Hope you’re all well.
Like usual I’ll get straight to the point.
Me and my fiancé have a really good relationship but each have our own struggles and tend to be a bit up and down individually/personally. We support each other, help each other when it comes to the house and our 3 children as best we can and really try to maintain a good intimacy and sex life so we can feel good about ourselves and each other.
Unfortunately my man is a bit depressed at the moment I’m trying to support him by taking over a bit at home so he can sort a few things out and take a bit of time to himself (he rarely puts himself first), it’s half term, I’ve started a new job and am already doing extra to help cover shifts, I help friends a lot (they help me no end too)...
Anyway.. amongst all this we’ve been having great sex.. but since 3 good rounds in 4-5 days 😊😚😛😋😂 I’ve been in agony 😩. My stomach aches, My bowel symptoms seem worse (there was definitely no anal involved I assure you), my pelvis feels tight, my lump hurts, my hip and lower back are throbbing most the time again..
Surely this isn’t all from sex.. I’m not diagnosed officially, got a pre op date for laparoscopy and laparotomy (removal of ?granuloma ?cesarean Endometrioma ?horrible lump!
The surgeon I met was really only interested in the lump and I’m so scared he’s not going to look properly.
I feel like there is so much going on in my body/pelvis and life at the moment, I want answers, I want to know what is happening and what I can do about it.
This post is a massive ramble as I feel like I’m just about holding things together.
☝🏻 that’s all the stuff I’m thinking about and needed if off my chest.
Any advice in any area much appreciated
I’m not all doom and gloom, I’m doing it. I’m holding it down, my kids are alive and mostly smiling 🤣
Thanks for reading xx