i feel ugly in some sense

[user533]

hello yall. i had a surgery in past october to fix an ugly feature that couldnt go away on its own. the result was fine , but the surgeon didnt used the method i wanted him to use ( i didnt had the video on me to show him at the consultation)

i dont know . when i look myself from an angle , to me it look weird , and not so pretty .

eventually, i did a bad mistake after surgery where i damaged my skin but it seemed to have healed with time and its not visible anymore.

but otherwise , i dont know what to think. if the surgeon would have done the method i wanted him to use , maybe it would have looked good actially.

maybe it will improve with time and i will feel more confident .

have you ever felt ugly in some sense ? i mean like you want to hide

[AlwaysSmiling Community Ambassador]

Hello user533,

I'm sorry to hear you're feeling this way about yourself. Unfortunately, you can't change the past and what happened, happened. Please don't feel ugly because you are not! You are just different and there is nothing wrong with that. I understand that seeing it in this way can be difficult but I'm telling you, you're not alone!

Everyone can much more easily find a feature of themselves that they are unhappy with rather than one they think is "pretty". I believe that we define pretty in the wrong way. I think prettiness should be about how lovely and kind someone is rather than their looks.

So... that being said, please don't feel like you are ugly! Your differences show way more than what's on the surface. They show how strong you are too!

Best wishes❤

[user533 in reply to AlwaysSmiling]

thank you.

[AlwaysSmiling Community Ambassador in reply to user533]

No problem, I'm here anytime❤