post. I hope you have better luck with your next cycle and get some peace and relaxation time over the coming weeks as you recover from all of the drugs and the emotions of it all. xxx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply to_MrsC

Thank you. Hope your doing ok with your cycle, fingers crossed for you xx

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_MrsCβ€’ in reply toNemobaby

Thank you Hun. x

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Georgina78

So sorry to hear this Nemobaby, it never gets any easier to get a bfn after all we've been through to get there. Glad you have a plan and can focus on that when you've grieved and got your head together. I'm thinking the same about implantation testing, especially after a chemical pregnancy last week, I'm sure there's something going wrong there, after 4 cycles with good embryos. Going to ask advice from our consultant when we get an appointment through.

Wishing you all the best for the future xx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply toGeorgina78

Thank you, I hope you're coping as well as you can after your sad news, you must be very strong to go through 4 cycles. It's a tough journey but hopefully the miracle of science will get us where we all want to be 🀞🏻 xxx

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72cloud9

So sorry Hun! It's crushing! But liking your spirit at not giving up!! Big hugs xxx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply to72cloud9

Thank you. Fingers crossed for your test date! πŸ€žπŸ»πŸ€ xx

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72cloud9β€’ in reply toNemobaby

Ah thanks Hun, appreciate that with what u r going thru xxx

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ch319

I'm so sorry to read this it really is the worst feeling x

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply toch319

Thank you, hope you're doing ok xx

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Aleelilook

Sorry to read this, life can be an absolute shit at time (excuse my language!!) thinking of you at this time xx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply toAleelilook

It sure can, it needs a swift hard kick in the balls right now!! Hope you're ok, good luck with your next cycle xx

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Aleelilookβ€’ in reply toNemobaby

Thank you hun xxx

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NDE1987

Sorry to be reading this nemobaby, I know nothing I say will make you feel better. It's good you have a plan in place. Best wishes xxx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply toNDE1987

Thank you, it's nice to have the support of so many that understand xx

So sorry lovely - wish you all the best for your next step xx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply to

Thank you. Good luck with your cycle xx

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Thank you xx

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7AVA

Sorry to hear this - wishing you all the best in your recovery and your strength to go again when you're ready xx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply to7AVA

Thank you xx

Aww so sorry.bfn sucks.try to stay hopeful and take care of yourself.xx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply to

Thank you, hope you're doing ok xx

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emu2016

Lots of love Nemo xx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply toemu2016

Thank you, hope you're doing ok, have a nice restful weekend xx

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hannahi

Sorry to hear this ❀❀

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply tohannahi

Thank you xx

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vic77

I am so sorry to read this. It is just so so hard. We are in the same position and now going private for our 3rd cycle.let's hope we both get bfps soon xxxx

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply tovic77

Thank you, it's not fair is it ☹️ fingers crossed third time lucky is a real thing! Take care xx

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Sunshine09

So sorryπŸ’” Take time for the tears to flow , then get back up fighting xxβ€πŸŒˆπŸ’‹

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Nemobabyβ€’ in reply toSunshine09

Thank you, I will fight on. Sorry to see your sad news too, hope you're doing ok xx

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Sunshine09β€’ in reply toNemobaby

That's the stuff!! Doing much better,just like you not giving up, πŸŒˆβ€πŸ’‹

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