I just found out from my niece that my brother had a bone marrow transplant. Was shocked no one told me. He had melanoma did a trial drug then got lymphoma.I asked who donor was? Said used own Of course cancer came back with a vengeance and was too late. So my desire to use my own right now doesn't look so good! But I don't know if he had genetic testing like me because it is a fairly new thing and not taken too seriously. So without knowing that I can't believe he'd use his own with such an aggressive cancer as melanoma. I knew my paternal uncle had skin cancer but don't know what kind.But if it was melanoma also that means it might be heredity. So since CLL is heredity also I don't think it's a good idea to use my own in view of what happened to my brother. But then can I trust any of my brothers now- only 3 left! Had 6 siblings and now only 3 boys left. Can I trust that they don't have cancer brewing! I am still suffering pnemonitis from zydelig and have to go back to lung specialist because I am not improving. I know I can't have any treatment now because I am so sick. So I am hanging out coughing my lungs out and have to go back to lung specialist because of this.