Hi I'm new to this group. I've been trying for a baby for 14 years & been going through ivf since 2017 but started the treatment properly last year 2021. I went for my first egg collection but I was really bad with the treatment where I couldn't go for fresh transfer as I had OHSS. So I had to wait till my body recovered. But then in May I went for frozen embroy transfer, the embroy was a grade A and it was perfect. Everything went perfect untill I started to bleed. Now I kept getting different answers all the time it could be implantation, the pessarys ect. But I knew it wasn't any of day. The 2ww was scary as I knew I wasn't pregnant as the bleeding got worse. I went up the hospital and hearing them words sorry you've had a miscarriage was heart brokering as I've been wanting to be a mum since I was 18.
But now I'm still bleeding after I've had my miscarriage on the 1st June 22. I've been referred to the woman's hospital in Staffordshire and got to go for a pelvis scan in the next 2 weeks or so. But I'm still struggling to coming to terms with everything. People keep telling me that I should move on but it's hard when I've got friends who are pregnant or having their babies today. I just keep crying as I'm so heart broken that I would of been a mummy by now or my baby would of been due soon.
How do I deal with all this?? How do I switch off?? As its effecting my marriage. Xxxx