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Just a little note on my twin miracle.. after some ups and downs, being scared witless after my nausea and symptoms disappeared, struggling with a nasty cold and suspected infections and trying to enjoy being pregnant and not turn into a complete nervous mess.. I had my 10 week scan and Harmony test last week. Both twins were about the same size, strong heartbeats, one hell raiser moving around constantly and waving its hands, another one a bit calmer - it was amazing to see how much they've changed in just two weeks! My heart was filled with such love I will not even attempt to describe it โค

Today I got my results back and it was negative (thank you God!) and I was laughing and crying on the phone. They also confirmed to my absolute amazement that I'm having two girls!!! I honestly was convinced that at least one of them would be a boy.. but looks like we're all female household lol ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฐโค๏ธ๐Ÿ’– I thank my lucky stars every day and pray that my girls will stay happy and healthy!! Thank you so much everyone for your ongoing support - this place is such a lifesaver for good news, bad news and anything in between! We just have to keep on believing that anything and everything is possible!

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Tugsgirl profile image
Tugsgirl

Such a lovely happy post! Thank you for sharing x

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Nesfin in reply to Tugsgirl

The relief and happiness hit me like an ocean wave!! You know how hard it is not to worry constantly ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ™Š xoxo

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Tugsgirl in reply to Nesfin

Omg I never in a million years knew how much worry would be involved after a bfp!! If someone had warned me I would have thought they were exaggerating lol xx

Aww amazing so happy for you, and two gorgeous girls how exciting ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•

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Nesfin in reply to

Thank you, every step feels like a new miracle xoxo

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Nesfin. Scan looks fabulous to me! You're a quarter of the way through already! Well done you. Enjoy your "smaller" months, you'll lose sight of your toes very soon! You have to have a giggle about it, but I wish you huge luck with the rest of your pregnancy and birth. Thinking of you. Diane

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Nesfin in reply to DianeArnold

Thank you, the support from you and everyone in this forum mean so much to me โคโค

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK in reply to Nesfin

xx

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Cinderella5

Awww wow this is amazing!! What a happy day for you! So nice to see, thanks for sharing!!xx

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Nesfin in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you, love the support xoxo

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Kelly-03

Amazing news so so pleased for you xx

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Nesfin in reply to Kelly-03

Thank you so much! xoxo

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Pookymama

Aw Nesfin, what a breathtakingly joyous time for you, I'm sooo pleased! The scan photos are amazing and must feel like utter magic to you. Looking forward to watching your pregnancy progress and seeing more lovely scan pics. Well done hun and thanks for sharing xxx

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Nesfin in reply to Pookymama

It is utter magic, after being g programmed to receive only bad news, hurdles and challenges, I'm still in shock every time I receive good news xoxo

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Pookymama in reply to Nesfin

I bet it is lovely but pictures like those make the magic real and the journey to get there makes it all the more precious.

I can imagine of we IVFERS that looking at all of our babies will still take our breath away and fill us with wonder and disbelief at our luck even when our babies are all grown up after the journey it takes us to get there... says one firm believer it'll happen to another who believed til it came true... doubly!

Super exciting that you get a whole family at once too! All good things come to those who wait ey! Xx ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Buffy21

Nesfin aggghhhh I'm so freaky happy for you. I'm nervous enough with One I can only imagine the ups and downs you must be going through with two! Twin girls amazing. Will they be identical?

Love your story so far. Keep us updated xxโคโค๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿป

2 hearts 2 champagne 2 beers to celebrate your twins xx

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Nesfin in reply to Buffy21

Not identical, it will be hard enough without being able to tell them apart lol ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ™ˆ Thank you xoxo

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Smithha

So nice to hear such lovely news xxx cannot wait for more updates cxx

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Nesfin in reply to Smithha

Thank you xoxo

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Leesalou

Wow amazing. Congratulations, wish you all the best xx

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Nesfin in reply to Leesalou

Thank you xoxo

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sanj76

Incredible news.... absolutely fantastic Nesfin

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Nesfin in reply to sanj76

Thanks so much, hope you are all doing well, can't wait for your next update xoxo

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sanj76 in reply to Nesfin

Next week will be our 12 week Scan with the midwife so fingers crossed

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Nesfin in reply to sanj76

So exciting, I'm sure you'll be amazed and happy ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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Petricker

uh that's wonderful! congrats on your lovely girls, Nesfin! I'm so happy for you! glad you're feeling good. sending you lots of love and looking forward to your fab updates! xxxxx

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Nesfin in reply to Petricker

Thank you, its certainly one hurdle less on this journey! xoxo

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Beanme

What a beautiful post. Thank you for sharing this and Im delighted things are going well for you and your precious cargo:))) Wishing you all the best xxx

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Nesfin in reply to Beanme

Oh bless thank you xoxo

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CountryCat

Can just tell how happy you are...and rightly so!! Enjoy every minute xx

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Nesfin in reply to CountryCat

Thank you!! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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minerva17

Nesfin, I'm so so happy for you girl!!! 2 young ladies are inside you, that's fantastic! Have you already chosen names? :-) your post fills me with love too.

I thought I would know my babes' gender in more than a month but also decided to have harmony. Your next scan is in a week then?

Awesomely happy for you and your girls xoxoxoxo

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Nesfin in reply to minerva17

Thank you fellow twin-mum-to-be ๐Ÿ˜Š I've had a few names from the start but they may change.. still early days. VHarmony results with twins can be a bit complex as I'm sure you know but the test is well worth doing, knowing I'm in a high risk bracket and getting a negative was such a relief and burden off my shoulders. No invasive tests needed xoxo

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Jaky76

Congratulations ๐ŸŽŠ that's the best news xxx

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Nesfin in reply to Jaky76

Thank you! xoxo

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baby2016

This is such a lovely post!!! I can tell your filled with love and pride, and so you should be! Twin girls will be amazing! Did you have 2 embryos transferred for one? I've been reading about your status and can see you've sadly been through a lot ๐Ÿ˜ข And can see that your eggs seem to keep increasing in quality! Do you mind if I ask if there was anything you did to get the improvements? Aside from that, huge congrats ๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘ถ๐ŸปXx

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Nesfin in reply to baby2016

I had two transferred and they both stayed ๐Ÿ˜ It's been a tough journey and I was in a very dark place last year but still consider myself luckier than most so far.. I'm just grateful for every single day nothing goes wrong! I blamed myself for the mc but take no credit this time, it's my lil girls who do the fighting! I did up my routines in terms of diet (high protein, lots of milk, no alcohol) already before my third cycle started and also added moderate exercise and during stimms heat on my tummy when my follies desperately needed a growth spur before EC.. I believe firmly that it all helped but who knows! My doc said it was also a question of finding exactly what meds mixture works best for me. Seems my body needed constant stimulation to be woken up lol Wish you all the best in your journey!! xoxo

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Missy_22

Wonderful news congratulations xxxxxx

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Nesfin in reply to Missy_22

Thank you!! xoxo

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tiger-cub

Aaaaaawwwww bless u gurl

That's amazing

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Nesfin in reply to tiger-cub

Thank you, I'll get to your pm shortly xoxo

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Sunshine09

Beautiful congratulations ๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹

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Nesfin in reply to Sunshine09

Thank you!! xoxo

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Sunnysam91

Congratulations on twin girlies how wonderful keep glowing xx

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Nesfin in reply to Sunnysam91

Thank you, think my mind is glowing although maybe not my skin, wonder what's in the hormones lol xoxo

Congratulations ! Xxx

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Nesfin in reply to

Thank you xoxo

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G_H_C

Ahh how exciting! Twin girls! ๐Ÿ˜€ I've just had my 10 week scan (for peace of mind) and was v happy to see my one moving around.

Still early days like you (and i will likely need to have the harmony test but waiting for my midwife app first) but big congrats to you and hope all continues to go well xx

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Nesfin in reply to G_H_C

Thank you, its lovely to see your little coming to "live" when they start moving ๐Ÿ˜ My midwife actually recommended a private test (and gave me information) so sounds sensible to wait for your appointment. Congrats and wish you a smooth pregnancy, keep us posted! xoxo

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G_H_C

Yes it was indeed ๐Ÿ˜€ The constant worrying is hard so I was v glad I had the extra scan.

I'm pretty sure the midwife will recommend it to me as I'm not a 'young 'un'!

Thank you and you too xx

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LHow81

Lovely news wishing you a happy healthy pregnancy xx

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Nesfin

Thank you, your boy is gorgeous xoxo

Beautiful.gives so much hope for the rest of us .congratulations and please enjoy the girls.

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Nesfin in reply to

Thank you, I don't want to upset anyone with my progress but to show that receiving good news is possible.. fingers crossed it will continue, I'm happy and grateful to have come this far xoxo

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lovewinspain

Congratulations....

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Nesfin in reply to lovewinspain

Thank you xoxo

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misswinky34

Aww, too cute! โค how lucky to know the gender so early! Congrats xxx

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Nesfin in reply to misswinky34

Thank you, finding out the sex is an added bonus! ๐Ÿ˜ xoxo

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Fatooli28

Amazing and beautiful news ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿค—thank you for sharing โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

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Nesfin in reply to Fatooli28

Thank you!! โคโค

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WeeMrsH

This is brilliant, congratulations!!

Want to ask if you don't mind- what's the Harmony test?

xx

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Nesfin in reply to WeeMrsH

Thank you! โค Harmony is a type of NIPT (non-invasive prenatal test) i.e. blood test, that analyses the DNA in a sample to predict the risk of Down syndrome (trisomy 21) and other genetic conditions called trisomy 18 and trisomy 13. It's not provided by NHS but as it is so much more accurate than the NHS test my midwife recommended it to me too. Additionally with the test they can look if the male chromosome exists, hence finding out the sex of the baby xoxo

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City74

Congratulations on your lovely girls. How exciting! xx

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Nesfin in reply to City74

Thank you โค

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72cloud9

Ah got goosebumps hearing your wonderful news!! Great everything is ok and that u will have girl power in your home!!๐Ÿ˜ŠX

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Nesfin in reply to 72cloud9

Oh what a lovely message, thank you so much โค

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Daisy-Mae

Congratulations. Such wonderful and exciting news. Sending you and your girls lots of love xxx

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Nesfin in reply to Daisy-Mae

Thank you, we very much appreciate it xoxo

I've just looked on your profile from your reply to me & its made me smile so much! Absolutely amazing! So happy for you x

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Nesfin in reply to

Oh bless, thank you โคโค It's a rocky road but we're going strong so far! xoxo

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MommaBear16

Nesfin my love, what a lovely post, so so happy for you I'm so glad things are going well despite all your worries. Sending love to all three of you, take care x x x

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Nesfin in reply to MommaBear16

Hello mommabear16 how lovely to see you here and thank you so much for your kind words โคโค I hope you are well and keeping positive as always. Hugs! xoxo

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