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Hi all. Just wanted to say my Husband went into hospital tonight and sadly passed away about 10.00pm. I have lost my everything. X

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Daxiemad

Sorry for your loss, now your pain is at its most painful, but in time you will remember the good times, no one can take your precious memories.

Kind regards Daxiemad

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libby7827

Oh Mavary, I just don't know what to say. I am so, so sorry to hear this sad news, I know you have had lots of very worrying times with your hubby lately but nothing prepares you for this. There are lots of people here for you my love, any time you need to chat just remember us. With lots of love and big hugs. Libby xxxx

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longlungs

Ohh Marvary Iam so very sorry,you must be absolutely devastated, numb and overwhelmed . Oh goodness Marvary I don't know what to say.but I'm awake if your not sleeping and want some company . Again I'm so so sorry Marvary your lovely husband no longer struggles and he will always be in your heart and mind forever. :( :( Janexx

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TEDTHEBEAR

My sympathys for the loss of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

xx

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knitter

So very very sorry. Thinking of you at this very difficult time.

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SecondLife

I am so very sorry to hear your news, I am sure that your husband will always be with you in your heart. x

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Jambo

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss,my love and prayers for you and the family at this very sad time

Xx

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jools

Oh Mavis I'm so so sorry, I don't know what to say other than you have many friends on here if you need to talk. Julie xx

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ostiad

My dear HU friend, I am so sorry for your loss you must feel so empty. Take care of yourself and may your husband be at peace. xx

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mustcarryon

Dear Mavary

I'm so sorry for your loss. There are not any words that can be said at this time. However, you can be sure that you are in our thoughts and prayers, and we are here for you at all times.

God bless x

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Catnip

Many thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. Remember that when all else was lost -- hope still remained.

Catnip

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dall05

Mavis its hard to believe that the man I saw at the Taunton IPF meet the experts meeting last November walking around with his oxygen on wheels is gone. At the time he looked quite well and seemed to be fairly mobile but what stood out to me and my daughter was your obvious love for him. You were asking the experts a lot of questions trying to find out if there was anymore you could do to fight this disease but they had no real answers did they.

I am very saddened to hear of your loss and I know my daughter will feel the same to as she has asked me to keep her updated on any posts that you sent on this forum.

Our thoughts are with you at this very hard time

Tony & daughter Sophie x

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Mavary in reply to dall05

Hi Tony. Thanks for your message. This is why I have been telling you to keep pushing for the transplant. Don't let them leave it till too late. Mavis.

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Mocarey

Dearest Mavary I am so sad you have lost the love of your life. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Be comforted that your dear hubby is no longer struggling to exist. God bless you and may your hubby rest in peace. M xx

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drd4

So sorry for your loss. From your frequent postings, it's clear you did everything in your power to help him.

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Steph57

Mavary so sorry to hear of your loss. Losing your husband is heartbreaking there's nothing I can say that will make you feel better right now. Keep in contact with us it will help for you to talk. Thinking of you and your family at this very sad time. Sending love. Steph. Xxxx

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Riverbank

I am so sorry for your loss.

xx

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junespoon

Dear Mavary, Really really sorry for your loss, I know hubby had been so poorly for quite a while, and you had been so strong for him, Special thoughts to you and your family.Love Heather.xx

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skinnylizzy59

So sorry Mavary. What a shame your post is lost amongst all the scam. I thought the moderators and HU were sorting it out but it appears not. You look back at all the good times you had together and keep going on happy memories. Take care. Lizzy.

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pollyjj

Dear Mavary, I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time.

polly xx

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tigershay1

So sorry for your loss xx

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silverfumar

Words are not enough, but I hope you find comfort and support in the messages. This will be one of life's toughest challenges. I hope you have good friends and family around you as support is a blessing. He will be watching over you, and knowing that, live to make him PROUD. Much love to you, and you will be in my thoughts xxxxxxxx

Oh Mavis,big hugs to you,so very very sorry,for your sad loss,you were so close to each other & I know you did everything in your power to help him.It will be such a huge loss to you,my thoughts & prayers are with you& your family,

Lots of love,Wendells xxxxx

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newlands

Oh Mavary i am so sorry,do hope you have family or friends around you take care .

lots of love Dorothy xxx

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O2Trees

So very sorry to hear of your husband's passing Mavis. My thoughts and sympathy are with you at such a terrible time of loss. x jean

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peege

Oh my dear Mavis, I'm so very sorry, sending you hugs and will continue to for the next few days, weeks. My heartfelt sympathy, I know you will be heartbroken. Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Toci

There are no words really are there? I am so, so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. xxxx

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scrobbitty

Oh no, dear Mavary, nothing I can say will help in any way at the moment so I just offer you the biggest hug ever. Life is just not fair but we are all here if you need us. Much love xxxx

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goldcrest

sorry to hear of your great loss thoughts are with you

how awful . sending hugs and xxx

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cofdrop-UK

Dear Mavery

I am so very sorry to hear of your dear Husband's passing. One thing which shone out sweetheart is the love and care which you shared together. I wish for you the strength to get you through this most difficult time. We are all here for you - please come here at any time - there are tons of virtual hugs and support among all your friends.

With love

cx

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nannyb

I am truly sorry Mavis, I wish I could ease your pain and say something that would give you comfort, at this sad time. I can only say that you and your family, are in my thoughts and my heart. Here for you,Take care. Nannyb xx

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Mummywummy

So sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and may he rest in peace

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Mummywummy

So sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you . May he rest in peace

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WeymouthJohn

I'm so sorry to hear your news and send you all my sympathies. I hope that the realisation that there so many "Health Unlocked" friends who share your sorrow is some comfort to you at this difficult time.

John

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grandadbrian

Mavary. So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

I,m so sorry for your loss, nothing prepares you for this but time and being with family will help you,please stay on hear for extra support and all my love and hugs to you,XXx

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BigGLomond

I am very saddened to hear that you have lost your husband. Deepest condolences - George ....

So terribly sad to hear your news. My deepest condolences. My prayers kind thoughts and love TAD xxxx

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mcnally

So sorry for your loss xx

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ageing-lioness

Oh Mavray, so sorry to hear your news,I was in the same position as you are now back in November,The pain is actually physical and nothing anyone can do or say will ease it....for a while, just let it flow, go with it,let others take the strain of practicalities, you'll not be able to concentrate on even the smallest things like making a cup of tea never mind all the forms and the registrar etc. so make a point of telling all the 'helpers' that your head is too wooly at the moment so please to back off and give you some space,Then go and sit somewhere that you feel a little bit more 'Normal' and just wait for a sign,

NO I'M NOT BEING WEIRD..... you will get a sign that hubby is still with you, watching over every move you make, go with the flow I promise you will benefit your mind and find a little peace. I was in Germany when I had my first sign feeling very low walking thru the park wishing he was there to share it, then right in front of me very gently floated down a white feather it landed on my arm and stayed there without moving or falling off until I returned to the house then it dropped on to the mat as I opened the door , I still have that feather and a few more that have been his trademark when I need a bit of a shove, and a you CAN do this moment! (of which there are many)

As my super daughter says Baby Steps Mum, Baby Steps;.and she is so right ! you will find yourself again Mav and. we are all here for you when you need us xxxx

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DozyDormouse

Oh my poor darling, sending you one of my supersoft comfort cuddle blankets. It's full to the brim with comforting supporting mummy hugs. You know where I am if you need me. Lots of love - D xxx

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initial

Such sad news. Sincere and heartfelt condolences x

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casper99

So very sorry to hear this sad news Mavery. xxx

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christinerees

so sorry for your loss

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Coastwalker

Sending my love to you Mavary.

X for your Husband.

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phillips1

Mavis I was so sorry to hear your news. Do you have friends or family nearby to comfort you? If not, come on here to talk sweetheart where you have lots of friends.

Lots of love

Bobby xxxx

So sorry about your husband Mavis. I almost posted the other day to ask you how he was going. Hope you can be strong and remember his suffering is over. This IPF is terrible isn't it as there is nothing to help it which makes the sufferers and carers so frustrated. I will be thinking about you in the days to come and hoping your family are around you and giving you strength. May God be with you. Lois

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onamission

Marvery my thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. x

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helingmic

I just foundered into tears, Mavary. I'm so devastated for you. Love is a most precious gift. You can cherish love for ever.

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doublecee

Be sure of one thing, Dear Friend, You will meet again, at another time, in a much better place. May the good Lord keep you safe. Cyril.

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redted

I just want to say I am so sorry to hear this sad news,we are all thinking of you.there are no words at a time like this,just memories.

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Loobylou53

So very sorry for your loss x

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jimmyw123

hello mavery,

so very sorry to hear of your sad loss

, words are not enough in situations like this, god bless you my dear, stay strong please

jimmy xxxx

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Tamara70

So sorry to hear of your terrible loss. My condolences to you and your family at this tragic time.

Tamara

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poohchops

So very sorry to hear your sad news

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katieoxo60

Mavary your news was such a shock, after all you have been through everything over in such a short time. You must be reeling with the shock right now, there is no greater lose than your husband or a child take care of yourself as you will need a lot of strength to get through the coming sad time my heart goes out to you xx

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jac493

So sorry to hear your sad news mavary .xx

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HummingbirdM

Mavery,

So sorry for your loss,my prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family.God Bless xx

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Nanny49

Thoughts and prayers for you at this sad time

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hopetorun

Dear Mavis

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, you must be devastated. We are still hear for you if you would like to talk. Take Care Irene

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poppyval

Hi Mavary, so sorry for your loss, You take care now. Cheryl

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teaky-19

dear mavary I am so sorry to hear that your husband has passed away it may not be much comfort at the moment but your husband will now be at peace all my condolences

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thatcham1939

we are all thinking of you, and i am very sorry

jan

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patty17

Sorry to hear about your loss Mavary. I understand from your posts that your husband had been I'll for some time. It still comes as a terrible shock when it happens though. Thinking of you and sending my love.

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Patk1

So sorry xxxxx

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soulboy118

Condolences

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