Rock bottom

Hi everyone, I really don't know where to start , I am at rock bottom I didn't think could get any lower , for a while I have just been ticking over while my health isn't getting any better and then me and wife split up and I started divorce proceeding last Friday . Then I thought I was helping a young lady out and we then started emailing each other and were getting along nicely she told me something personal and I offered her my mobile number if she ever needed to talk and offered to meet up with her as I thought we had a connection but it went horribly wrong and she said she was going to report me to the DWP because my wife had a photo me stood on a ladder next door last year looking at is kitchen roof as it was leaking in . I have always been truthful and honest when I come on here but now my confidence as gone and im scared to get involved in case I say the wrong thing . It seems I have lost everything and I haven't the strength and will to engage with people and I'm again thinking hard about things and leaving for a while until I get better if I can . Clive x

[sassy59]

Hello Littleboy, so sorry to hear you’re feeling really down and have started divorce proceedings. Things seem so very difficult for you. It sounds as if you have been grossly misled by the young woman which is rather mean I feel. Try not to worry too much about the DWP as you’re not up a ladder all the time. Sadly things can turn sour when people split up but let’s hope things don’t get out of hand.

We’re here if you need us so please remember that. You can and will get better and things will improve.

Thinking of you Clive xx

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Hi Clive, As you know I've contacted you privately about this. Sassy59 is quite right when she too says that you should ignore this person and that sometimes bitter or sourness develop when things don't work out.Please don't cut yourself off from the community if it is still helpful for you. We have some wonderful members who will help support you and as sassy59 also says, things will improve with time. Take care of yourself and try to keep your chin up! x