Caved in - done early test (BFN)

[stargaze89]

Well I'm ashamed to say I caved this morning and done a HPT which came back as negative. I'm hoping this is just due to it being to early to detect pregnancy hormones? Has anyone tested negative early but came back as positive when done on the correct date or afterwards? Transfer was 13.09.16 (5 day blasto) xxx

[Hidden]

Hey

Hang in there, it could just be super early. Until day 12 nothing is certain. Better to wait for the official beta test💕

[stargaze89 in reply to Hidden]

Hi,

Thanks for your reply! Here's hoping your right - was silly of me to do one so soon - patience is a virtue! lol xxx

[abbie103]

Everyone's body works differently hun, dont panic keep your self calm, its all down to hormones and also can depend on what test you do some people dont get a positive until the end of their 2 week wait, dont let it throw u off, keep thinking positive unfortunately for me i tested on day 5 and 7 of a blasto and i got negatives tests on both i started spotting on day 10 and my period continued, I will never test early again i will wait to actual test day now as it made me so ill after that result, but we all know how hard the situations are when we want something so bad, my saying through this horrible journey is 'expect the worse and hope for the best' keep going and be strong the result might take longer to show in your body than others, did u have a fresh cycle or a FET, ? xxx

[stargaze89 in reply to abbie103]

Hi AbbieThanks for your reply - Sorry to hear you weren't successful on that occasion, your definitely right about the positive thinking! It was a fresh cycle grade A 5 day blasto so really had my hopes up but just over the last couple of days I had a bad feeling it hadn't worked and feel as though I am about to get my period. Can only wait now until Friday with all my fingers and toes crossed! lol xxx

[NDE1987]

Hey Hun when is it meant to be your official test date? X

[stargaze89 in reply to NDE1987]

Hi, My official test date is this Friday 23.09.16 (egg transfer was 13.09.16 - 5 day blasto) xxx

[Amanda86]

Hey hopefully it's just too early and you'll get your BFP!

When is your test date?

I'm due to start short protocol on 6th October.

Xxx

[stargaze89 in reply to Amanda86]

Hi, my test day is this Friday 23.09.16 - got all my fingers and toes crossed until then! lol Good luck on your journey!! xxx

[Amanda86 in reply to stargaze89]

Thank you. Good luck for Friday xxx

[rainbowbright]

I'm pretty sure I caved and tested early too, probably around the same time (although I had a day 3 transfer)...it was also negative, although that just confirmed the HCG trigger shot had left my system....as I got a BFP 3 days before OTD, and then again OTD (I tested early again as I had raging late onset OHSS).

Try to relax and not stress too much (easier said than done when you've already gone through it, I know)

Good luck x

[stargaze89 in reply to rainbowbright]

Hi,

Thanks for your reply - giving me a bit of hope -will now wait until Friday and hopefully get BFP! xxx

[rainbowbright in reply to stargaze89]

I'll keep everything crossed for you! x

[Hollibob]

Stay hopeful...lots of people go from negative one day to positive the next X

[stargaze89 in reply to Hollibob]

Hi, Thanks - staying hopefully now until OTD Friday xxx

[katiemiller94]

Still super early so stay positive! Good luck and sending lots of love!! xxxxxx

[stargaze89 in reply to katiemiller94]

Hi, Thanks Katie - staying hopefully now until OTD Friday xxx

[Hidden]

Stay positive. I always test early as I can't wait but like everyone always say they give you a test date for a reason xxx

[stargaze89 in reply to Hidden]

Hi, Thanks - I know, I promised myself I wouldn't cave in early but couldn't resist, will now stay hopeful until OTD Friday xxx

[Marmo]

We wanted to get past the 12 week scan first before we shared our story. But wanted to share our journey to give some confidence to all those people who worry themselves silly about IVF. The reason being is that in our case I can only share the advice that if it’s going to happen it’s going to happen and no matter how much rest or anything that you do has any influence on whether IVF works or not. If the embryo is going to grow it will find its own way and we are living proof of this.

I will give a brief summary of our story. We had our ET (DE IVF in Ukrainian clinic) weeks ago. So we just got on with our lives , which includes 1 mile walks, gardening, etc. Did early test – BFN, another one – the same. Furthermore I had a heavy bleed 2+ weeks after the ET so we presumed we’d lost it. Stomach cramps and other pains…Then we had the surprise of our lives when we took what we thought was a pointless test, but this turned out to be positive! The bleeding turned out to be a bit of lining round the egg sac and nothing to worry about. Proof indeed that you actually don’t need to change your lifestyle, if the little embryo wants to grow, it will. We have no overriding power where nature is concerned!!

[stargaze89 in reply to Marmo]

Hi,

Thanks for your reply! Your so right! I think if its meant to happen it will find a way! Am trying to take each day as it comes without worrying to much (easier said than done lol) x