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Morning ladies.

Around 4 + 4 today. Had lots of lower back ache and a bit of pelvic discomfort the past 3 days.

After so many miscarriage around 6-7 weeks it’s hard to be positive.

No bleeding or spotting as yet which is good.

Anyone else feeling the same xx

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I had this on my OTD so 4+2 and again 2 days later at 4+2! Really intense lower back ache, I was so worried just went to bed and waited for it to pass. In my case It was good signs as I had twins 3 months ago so it must have been them getting settled in! Hopefully this is the case for you too lovely! 🤞🏽 It’s really hard to stay positive after such hardship so don’t be hard on yourself for feeling that way, totally understandable. Just take it one day and a time x

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Hallj10 in reply to Mai94

Thank you so much for the reply. Yeah I am hoping it is settling in. Tests are getting stronger. Have a good blood hcg and progesterone level.

That could be the problem too causing my ligaments to lax as my progesterone is so high with all the extra I am on.

Still no severe cramps or bleeding like the last times so staying positive and like you say taking it one day at a time resting x

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Mai94 in reply to Hallj10

Absolutely, I took progesterone for this one too so may have been a contributing factor!Fingers crossed lovely, try to enjoy it when you can and your not feeling too worried! Those little moments are very powerful x

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Hallj10 in reply to Mai94

Take that back. Started bleeding this morning 😞

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Mai94 in reply to Hallj10

I’m so sorry to hear this! Hope you’re as ok as can be! X

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Kate120

I’m so sorry to hear this. Have you had any tests done to see what could be causing the miscarriages?

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Hallj10 in reply to Kate120

Oh yeah I have a few problems. A clotting factor issue

Adenomyosis

Uterine abnormality and

Recurrent subchorionic haematomas.

Just had a early scan and the gestational sac is still there!

I am so suprised. There’s is nothing in it yet but that’s about right for this time.

Such a head fuck!!

Couldn’t see a haematoma so hoping I’ve passed it all.

Done BHcg bloods today and will repeat on Wednesday to see if it’s doubling.

So sorry to hear this Hallj10 it’s exactly what I had experienced around the same time and then a bleed followed but it unfortunately hasn’t been smooth sailing for me. If you see my earlier post.

I would recommend still get your hcg levels tested as the cramps and bleeding for me wasn’t actually a miscarriage even though it still may not end the way I had hope but still might be worth getting them checked. Sending all the love, I know this is heartbreaking xxx take care x

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Yeah this is my 5th try now with 3 maybe 4 miscarriages if I lose this one.

I get these glimmers of howl then things usually change on the next scan 😞

Will just have to sit still and hope the hcg doubles then wait for the next scan. It’s all I can do x

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I’m so sorry I can’t even begin to imagine experiencing 3/4 miscarriages. This will potentially be my second and the heartache is just unbearable. Just know you are not alone. Please hold on the that glimmer of hope, even though my situation may differ from yours my bleeding/back pain didn’t indicate a miscarriage and I hope it’s the same for you. I’m praying you get your miracle 🙏❤️ Xx

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Yeah it’s been a very difficult journey so far.

This is my last embryo and last try. The same thing happens every time I could write it.

I won’t be making any more. If I loose this one I will be looking at adoption. I have way too many problems and tried everything. Currently on a huge cocktail of medication too.

Thank you xx

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Really hope you’re ok. Sending lots of love xx

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Unfortunately not good news x

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Oh I’m so so sorry 💔 this journey is just cruel xx

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