Sadly, after an amazing, courageous fight, my Dad passed away yesterday.
His eighth bout of pneumonia was too much for him, and he died peacefully and pain free. He made it to his 93rd birthday two weeks ago. Asked what presents he wanted, he said to reach 94!
Thank you all.. The support has been a great comfort during a difficult time.
Fight on everyone, Dad showed that a strong spirit still works when the DRs have nothing else to offer.
Kate
Oh Kate, I'm heartfelt sorry to hear that. What a guy he obviously was with his daughter fighting every step with him by his side. He gave the best and strongest fight back ever and despite the odds, came out ready for the next round until the grand old age of 93! I'm glad it was pain free.
You'll miss him massively but can be proud that he was a real CLL crusader. He obviously had a great deal to live for.
Warm best wishes to you, take care of yourself and sincere condolences to everyone who loved him.
Newdawn
Thank you. He was an amazing man, and not because he was my dad! So many times the DRs gave him no chance, and he defied them again and again! We're sad because he died alone, but I think, to the end, he did it his way!
Dear Kate, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. I appreciate your encouraging comments about your Dad's fighting spirit, and I send my warm condolences.
Thank you, I hope his story helps all of you....never give up, life is precious, the spirit is stronger than any medicine.
This has to be true because I should have died back in 2011 from pneumonia and I am still trying to get back to "normal" after pneumonitis and now some rare bacterium that sent my o2 level abnormal. My oncologist told the hospital doc I was at end of my disease process and here I am and when he saw me two weeks ago he said you look great! Maybe he used reverse psychology on me when I was in the hospital-not sure but I thought to myself-I show you I`m going to survive this. Now don`t get me wrong the feeling to give up is almost as strong! What gives me hope is that this life is not all there is. There`s the paradise that God has promised where there will be no more sickness, sorrow or death! Re. 21:3-5.
Thank you! Dad certainly showed that the human spirit can defy all the poor prognoses the doctors give! He fought til the very end, those who knew him , including doctors didn't know how he did it. So it must have been his own strength. To survive seven bouts of pneumonia twice with sepsis is unbelievable. The final eighth bout didn't get him without him fighting to the end, two days before he passed he was wanting out his bed, as he reckoned he wouldn't get better lying in bed all day!! Fight on!!!!
Xxx
May God bless you and your Dad may he rest in peace.
Kate, thinking of you and your family and thankful your father died peacefully.
So sorry to hear this, Kate. He sounds like an amazing character and you a wonderful daughter. You have both been an inspiration to us all - and you still are.
Thinking of you and your family as you adjust to your loss…
Paula
Kate,
Thanks for sharing your dad's story. Wishing you warm memories of a giant of a man. May his spirit live on as it did for 93 years.
Kindness always,
Sally (USA)
So sorry for you Kate and your loss, I will think of your dad as I am cycling to Paris.
Jules flying for us all
So sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing his journey with us.
Condolences. Now some time to stop fighting. You can rest,cry now and then and be satisfied you were a good daughter!
Thanks for all the lovely comments. I'm so glad I found this forum, I wish I had found it sooner! It's been a pleasure knowing each and every one of you.
Kate
Xxx
So sorry to hear about your dad. What an inspiration he was to us all. Condolences to you all and best wishes .
Sally UK
So sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.
I can imagine your sadness ( coming up to my dear mother's anniversary in a few weeks time).
Your lovely dad is no longer suffering and at peace at last. 🙏🏼
Im sorry for your loss.
Kate,
My heart goes out to your family. He is surely looking down on you peacefully and happily. My condolences, and my what a great long life your dad has lived!
Lizette
Good to know that he passed gently following a long and courageous fight. I'm sure your support helped him throughout and now you know he is beyond further pain or struggle. Be gentle with yourself as you come to terms with how life is for you now.
Hugs and tears !
So sorry Kate...
Love and blessings to you and your family.
So sorry to read your post Kate. Please pass on my condolences to your family. Your Dad will probably be able to regail everyone 'up above" with all his stories far and wide. Remember all the fun times you shared and all the wonderful memories that go with them. He will now be the Bright Shiney Star looking down at you.
BIG BIG HUG. Take care of yourself
Susiecarer x
Sending condolences for the passing of your dad to you and your family . God bless julia
Dear Kate So sorry to hear of your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss Kate. I know it has been very difficult for you and your Dad. You were both very lucky to have each other.
So sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. You must have lovely memories and good stories to tell about him.
No matter how long your parents live it is always sad to lose them, cherish the memories.
UK Marc
Dear Kate so sorry to read your post and sending my warm condolences to you and all your family. He sounds an amazing character who refused to give in to CLL and may I thank you for sharing your world with us. With love xx
Our thoughts and prayers to you and your family on your loss! May his spirit live within each of you! Sounds like a strong willed man!
So sorry Kate. Time to look back on all the good times with your Dad and how much you meant to each other. Take care of yourself xxx
Thank you for sharing your father and his story with us. What a wonderful memory the picture you posted is of a very special man. My condolences to everyone who loved him.
So sorry to hear the news about your dad but how amazing to reach 93! Make sure you now take care of yourself.
Netty
So sorry for your loss😔and your dad may he rest in peace.
I am so sorry for your loss.❤️
God bless him and bless you. My sincere condolences to you.
Your Dad was a great fighter for sure !!!
Only real fighters can stand for so long this disease !!!!
All the best for you, my best wishes.
Thank you,! He was an amazing fighter. So proud of him.
My deepest condolences on the passing of your dear father. May the wonderful memories of him always stay strong xx
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