Hello to all,
I’ve been a very quiet member of this group but t want to say for the last few months your many posts have wise, uplifting and a few times sad.
My partner was diagnosed with a decompensated liver in July. He’s been very ill with numerous drain, weight loss and a bleed. I did my utmost to keep him on track with a change of diet, positive words and giving him things to look forward too. Got him regular contact with his son, and even bought him a car and a dog to keep him upbeat.
He started drinking again (I think he has been all the through if I’m honest about it, sniffing petrol in my garage and smoking weed. When I found myself in tears about it all on Friday I realised that I just can’t fix him and he’s not helping himself so I asked him to leave my house and he has.
Do I feel guilty? Yes.
Do I feel relieved? Yes.
Could I have done more? No.
The point is that you guys have given my support throughout this journey (but you wouldn’t know this).
Please continue to help those who want to help themselves.
Love and peace to each and everyone of you xxx