Surrogacy, a view from within

[Alessia]

Hello ladies! How are you all doing? I hope that things are going fine for you... Its been a really long whole since I last posted anything here. I have been super busy with my surrogacy. However now I am back and with great news... We finally found a surrogate, or our clinic did to be exact. We had a long journey and we aren't done yet... 3 weeks ago we made this huge step though. Things will be better from now on I hope... Ohh also our surrogate is pregnant already! So wish us luck!

I also wanted to answer your questions if you have any, about surrogacy. I am a little bit shocked myself. So I hoped that answering your questions might help me realize something.

[Becca21]

That's good news that your surrogate is pregnant already... congratulations, you're one step closer to being a mother! I'm so happy for you. When are you due? Was it a single or twin transfer? Honestly, it's not a very easy decision to make... I can only imagine how hard it's to decide on surrogacy. I had a mind-boggling time settling for donor conception even after the failures with my own egg. In no time the gestation will be over and you can hold your little one in your bosom.I wish you all the luck and love in the world!

[Alessia in reply to Becca21]

Believe me for me the pressure was much higher... I had adoption on the back of my head all the time. I couldn't eat and sleep for a while. But at the end I choose this because... Well my stomach felt so, or my heart to be exact! The fact that she got pregnant this quick surprised even the doctors. It was a twins transfer... We are due on mid January 2019 or soemthing similar to that... However there is still a chance that the pregnancy might fail. The surrogate has been having some minor issues. Thank you for understanding me... Thank you for your reply in general. I really appreciate this. I hope things are fine for you too. I also wish that you have a blessed day. God bless you!