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Pregnant again and terrified!

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Hello all! I hope you’re all having a lovely day!

I found out on Saturday after doing 5 home pregnancy tests that I’m 3-4 weeks pregnant.

I’m absolutely terrified after my last pregnancy ended in miscarriage at 8 weeks. I’m over analysing the slightest thing such as light spotting/bleeding after intercourse and my breast tenderness fluctuates which makes me panic when they’re not as sore just in case I’m miscarrying again 😩 I’ve told my partner and my parents so I have the support throughout the pregnancy but I’m still so scared of losing another one!

Thank you!

Chloe x

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My prayers with you! just stay positive and get all the support you need! Im newly pregnant too! being a mother is such a blessing, me and my wife had a long journey to become parents. We travelled overseas just for a sperm donation procedure but it was all worth it!

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Cs131193 in reply to Maeve88Troy

Hello Maeve88Troy,

Thank you! My prayers are with you to! Congratulations on your pregnancy! Bringing new life into this world is special and is definitely worth doing anything for! I wish you and your wife all the best for your future with your new arrival and I pray that it is a safe and enjoyable journey for you both 😊

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Maeve88Troy in reply to Cs131193

Thank you for your kind words! Did you get pregnant naturally or did you get ivf too?

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Cs131193 in reply to Maeve88Troy

😊 I got pregnant naturally, I was originally diagnosed with PCOS but after my last miscarriage they found on the scan that I had been misdiagnosed.

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Maeve88Troy in reply to Cs131193

Wow that is amazing! I bet a huge weight was lifted when you found out about the misdiagnosis. Getting pregnant naturally is such a blessing! you would have had to spend waay much more if u needed IVF like me

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Cs131193 in reply to Maeve88Troy

It definitely was a massive weight lifted! I can imagine! But the cost of the ivf will be worth it in the end 🙂

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Maeve88Troy in reply to Cs131193

Yes, i believe that every single penny i spent was worth it. The clinic i went to called DunyaIVF even had facilities that made my jaw drop!!

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Cs131193 in reply to Maeve88Troy

Exactly! You can’t put a price on bringing new life into this world 🙂 that must have put your mind at ease with facilities like that 🙂 definitely gives you faith in the place you’re having the IVF treatment 🙂

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Maeve88Troy in reply to Cs131193

Yes! it just gets really disheartening when you go through failed cycles because you just feel like your savings are getting wasted but I guess not giving up and trying again really pays off. The next nine months are going to be a rollercoaster ride for us! sending you one big hug!

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Cs131193 in reply to Maeve88Troy

I really feel for you having to go through such a difficult experience. I’m so glad it’s finally happening for you now though 🙂 thank you! Sending one back 😊

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