Hello. First post, my dad essentially showed up at my house on 10th July, super distressed as he said he couldnt focus and had a bad headache and was just really confused.
Fast forward, he’s had an abnormal white cell count in 2016 which would have shown he had CLL (if he’d gone to the doctors to find out).
We thought he was having a stroke but basically the doctors have decided that while it’s rare that he’s got a big disturbance in left hemisphere of brain and the cancer caused it.
It’s given him severe expressive and reflexive asphasia / dysphasia - which means he’s now essentially unable to really communicate at all.
The cancer diagnosis almost feels like an aside.
He had heart spasms in reaction to the lumbar chemo and got moved onto Ibrutinib. Which apparently he’s just going to carry on taking till it works or doesn’t .
Two months or so down the line - it just feels like it’s all getting worse because of the asphasia and it’s all a bit much. Be great to talk to anyone who’s gone through / is going through similar caring for someone.
How did you / do you cope?