British Pregnancy Advisory Service

Please help any advice appreciated abortion or not 🙁

hiya I found out last week I'm pregnant. I had been taking my pill so was completely unexpected I currently have a 9 month old and 4 year old. Been for my scan yesterday I am 12 weeks!? My partners thinks it's best to have an abortion and I know it probably is but just not sire I can go through with it. Has anyone has there babies this close together my little boy will be 16 months once this baby is due. Many thanks xx

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Hi Kiyie, I think you already know yourself that you don't want one. It's not okay for your partner to pressure you into one. I don't personally have experience with more than one child (my baby is 11 mos) but I know lots of people with them this close together. Send me a message if you want to chat it through. Xxxx

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Hi there

I'm sorry to hear that you are worried about your pregnancy. As hard as it might be, it is only you that can decide what happens from here. It might be a good idea to make a GP appointment to talk through your options with someone neutral?

Best wishes

Katherine

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It is your baby, fully formed, heart beating, kicking its little arms and legs, your son or daughter, sibling for your other children. If you have an abortion you will regret it and think about that child forever. Please keep your baby.

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I completely agree! Xx

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abortion is not something to regret at all please do not make woman feel even worse by explaining what a child

Does / baby does keeping her baby is not your choice on a lot

Of posts you seem very anti abortion if so then this is not a place for you to be

But congrats to you hope the pregnancy goes well ! Good luck being a mummy again must be wonderful 😇😘!! Xx

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thanks everyone I've decided I can't go through with it. So as of February will have 3 kiddies x

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So exciting Kyie - keep us updated! And let us know if you're struggling and how we can help xx

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Soooo pleased to hear you are keeping your baby!

I understand it will be very hard but everything happens for a reason and you will love yournew bundle or joy just as much as your other two children!

Just hope your partner supports your decision.

Please please please do not let him pressure you into considering or following through with an abortion!

Good luck with your pregnancy!

Xx

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