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[Valentina98]

Hey

Firstly sorry for worrying you all last night.

My goodbye last night wasn't a I'm leaving the forum good-bye. It was a goodbye forever kinda

Long story short I'm currently in hospital with on a drip with a banging headache.

V x

[Tos92]

Thank you for the update. Please know that our inboxes are always open if you want to talk. You have been through so much at your age. I know it doesn’t feel like it right now, but you are an inspiration for so many, including myself.

My inbox will always be open for you V. I pray that you will be okay and they give you the all clear to come home once they feel like it is safe enough. I hope you might consider going to your mums for a while so she can look after you and give you some much needed TLC.

All my love.

Tos x

[Truesta123 in reply to Tos92]

I didn't see that . But where there's life there always hope do not give up. Xxx

[Puscifer23 in reply to Tos92]

I’m new to this thread but judging by the amount of messages and love being sent your way you must have touched many people’s hearts and minds so I hope you can make a full recovery very soon - good luck.

[Tos92 in reply to Puscifer23]

I am not the original poster but I’m sure she will appreciate the support from your message when she sees it. She is a special girl ❤️

[Instructor57]

Take care my friend 🙏I've sent you a DM ... But don't worry about responding, just look after yourself xx

[Cavalierrubie]

Oh you poor darling. You are in the best place to get well again. Hang on in there, as l know you are a strong, determined person and a little fighter. Whatever is wrong at the moment, try and stay calm and as your Mum would probably tell you, trust in the Lord and l will put you in my prayers for your healing. Glad you are not leaving the forum V. I think we will all keep the fire lit and the kettle on 😊. Let us know how it is going because we will all be thinking of you. Xxx

[Deejay62]

Oh no, how are you today sweetheart? We were all very worried about you and still are. I hope you’re feeling much better now. Keep in touch and let us know how you’re getting on. All the best x

[Heyjude31]

Hello V, I am so sorry to hear you are struggling so much. Please know you are always in our thoughts and dearly hope you are okay and will feel better soon. Sending you so much love and hugs, Judi xxx

[Yumz199725]

oh no what's happened xx 💔 is it heart related??

[Valentina98 in reply to Yumz199725]

No, I tried to say what it was without saying it. I'll PM you x

[Qualipop in reply to Valentina98]

I gather it's the thing we can't name. I hope you make a quick and full recovery.

[Valentina98 in reply to Qualipop]

No it's not the c word.

Another Taboo subject

Mental health related

[Qualipop in reply to Valentina98]

That's a much longer recovery but it can be done. I had a total breakdown in my 30s but I'm still here 45 years later to tell the tale. Sometimes the fight can seem impossible but it is possible. You have my understanding and best wishes.

[Westie2012]

This doesn’t sound good , I don’t like reading between the lines but hope you recover and get the treatment and help you need .

[Valentina98 in reply to Westie2012]

Thank you, I'm trying x x

[RufusScamp]

Love and hugs. We would miss you if you did not keep in touch.

[MummaSoap]

You have nothing to apologise for; just concentrate on feeling better.

It might not feel like it right now but the storm will pass.

Sending you big hugs and lots of love 💕

Soap 🧼 x

[Digger0]

Thanks for the update. I hope you are getting the help you need - don't forget my DM's are always open. xx

[Rhinos67]

Sending you love Valentina. You have so many people who care about you.Message me any time if you need to talk or vent.

Joanne

[Jackabee]

hugs lovely. You get yourself well, listen to the doctors and trust them. X

[ling]

Please do get help.

I hope you are feeling better

[SheerHeartAttack]

Dont leave us yet - we were just getting to know you! It sometimes seems that there is no future worth striving for, but be tough & fight through it and there will be a golden light at the end.

Please let us all know how you get on

Robert xx

[Beatle45]

Still,don’t understand

[Seal59]

I hope you get the help you need. You are important to so many people. Wishing you the strength to get over this tough time x

[Digger0]

Hope your'e headache is improving. xx

[Cat04]

Sending love & hugs. You're too good to go, so hang on it there xx

[Furryears]

Oooh I’m sorry to be reading this, you have been through so much, I wish you the best and hope you are improving and feel a little better x

[Noodlesalad]

Saying a prayer for you, you are truly amazing.

[scentedgardener]

I'm so sorry, it sounds as if you feel very alone right now. I wish there was more I could do to help, but I can only send you virtual hugs, and keep you in my prayers.

God bless you.

[Snowdrops_17]

I feel relieved to hear that now Valentina 😁💃🙋🏻‍♀️ 🥰 👍

[Catkin-blake]

Sorry to hear you are ill, guessing it’s what can’t be named perhaps, hang in there you can get through this. You’ve fought and been through so much already , you can do it again V stay positive we’re all thinking of you x

[Valentina98 in reply to Catkin-blake]

No it's not the c word.

[Catkin-blake in reply to Valentina98]

Whatever it is you can do it, over the last year reading your posts, sharing your fight and your spirit to over come everything thrown at you gave me positivity to get over my own hurdles. take care x

[JeremiahObadiah]

Good Morning

What a beastly shame that you are in hospital and feeling awful. I’m sure you’ve noticed that we are all very concerned about you.

I’m so glad that you aren’t leaving the forum but very worried that you feel so awful that you thought it was the end of your story. I’m really hoping that you are getting the right treatment and are feeling less ghastly.

Sending you very best wishes, positive vibes, virtual grapes and flowers and anything else of the across the ether variety that might help make you better. Xx

[wildgooseUsername]

Seen some of the replies, don't know the history but here's a hug, love and I'm lighting my candle for you as I say my morning prayers. I'm not a goody, so don't get worried, but I try. xxx

[BeKind28-]

Hello

Stay strong lots of people as I hope you have seen on here really care about you and we are here for you

I hope now you get the help you need

Please talk to us when you need us because just talking and knowing someone is listening can really help

You are going to get through this please have faith in yourself because we have faith in you x

[Heartfairy]

Oh Valentina what a sad situation you must find yourself in but we are all wishing you well. Please please bounce back from all of this and don’t ever give up lovely. Where there’s life there’s hope and we are all willing you on, praying for you and wishing you the best. Hopefully we will all get a bit of good news back from you in time but just concentrate on you for now, give it your all with the strength you have in your body. We are all here for you. Lots and lots of love to you and your mum ❤️🧚🏼‍♀️ - I do really wish I had a magic wand for all of us 😘

[GrannyE]

So sorry you are feeling that bad. A banging headache is really horrible and can take over somewhat but as Truesta123 said where there’s life there is always hope. Sending love. Xxx

[Loveheart123]

Aww get well soon .. your in the best hands Take care .. many blessings

[Thanksnhs]

Oh V I am so sorry you are poorly again, you are a fighter and I hope whatever it is you will get through it, my thoughts and prayers are with you, I am so glad you are still on the forum. Lots of hugs Char xx

[Shabana1974]

Sending you love and hugs, I hope you feel better soon.my inbox is always open if you need to chat. I throughout my life thought well I got through that then life throws another curve ball at me. From being raped when I was 16. Onwards. But then I got myself snapped out. I know its hard but be positive. You are stronger than you think

[Sniggetts]

❤️

[MaggieSylvie]

Oh Valentina, I guessed you were just feeling too poorly at the moment. Please don't bother to reply to this. I just want to say I hope you get the trreatment you need and come through it like the strong person you really are. Whenever you are feeling well enough, I'm sure we will all welcome you back with digital open arms!🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[Digger0]

Here is a virtual bouquet of chocolate (no calories!) for you to enjoy

Bouquet of chocolates

[Hidden]

Take care valentine and stay strong. I will be thinking of you.

[MumaLines]

My HEART and thoughts are with you and this 👋👋👋👋👋👋👋 for everything you have been through 😪xxx

[Weetabixie]

Sending love and gentle hug, praying you get the help needed 🙏🤞 Please take care and know many many people care about you x

[Anon2023]

ahhh V, I’m so sorry. I know it doesn’t feel like it at the moment but things can get better. You are not alone. I hope you are getting support and remember that you can always reach out on here if you need or want to talk. Please don’t forget how important and special you are. Lots of hugs. Xx

[JeremiahObadiah]

Good Morning Valentina

Just thinking of you and hoping you are being well cared for and feeling better-even if only a little bit.

Are you feeling well enough now to read and if so, have you got some good books? Do you like historical novels? At a very stressed time in my life I read Ellis Peters-Brother Cadfael-books. Sort of Miss Marple in a monk’s habit(they are short too which is great when life feels hard!) . And the CJ Sansom, Shardlake books are a great series if you like that sort of thing. But they are quite hefty.

Anyway I’m rabbiting on about books but really I just wanted to send you lots of best wishes! 💕