Positive results but bleeding

[preety123]

I am 20 days late and tried pregnancy test found that it's positive. 3 days after the test had bleeding for 1 day and it's not normal because usually, my AF ends up to 5 days. now I really confused and still don't know if I am pregnant or what?

[preety123]

Hey bathie thanks for your concern dear, I had an appointment with my GP.But unfortunately, It is too late. it was a miscarriage. I lose my baby.

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Having been through a early miscarriage in July- I want to say how sorry I am to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time xoxo

[preety123 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks for ur support dear. I really feel very guilty. I really don't understand that how can I so careless??? It's so embarrassing that I am unable to take care of myself, as a result, I lost my baby.

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honestly sweetie it is not your fault- you did nothing wrong sadly sometimes nature doesn't always get it right. . I know I blamed myself for our loss for ages- I think we want to know why the pregnancy was lost and when we don't know the cause we blame ourselves- even my hubby blamed himself for not regularly taking vitamins which is daft! You should be able to access counselling service via your GP- it is such a difficult thing to come to terms with-esp when it is so wanted and fought for. Its taken me a long time to be ok- even now at times I still cry over the loss but it happens less. Time is a healer and you will find a way to live with the loss- you never forget and neither would you want to. The positive thing to hang onto is you can conceive- and I'm sure you will again soon. During difficult times I hang onto the hope we can fall- it took us 5 years and 10 months of ttc to get diagnosis and have endometriosis treated and volia we fell proving that was our issue and trust me being able to get pregnant is huge progress although both of us didn't get the outcome we hoped for. I read an article on BBC health website that claims you are more likely to conceive within 6 months of a miscarriage. Take your time to grieve but don't lose hope it can and will happen for you xoxo