Hi everyone, I'm new here but I would like some advise and help to understand something.
I've never had problems with alcohol but my fiance is. He already was before I met him, so I was aware of what I was getting into. Or I thought I was. He accept that he has a problem and already went to rehab before me. He always says that he wants to stop, but everytime he start something like counselling ou aa meetings, he gives up after a couple of weeks.
The thing is that I dont know how to deal with this. I know that the decision to look for help is 100% his, and there is no much what I can do. But I would like to know what I can do. In the beginning I use to fight with him, then I start to bargain with him, now I just ignore. But nothing makes he goes after help. He says he wants to stop, he feels really bad after a night of drinking, but he doesn't do anything! Is there a way to advise him in a way that he listen to me and doesn't feel attacked or judged?