8th go at ivf and still no bfp :(

[vonny27]

Can someone advise me on what to do now. Give up or try again? Thanks

[Kimttcnumber2]

Hi vonny27

ThAts really tuff going chick, do you mind me asking your age and you infertility problem? You are a very strong women I'm just to start my first ever cycle next month start injecting 17 th july, and me and husband said we will keep going as long as we can afford to and as long as we have hope but have the doctors said why eight cycles and no BFP and is there anything they can change honey Kim xxx

[vonny27 in reply to Kimttcnumber2]

Hi im 37 years old bern trying since I was 21 ive had two ectopic so ive no tubes. I got pregnant last year but ad a miscarriage at 8 wks. Im due to see my consultant monday 23rd see what he suggested now. Good luck x

[Hollibob]

Like Kim said, have they given you any insight?

Have they discussed anything connected to you also having endometrial scratching? It seems to work for some people....good luck x

[vonny27 in reply to Hollibob]

I had the scratch on this cycle still no luck x

[Hidden]

I'm sorry. It is really tough. What has you dr said to you as part of the review? After our 3rd attempt, it was suggested to change some aspects which after much thought, we did.

[vonny27 in reply to Hidden]

Ive done allsorts not all my cycles have been the same ive ad the scratch, steriods, ,bloodthining injections. I just don't know what else to do x

[behappy1]

Sorry to hear that. I know of many people who have had a positive result after endometrial scratch. Maybe it's worth a go if you've not already tried it. Otherwise have you thought of surrogacy? Best of luck whatever you decide x

[vonny27 in reply to behappy1]

Surrogacy is an option but I cant afford to do it x

[behappy1]

It does all become so expensive which is soo unfair. X

[vonny27 in reply to behappy1]

It sure is everything they offered ive done which as cost me I just dont understand why it wont work and im scared my doc may tell me to give up. I want to be a mum so badly heart aches. Thank you for your kind words X

[behappy1]

Bless ya - I sincerely hope that you get your wish to have your own baby. X

[Kimttcnumber2]

That's really tough I'm sending lots of hugs and kisses you are a very strong women and I don't think if it was me that I would give up even if the doctor told me I would look into going aboard to do it, I really hope you get your rainbow and I mean really you deserve it anytime you need to talk I'm here if not take care and I hope everything turns out good in the end xxxx

[Kimttcnumber2]

Hi again just quickly I've just had a thought have you had your embryos Phd tested it's where they make sure that your embryos have 24 chromasons not sure that's the right way of spelling it but I heard it at my seminar that they can have a perfect embryo that looks perfect but when they had tested them 2 out of the three embryos where abnormal just an idea sweetie it cost a bit more but you never know if you haven't had it then it could help xxx

[GandT]

Have you tried Chinese natural remedies? We're trying this now and they believe they can get the weaknesses in the womb stronger BEFORE trying ivf. Sometimes no matter what you try with NHS - scratch, steroids, Clomid, you get the same result - like us. But if the body is week initially then getting it stronger with Chinese herbs, massage, acupuncture is worth a try perhaps? They are Chinese doctors dotted about all over in most large towns, cities.