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hi i m diabetic patient for last 3 year what about my marriage can i get married?

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Peace7

Of course you can. Look out for a nice caring girl.

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Peace7

Hi India, I am fine and hope you are fine too. I have asked a grocer from Pune to parcel me 5 kgs of wheat. His number was given to me by Guptaji who is on the forum from Pune. Hope he sends it soon. I desperately want to re-start LWMR. It was doing me good.

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yatheendradas

You can definitely get married and have a very happy wedded life Diabetics is not a decease and can be controlled.

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shiivu in reply to yatheendradas

thank you very much....

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Peace7

You mean to say that diabetes is a rich man's disease. With the type of food LCHF advises to eat, YES, it is.

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Peace7

Hi Naqsh, I have yet not received the parcel. I'll get in touch with him again and also mention about your requirement. His name is Sanjay Shah and No. is 020-26340470.

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everexotic

You ca of course get married, but keep your diabetes in check, otherwise you will find your sexual life ebbing, creating problems in your married life. Diabetes does effect one's capacity to have sex.

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shiivu in reply to everexotic

thank you very much....

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everexotic

Of course you can get married, but keep in mind that uncontrolled Diabetes does affect your sex life, sooner or later. Like Medfree suggests, stay away from those carbohydrate dispensing food joints.

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shiivu in reply to everexotic

thank you very much....

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everexotic

Thank you medfree. So nice of you.

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Peace7

Thank you for your concern.

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Dreamcatcher42

Yes If you are in love!

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shiivu in reply to Dreamcatcher42

thank you very much.... but i m not in love

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liverane

Tell the truth and get married. Give her the freedom of choice and have open mind . Don't get discouraged. Best wishes.

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Peace7

Will you have the mash or rotis.. If mash, then 5 kgs will go a long way, otherwise storing will be a problem, there would be all possibilities of it attracting worms when stored for long. By the way, I am from Nasik. I have spoken about you too today and he is willing to send a minimum 5 Kgs parcel. What he told me is, he couldn't get hold of any transporter to send it.

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Peace7

He has not yet told me the rates. Should be around Rs.75/- per Kg + transport. This wheat is really sweet and tasty and good for the entire family and am glad you switched on to this, but the only problem is procuring it. When I purchased it from Nasik I got it for Rs.23/- but due to no demand they don't keep it anymore.

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Peace7

Have you telephoned him ?

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shiivu

thank u all for giving suggestions...

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shiivu

thank you very much....

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shiivu

thank you very much....

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rcrbabu

Dear Shivu, Don't get fear about sugar for your marriage. I am diabetic since Mar 1996 at 37Y 6M now I am 55Y 5M. This sugar make me slim (In 1996 78Kgs now 56Kgs) and I am till date taking only tablets and it has not attacked or conveyed to my wife. So it may be generic or our body chemical structure. We 1st Indian -(now most of Indians have + BS few has -BS )- taking daily rice and it allied products - It will also enhance sugar level. Don't fear, your guts only will take very good physique and future happy life. So happily get your marriage and be happy with your future life.

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shiivu in reply to rcrbabu

thnk u very much for replying...

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getz08

yes you can.

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KRISHNAVENINAIR

Hi, I wud like to know the answer if its a girl and she is diabetic. How wud she search for a bridegroom?In a typical Indian marriage set up, if the girl discloses the bridegroom about her health status there is every possibilty that she will be rejected. worse than rejection her ill-health status will be spread like a wild fire among relatives and society.

Should she drop the idea of getting married and lead her entire life sinlge??

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KRISHNAVENINAIR

she is type 1. Yes I too agree that there are rational guys. But its very rare and hard to find them. In a typical traditional bridal hunt there is every possibility that a guy can reject her. The hysteria of getting rejected and being looked down by relatives becomes worse for a girl. Otherwise she is perfect in every other sense-pretty, slim, got a govt job.

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cureAdministrator in reply to KRISHNAVENINAIR

KRISHNAVENINAIR mutual trust is base of marriage...and Type 1 needs continuous monitoring and medication... so no one can hide it longer.... and once trust is breached married life will be shattered...

So better to be honest....

Be sure....God is Great....marriages are made in heaven and celebrated on earth...

So wait for right person who will accept u as you are....

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cureAdministrator in reply to cure

Welcome KRISHNAVENINAIR :)

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KRISHNAVENINAIR

Very True sir!!! Specially Indian culture is very much biased against women.

She has tried to find her match!!!but miserably that guy too walked away after knowing that she is diabetic.

I don't know whats in store for her..Just hope that she finds a suitable match.

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