hanging on!

Thanks everyone who supported me, i am feeling much better and stronger today. I am so grateful that when all seems grim i can come here and get supported in the way that best for me. My family and friends mean well, but most times they just say the things that they think i may want to hear, it sometimes get me more upset.

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Glad you're feeling better 😊 I get it I really struggle being near pregnant women, I avoid em at all costs,feel like an odd ball lol. sadly I think it's normal to feel like that in this situation. 😔 I think it's hard for friends and family they want to make you feel better. I suppose it's hard to know what to say unless you've been in/going through this. Sometimes you just want people just to acknowledge its a crap situation to be in. I think the best thing people can say is "I don't understand completely what you're going through, but I'm here whenever you need to talk". I have taught my mum to say this to me!! This site has really helped me, it's reassuring to know I'm not the only one going through this. Your baby will be worth the fight 💗 x x x

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Thank you so much, Jess1981, what you said it make so much sense. it been so long for me that sometimes i feel like i'm getting use to seeing only a negative pregnancy test. It been over three years now, 2 operation, one of my tubes removed and 3 blastocyst transfer. Yet! i seems not to have any luck. Am on clomid now trying to see if it will happen naturally. My menstruation was 5 days late this month but a negative again. I guess that probably pushed me over the hill a little. Sometimes i feel like just giving up it so much easier but i then remind myself why i should not, not yet. Never mind, i'm still hanging there. Thank you, I wish you all the best, x

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Hi hop36. Just to say that I was pleased to hear that you are feeling much better. It's never easy, especially as you have been through so much.. However, I do wish you both well with trying again on your own. Perhaps one tube can do the trick - let's hope so! Diane

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Thank you Diane, I am really trying to keep positive. Hope you are okay, Take care.

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Hi hop36. I'm fine thanks! Thinking of you. Diane