British Pregnancy Advisory Service
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What to do

I'm a mum to 3 children and just found out I'm pregnant again and don't know what to do. My 3 children have different dads and so does this one not because I go out sleeping around but because I always fall for the dream and then it falls apart. So my family think i should have a abortion, I thought it was what I wanted as well but I'm not sure if I can do it. I'm booked into the clinic on Friday and not sure if I should go through with it or not. If it wasn't for the fact that this would be my 4th by a 4th dad I wouldn't be thinking about a abortion at all. Just asking for advise or other people's experiences 

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Hi there

If you are booked in at BPAS you can make your appointment a counselling session rather than a treatment session. That way you can just come in and talk to one of our counsellors who will provide you with impartial, evidence-based advice and counselling. Our staff are highly-trained and experienced in providing information on pregnancy options, abortion treatment options and after an abortion


If you call this number you can change your appointment or specify to the staff member that you would just like to talk to a counsellor and that can be arranged.

03457 30 40 30

I hope this helps

Best wishes




I understand you are in a difficult situation. But if you are having doubts- I would say do not sweetie.  If the only reason is due to having different biological dad. Then the answer is clear. Your children are all your own children and they are all siblings. That's what's important. Best of luck in your choice. X


It has to be your decision and yours alone. You shouldn't go through with something so major just because your family disapprove, you may resent them and may regret it. Think carefully about what you want and only go with that. Good luck.


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