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Thanks you for all the really kind messages we have received, unfortunately, I have to report that my darling husband died this afternoon.

I was lucky I was with him at the end.

Signing off one last time from Curry and chips

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BeKind28- profile image
BeKind28-

Hello :-)

I am so sorry to read this sad news but pleased that you were with him till the end

I hope as you grieve you will be surrounded by family and friends

Cherish the good memories he has left you they are yours forever

My deepest condolences to you and your family :-) x

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Classic100 in reply to BeKind28-

My thoughts are with you and all your family at this very sad time.

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Alceno3 in reply to BeKind28-

my deepest condolences

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Deejay62

So sorry to hear this sad news. My sincerest condolences to you and the family. I was still rooting for him praying he would make it😥

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Mfaepink1973 in reply to Deejay62

So very sorry for your loss

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Deejay62 in reply to Mfaepink1973

Curry and Chips died and his wife posted to let us know. All the best.

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baly_2023

My deepest condolences to you and your family.I pray that during this difficult time you will find comfort and support from those close to you.

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Lezzers

So very sorry, my deepest condolences to you & all who knew and loved your husband.

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Rhinos67

I'm so sorry for your loss 🥺. Sending my condolences to you and all your familyJoanne

X

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pravinlaladia in reply to Rhinos67

🙏🏽

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meadfoot

Oh bless you. So very sorry to hear the dreadful news of your lovely husbands passing today. My thoughts are with you all at this dreadfully sad time. Sending you love and praying for your strength to cope. So pleased you were both together before and throughout to the very end. You have been amazing. Bless you both. X

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trafar

I am so very sorry for your loss. Xx

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Tos92

Very saddened to hear this news. My deepest condolences to you and your family. I hope you can find some comfort with friends and family during this difficult time.

X

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Valentina98

Oh my deepest condolences to you and your family.

Sending all my love x

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PinkKizzie

Very sad news. Deepest condolences to you and all the family 🫂 xx

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Taz70

So sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences to you and all your family.xx

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DodgyTickerMum

So very sorry to hear your devastating news. It’s just heartbreaking. Thinking of you both at this most difficult of times. x

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Seal59

So sorry to hear this. Sending my deepest condolences.

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Bishop1

So so sorry to hear your very sad news. May God rest his soulHope you're surrounded by family and friends

Prayers and hugs for you all x x x

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Cherrelleford

So sorry for your loss. Sending love and hugs to you and your loved ones xx

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Hylda2

You are in my prayers x

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Drummer20

So sorry for your loss.xx

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Plum53

So sorry for your loss. Such sad news x

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VelvetSky

So sorry for your loss.

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Stent2024

so sad for your loss

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Milliemoopink

So sorry for your loss x

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Wooodsie

My heartfelt condolences. I am sorry 😞

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Gillph

I am so very sorry. With love and hugs xx

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devonian186

So sorry. Glad you were able to be there.

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Jackabee

sending love x

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Dyllibobs

Oh I'm so sorry to read this & glad that you were with him at the end. Sending love to you & your family xx

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Bumpitybump

Bless, be kind to yourself, take care.

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DippyDingDong

I am so sorry, sending love.

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GreenBrick

My sincerest condolences to you and your family. X

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JoTsu

Truly, truly sorry for your loss.

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Badger2024

Hugs to you and all his loved ones

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ETHEL103

I'm so sorry.My lovely hubby passed away 3 weeks ago his funeral is tomorrow. I miss him so much as we did everything together.

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JMV100 in reply to ETHEL103

So sorry for you pain and loss. Big hugs for tomorrow.

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ETHEL103 in reply to JMV100

Thank-you.Are you Mrs Curry and chips?

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JMV100 in reply to ETHEL103

No, I am just a wife of another heart patient and Forum member. Sorry for any confusion.

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Cavalierrubie in reply to ETHEL103

God bless for tomorrow. May God give you His peace and strength in the days ahead. Love and prayers.

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A246 in reply to ETHEL103

Dear Ethel so very sorry for your loss my dear. May God give you the strength to cope during this sad and difficult time. Sending love, hugs and prayers. Lynn heart failure patient. Xxx

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ETHEL103 in reply to A246

Than you. X

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Tos92 in reply to ETHEL103

So sorry to hear this Ethel. Please accept my condolences. I hope the heat was not too bothersome for you and those attending today. Please look after yourself.

Tos x

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ETHEL103 in reply to Tos92

Than you.The service and celebration of his life went very well.

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Corriefan33

So very sorry to read your sad news. I have been praying for you both and hoping for a miracle. Treasure your memories and take comfort from all those who love you both. My deepest condolences to you and your family and friends. 🙏

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lindainglis

So sorry for your loss

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Shuaholic

so very for your loss. Xx

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JeremiahObadiah

Huge sympathy. Sending you love and courage .

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Callie456

I am so sorry, my prayers and most caring thoughts are with you ❤️ 🙏

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ABCheart

so sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time xx

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Cat04

I'm sorry for the loss of you husband, sending love and hugs to you and his family & friends xx

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Furryears

So so sorry to be reading this, my deepest condolences are with you at this very sad time

X

so sorry to read your sad news sending my condolences 💐

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JMV100

So sorry for you loss. Sending deepest condolences and hugs.

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LSCE

So sorry to hear this. condolences to you and your family.

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Stumpy47

Sad times for sure, I'm sure you will be comforted when you look back on those memories made & how lucky you were to have shared your lives together. You are not alone.

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benjijen

So sorry for your loss. X

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Rickstarr

Sorry to hear this news hopefully the group helped, take care and all the best to you.

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Yogi1950s

So sorry for your loss. Curryandchips was evidently well loved on this forum. Hold on to your happy memories of being together until you are reunited on the other side.

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Digger0

So sorry to hear this, but at least you were with him at the end. I hope you will have friends and family around you at this traumatic time. Remember, we are still here on the Forum if you need a chat/need to vent etc. xx

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Gardenview10

I am so sorry to hear this, but pleased you were able to be with him. Hoping you're surrounded by family and friends to support you.

Condolences to you all and hoping in time your good memories will help you through.

Bless you x

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Sljp0000

Sending deepest condolences. May God bless you and give you peace at this very sad time. Xx

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Murderfan58

Sorry to hear you sad news . My condolences to you and your family. Glad you were with him to the end. Take your time to grief and don't try and be brave . Grief is all consuming and effects you physically and mentally . I know you will feel like curling into a ball and shutting the rest of the world out. And everyday will be a struggle from now on . I didn't want to bother washing or cleaning my teeth but I had to otherwise I would have let my husband down. You must eat and drink but you will find you lose weight I call it grief weight loss. Your body uses up more calories with bone crushing grief.

Don't fight how you feel after the sadness and feeling all alone and what's the point of life , rage and angry will hit you . It's all part of grief. Use it to get through each day.

It's been 20 years since my husband died and the rage and anger I feel at him dieing gets my though every day. But grief still overwhelms me at times.

Talk out loud everyday to your husband I promise it will help . I have shouted at my husband for dieing ,swore at him and raged at the fact he was fit and healthy yet he got cancer and died at 47. I was born disabled with small hole in the side of my heart. I was prepared to die first.

Not only has your husband died but half of yourself. He was the love of your life and you his together you made a whole. Not only has he died but your present and future but you will always have your past.

I hate to learn the hard way not to be brave but at 45 I didn't know what such grief was like. Let others help you with all the paperwork as unfortunately you will have decisions to make when it's the last thing you want to do.

Grief is exhausting so sleep as much as you can . And if you are religious and find feathers in your home think it's your husband trying out his wings. I told my best friend that and the next day found 3 feathers in her home. She has kept them. But it helped her.

You will unfortunately find people especially after the funeral disappear from your life and some will expect you to get over your grief in 6 months. But grief like love never dies.

But think how lucky you where to have him the only person in the world who knew the real you and you him . Some people live their whole lives and never know love like that. Grief is the price we pay for love . 💐

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Cavalierrubie in reply to Murderfan58

What good advice you have given here Murderfan It covers every aspect of grief. I had many pure white feathers when l lost my husband 15 years ago. One large one on the kitchen windowsill and the window wasn’t open. They were on my front doorstep when l opened the front door. Every day, l had one on the car. I still get them now and again. I have kept them in a small box. Gloria Hunniford said she also had them when her daughter Carolyn died. Amazing. Xxxx

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gorillaqueen

So sorry to hear this sad news sincere condolences to you and your family. God bless ❤️🤗🙏X

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Cavalierrubie

We are left to grieve, but there is joy in Heaven at his arrival home. The angels are singing. May God give you His strength in the days ahead. Take care of yourself, eat well at this time. Love and prayers.

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Silvertail

I'm so sorry to read your sad news. My sincerest condolences to you and your family. Sandy 🌺

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Fullofheart98

I am so sorry for your families loss, sending lots of love and prayers during this difficult time x

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SilverSurfer20

So sorry to hear your sad news. Deepest sympathies

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Curlygirl101

So sorry for your loss. Please look after yourself x

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FakeNews

so sorry for your loss x

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Fairenuff

💕

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Desktop54

So very sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry for your loss, all my condolences.

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Jules2021

So sorry for your loss x

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fairyfeathers

So very sorry for your loss. Sending you love, strength and gentle hugs. Take care of yourself. xx

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Bingo88

So sorry to hear this sad news. Thoughts are with you and all the family at this difficult time. Brian

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andrea_waffle7

I am so sorry to read your news. 💔 You take care of yourself, sending lots of love at this sad time. Xx

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Montypython

Sending you hugs.x

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HHH2017

💔Thoughts and prayers are with you x

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Stevie-wonder

Sorry for your loss x

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jerry12953

Very sorry to hear of your loss.........

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Holidayescape

I am so sorry to read this. Sending my deepest condolences to you and your family. X

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Joann63

So sorry for your loss Our thoughts are with you and your family and friends at this sad time

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Yumz199725

Ahhh I'm so sorry for your loss 💔 x

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WannaBbetter

My thoughts are with you. X

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Blueflags

Love to you and your family 🥰

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Becsta985

So sorry to hear of this. Condolences to you all. X

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Shabana1974

I am really sorry for your loss, I know you need to process. But please remember we are all here for you too when you are ready for the support. Sending virtual hugs

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TAVIshock

So sorry........Nothing useful to say that you have not already thought of. Very warm hopes that you will soon find some ease froma long and testing experience

Tavishock

May he Rest in Peace. xxx

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Elsabounre

Condolences to you and your family..he fought a good but tough fight..wish you all the strength you need through the tough times ahead..keep him in your heart..he is never far away...All the best of God's blessings to you.

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lizzieloo2

Sending you love. Take care

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ROBBO36

My deepest condolences to you at this very sad time. Rest in peace to your husband x

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Dastardly

So sad to hear your news. I only hope I will be as fortunate as your husband was with you at his side.

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Bruce67

Sorry to hear your news, I didn't know him personally, or virtually, but hope you can find some peace.

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Gladiator1951

So sorry for your terrible loss. 😥

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Dollcollector

So sorry, thinking of you x

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Avagra

so sorry for this sad news my thoughts and prayers are with you xx

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BobbyB1962

So sorry to hear this news. Deepest condolences to you & yours.

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Quiltingqueen

So sorry xx

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Pipedreams

hello ,I am sending my deepest condolences..take care of yourself

Kind regards

John

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Alison_L

So sorry for your loss, but pleased you could be with him until the end xx

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polenta

So sorry for your loss, prayers for you and your family.

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GrannyE

so sorry. What a blow. Death, even if expected is always a shock. The wonderful memories you have had together over the years will come back to you and help sustain you.

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Qualipop

How lovely of you at such a sad time to think to let everyone know. The members on here really do care. The tragic part is that no one can beat this disease forever. I hope your husband was comforted that you were with him and left this life in peace.

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Lailabud

Sending best thoughts at this saddest of times x

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Nannysue1

Omg, I am so sorry to hear that. Take care of you xx

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Taan15

So very sorry for your loss . My heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this very sad time . 🙏🏼

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BobbyCollins

So very sorry to hear this. Sending you and family my deepest condolences. Try and look after yourself x

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fishonabike

my thoughts are with you - i hope you can hold on to memories of all the good times you shared

I am so sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing and the love you shared give you comfort.

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isobelhannah18

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news.

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Jurassicworld

Sorry to hear of curryand chips passing I'm glad that you were with him at the time.

My prayers 🙏 to you all .

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Thumper76

So sorry. Thinking of you X

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Shihtz6

so sorry to hear your sad news,my sincerest condolences to you and you family.xx

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19591959

I am so sad to hear your heartbreaking news. I will be thinking about you all xxx

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Bramley01

sending condolences

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MilkfairyHeart Star

I am so sorry to read this sad news.Please accept my condolences to you and your family.

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Crofton23

so sorry to hear this. May he red in peace xx

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scribbles-80

I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. You and your family are all in my thoughts and prayers xx

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A246

Dear Mrs Curryandchips may I please offer my deepest condolences. God has definitely gained an angel. Love and hugs from Lynn fellow heart failure patient xxx

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CyclingTime

Sorry to hear about that.

If it's not to hard I wouldn't sign off from here. You will have a lot of knowledge and skills you can pass on to others, so take your time before deciding.

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Abersoch1

Sending hugs

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Abersoch1

Sending hugs

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Cee-Cee1

I'm so very sorry for your loss and wish to send my deepest sympathies and condolences to you and the family. Thank you for taking the time to let us all know, it was very brave of you to take the time to do this during this heartbreaking time. x

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Bingofox007

heartfelt condolences. Take care 🦊x

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Smitty1956

I was very sorry to hear this news. I wish peace for his family and friends as they go through the grieving process.

It seems like it was about 1-2 months ago that he was advising us on the forum about the need to check our B12 levels (and possibly take a supplement) if we took Omeprazole. I thanked him and told him that I would check with my doctor about adding B12 to my daily regimen. I did just that, and my doctor agreed (at least on a short-term basis). I will always be grateful for that information from Curryandchips. I also told him that I liked his username, as it sounded so delicious.

I will miss reading his posts on this forum, but he added to our lives while he was here! ❤️

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Turnipgirl

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your husband.

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