Abortions option help

[Anonymous70]

Hi I m 6weeks pregnant and having abortions appointment at next week until I will be 7weeks pregnant and want know that surgical abortions is safe or not and does it pain same as medical abortions do as I had previously medical one and it's quite painful until fetus passed.plz any one knows about it.

[Heavyheart]

I had one at 7wks, I choose this option because i usually get really bad period pains. This option hasn't been that uncomfortable, I've had slight cramps and the bleeding comes and goes but is very light.

[Heavyheart in reply to Heavyheart]

The pain wasn't the reason for such a massive decision.

I didn't have enough support for myself as I am and was a carer, my partner was also unstable.

I have since struggled with my termination even though I knew and know it was the right decision for me at the time. I feel like I failed the unborn as I really want to be a mother. It turns out my partner only wanted to get British residency. Not a healthy environment to raise a baby.

I've grown and I'm still healing from my decision. Forgiving myself has been particularly been important for me.

[Smith92]

Use a condom instead of abortions pain free

[sanchia46]

Please try and get yourself on long term contraception

[Heavyheart in reply to sanchia46]

From the procedures available I choose the option, I had because it was the least traumatic.

Termination is not an easy decision to make. But practicality is important when making the decision.

I was very emotional when I replied to the initial question and replied specifically to the question raised and not the emotional impact.

I'm grateful I didn't read your message until recently as I was very fragile.