Confused!!

[Mrs_G21]

Hi,im new to all this,ive been reading all your posts and alot of what you are all saying rings the same with me. I havent been diagnosed yet. My periods have always been irregular since they started at 13. I can go months without one for the past few years now some of them have been very long,bleeding for 3 weeks with very heavy days. I have no energy. Before the bright red blood I get black or very dark brown which is like tar. I also suffer from lower back pain. During my last period I thought I had a water infection but i didnt just alot of pressure in my pelvis.

Do most people have surgery to help or is this just if you would like a family? I have had a child and dont want any more so what happens then?

Sorry for the long post!