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Social Check-In August 2023 ☀️

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Hi everyone,

Hope you're all doing well. I can't believe it's mid-August already, and where I am at least, there's a bit of sunshine today!

Please use this space to check in with each other. We'll be reducing these down slightly to one thread throughout the month, and we'll see how this goes. You can of course continue to write here throughout the month.

I'm afraid I don't have much BHF news to share this week! However, our team are currently writing an article on the power of laughter and would love to hear your stories! While living with a heart or circulatory condition can come with its ups and downs, we know joy is often found in some of life’s most challenging moments. Do you have a funny story to share from your heart journey? If you do, I'd love to share these with the team.

Have a great week 😊

Amy from BHF

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Maisie2014 profile image
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At last. I was beginning to think we weren’t going to have another one. I’m looking forward to hearing how everyone is doing.

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Yumz199725

Yeah I was wondering when there was gona be another one. Not really been up to much been so busy this past few months with appointments coming out me ears lol so been trying to rest as much as possible. Hope everyone is having a good day so far x

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Survivor1952

Whilst I'm up for a laugh as much as the next person I'm afraid it is still uncomfortable at the moment as I'm still quite close to having had my op!

Seriously I'd love to sit out and enjoy the sun but as I am on amiodarone I'm taking a bit of a cautious approach.

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RufusScamp in reply toSurvivor1952

Hope you can join us in laughing after the op! 😍

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Deejay62

Not much been going on with me. I’ve had covid but I didn’t realise it until my daughter said she’s caught my cold, she had a sore throat and her joints were hurting. She works for the NHS so she did a covid test and it was positive. She then began to tell everyone I gave her covid. The funny thing is I just thought I had a bad cold. I’ve had the flu twice in the past and couldn’t get out of bed. I was still pottering around apart from coughing fits at nights, so I used a blue asthma pump my Gp gave me this year and I was fine. I always thought it would take me out if I ever caught it. But I survived it. Whoopee! All the best.

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Yumz199725

Just checking in with everyone hope your all doing aswell as can be ☺️😉. I just got back from the gym, definitely my personal best burnt 354 calories! 😅💪🏻. It's taken since March but I can do level 15 on the exercise bike for 30 minutes 🚲😎😅. Then incline of 5 on treadmill and speed of 4. 7 for 30 minutes. Did an hour well happy, felt a bit dizzy after but that's to be expected after the amount of time and effort I put into exercising 😂😅😜. What's everyone up to this evening x

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Tos92 in reply toYumz199725

Sounds like you had a really good session at the gym! I’ve been buried in work today however, the weather seems to be getting warmer on my side of the U.K. so I think a day out might be in order. I’ve got Netflix and dinner in my evening plans today. What about you?

Just finished watching the second part of the Lincoln Lawyer, looks like we may be getting a season 3! X

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Yumz199725 in reply toTos92

yeah I did have a great session, thanks tos x yeah we finally have summer 😂😎🌞. Ah cool I'm watching Netflix aswell I'm on season 9 of big bang theory love it seen it so many times! 😍😅. Oh wow what's that like never seen it, glad there's another season for you to look forward to 😊x

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Blearyeyed in reply toYumz199725

I noticed your posts about your swollen leg on the main thread, dud that happen before or after you went to the gym?Just wondering if it could be an explanation for the swelling, it can happen if you go for it after being away from exercise for a while.

Take care , Bee

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Yumz199725 in reply toBlearyeyed

Hi, thanks for your comment nah it happend on Saturday and i had been to the gym on the Wednesday x

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Blearyeyed in reply toYumz199725

It can take up to 48hours for soreness and inflammation to occur , in DOMS , just a thought , I know I've experienced that in one arm or leg before

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Yumz199725 in reply toBlearyeyed

It is a thought but it's never happened before when going to the gym it's probably because I didn't rest, I was busy wedensday - Sunday! X

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Blearyeyed in reply toTos92

Me too. It was really good. I'd definitely recommend both series and the books too.I also enjoyed Bosch and Bosch Legacy on Amazon.

Tos92 profile image
Tos92 in reply toBlearyeyed

I’ve not heard of Bosch. Will have to check it out. Thank you for the recommendation!

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Blearyeyed in reply toTos92

In the Michael Connelly books Bosch and the Lincoln Lawyer are actually half brothers whom meet when they work on a case together. The cast in Bosch is very good.

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Anon2023 in reply toYumz199725

Omg Yumz, I feel tired just reading that!! Well done x

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Yumz199725 in reply toAnon2023

Thanks x I feel exhausted 😅 how are you keeping?

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Anon2023 in reply toYumz199725

Hi. I’m doing ok thanks. I wish I had the energy to go to the gym, it sounds like you enjoy it. Even though you are tired you still do so much exercise and I’m massively impressed by your willpower!! X

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Yumz199725 in reply toAnon2023

Glad your doing ok. Thanks its been a while since I went 😅 so was impressed I could go for so long X 😁😅

We bought a Puppy today, a Cockapoo, he is so small.

Getting him on Friday, which will be somewhat bitter sweet.

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Anon2023 in reply to

Ahh how lovely. We have a shihpoo (she’s more toy poodle than Shih tzu), she’s tiny but has a massive personality. We wouldn’t be without her but she definitely rules the roost 😂.

in reply toAnon2023

You really can't do without them, as we've found out the last couple of months.

My profile picture is of my previous dog, she was a rescue from Brysons that we'd had since she was a few months old. Unfortuntely she was taken critically ill when we were on our way home from holiday. We got back to see her put too sleep.

She was only five years old, and I can honestly say I've never been so heartbroken. Heart Surgery is a doddle compared to the anxiety I've had since.

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When we lost our last dog a few years ago (he was 15) I was devastated and said that I’d never get another. Then my daughter got a dog and we started to pet sit when she was at work. After a while I couldn’t bear not having a dog around all of the time so we ended up getting ours. We’ve had her a year now and she brightens up each day. Im sure your new puppy will do exactly the same for you.

Puppy
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Blearyeyed in reply toAnon2023

So cute , I am very tempted and even my husband is waivering . Also tempted by a french bulldog/ pug cross.He won't let me have an Irish Wolfhound even though I could sit on the sofa and I'm sure it would be perfect therapy for my Fibromyalgia and better than a weighted blanket! 😄😄😄🐾

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Anon2023 in reply toBlearyeyed

We have looked after a pug for a friend and while she was a lovely dog I found the heavy breathing quite alarming!! They’re renowned for breathing problems apparently but are lovely dogs nonetheless. An Irish wolfhound would definitely keep you warm in the winter, much cheaper than turning the heating on 😂😂 x

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RufusScamp in reply to

Do post a pic.

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bludnut

Hi everybody, on the subject of laughter I have just watched this on youtube. A man went to see his grandad in hospital and asked him how he was sleeping. Very well replied the grandad, I get 10 hours sleep every night.At 10 pm they give me a mug of hot chocolat and a viagra. Puzzled by this the grandson went to ask a nurse why they were giving an 88 year old man viagra. Well she replied, the hot chocolat is to make him sleep, the viagra is to stop him rolling over and falling out of bed.

bludnut

On the home front, yesterday we went to my Angina Management Programme. The meeting with my heart surgeon lasted just over an hour, and consisted of the three of us going over the last ten months since the episode on the cruise. She asked questions about how I was feeling, my medication and how I was coping with angina.Both my wife and me explained how I was trying to get fitter and the food we ate. I have just started to try and get upstairs as fast as I can as a way of getting more power into my legs which she was very happy with. With the rainy weather, walking over the old south tip isn't viable because of possibly slipping and trying to avoid puddles.We discussed our diet ( plenty of FRESH FRUIT, FISH twice a week and yoghurt as a sweet after our lunch) which again she was very pleased with. We also discussed if cheese was a no no for people with cholestral problems. Apparently there isn't any substantial evidence that eating cheese is a major cause of cholestral. However what she did say, is to avoid any processed cheeses and processed food in genaral, as well as food withn a high salt content. One of her final questions was to ask me how confident was I after having these meetings, and dealing with angina. I said that now after ten months I was feeling 80% better than I did at the start which was a rise of 20% from earlier in the course. I was then told that because she was happy with how I had progressed, she would leave it for 12 months before my next meeting. That to me showed how confident she was with my attitude and progress throughout the course.Apparently there are only FOUR of these angina management courses in England, so I was very lucky to be able to attend one.

keep smiling, bludnut

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Turnipgirl

Yesterday I had a day out to Barry Island which I haven't done for ages and before I went I was absolutely terrified over crowded buses especially the evening one but still I went anyway in spite of feeling terrified!

I really enjoyed myself when I was there and then faced an extremely crowded bus coming back home in the evening and I was absolutely terrified and had nearly got off the bus in terror but had told myself no running away from fears doesn't solve them and stayed on the crowded bus and told myself that I would soon be home sat down relaxing with a cup of tea to get myself through it

Yes I did make it through on the crowded bus until the end in spite of having felt absolutely terrified!

I'm aware that feelings of terror over crowded buses and places are irrational but when fear strikes things can take a nasty turn and make you want to run away and avoid those things that make you anxious!

I think it's more to do with being frightened of the horrible feelings of terror than the situation in itself.

Next time I go on a crowded bus it will be easy!

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Yumz199725

Ahh what a nightmare can't stand over crowded buses especially in this weather makes it even worse some how don't it! 💔. Well done for staying on the bus couldn't of been easy, I try and avoid buses for that exact reason so I walk everywhere when I'm able to if its not too far 🚶‍♀️😅.

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Turnipgirl in reply toYumz199725

I like to walk to places when I can as well not due to being terrified of the crowded buses but for fresh air and exercise and it saves on bus fares and petrol when you walk when you can.

I feel its better to take opportunities and be absolutely terrified whilst taking them than having being terrified stop me from taking them and with me my regrets are about things that I have done which i think I the best way wishing I had never gone to things than wish I had and wondering what might have been.

My friends said how loads of people are terrified of crowded buses but are too frightened to even try!

No the hot weather on Wednesday didn't help matters but i did enjoy Barry Island though and another step forward in building up my confidence in going out and about!

Yesterday the bus to and from swimming was busy which I had no problems with but it wasn't crowded like the Wednesday evening one when I was terrified!

Today it's a job interview at 11.30am and then onto swimming this afternoon and hopefully there shouldn't be any frightening bus rides!

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Mopsey1897

I went to Regents Park today with my husband and it was very hot. It did affect my breathing but I think it was the walking that made me a bit breathless. I’m still waiting an angiogram to see if blockages are causing my problems. But the park is so lovely it was worth the discomfort. We then went to Kings Cross which is massively different to when I last was there many years ago. Lots of shops, bars, restaurants, the canal, etc it really is an interesting lively place. Had a nice dinner followed by a Mr Whippy ice cream! Total of 8 miles of slowish walking pace which I hope is good exercise for me. Now I’m exhausted lol

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RufusScamp

Had a nice change from heart issues today. Physiotherapy department for arthritic hip. Lovely girl saw me though, and gave me some hope for a less painful future.

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Anon2023 in reply toRufusScamp

Hi. That’s good news. Living in pain is truly awful, hope you get some relief soon.

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Cee-Cee1

"Heartedly" agree with AndyExtransporter!

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Cee-Cee1

😂🤣😅

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Anon2023

Also completely agree with AndyExtransporter!!

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Anon2023 in reply toAnon2023

As predicted I see that Andy has been banished. He was allowed to brighten things up for a few days then sent packing again. Seems a bit of a contradiction for the BHF to ask for us for our humorous stories then to ban someone who makes us laugh and smile. I just don’t get it.

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Yumz199725 in reply toAnon2023

Yeah I agree it's so not fair! 💔

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Cee-Cee1

That one definitely raised my "spirits" - hic!🤣

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Yumz199725

Ah wow is that you Andy missed you mate! 😎😅😭

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Yumz199725

Ahh that's sucks 😞💔. I will make the most of it I really hope your able to stay we need you mate not the same with out your jokes 😢😅

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Yumz199725

Hhahhha 😅😂😂😂😂🤭

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Yumz199725

🤭

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Yumz199725

Hehhe love it 😅

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Yumz199725

😆😆😆😂😅

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annpavitt250448

Yeah, glad your back Andy. Missed your jokes

Hidden wholeheartedly agree!!

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Cee-Cee1

😅😂😀

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Yumz199725

Hahha 😂😅

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MummaSoap

My Grandad used to tell that one 😂

Another one that I liked (and can still picture him telling)…

I used to be a werewolf, but I’m alright nooooooooowww!

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Cee-Cee1

I'm glad of that too - good game though, especially the second half. ⚽

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Tos92

Thanks for popping by Andy. I’m sure everyone needed a reminder of your terrible jokes 🤣.

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Ramilia

You are appreciated by many, Andy, so let's hope it's not adios but hasta luego!

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Ramilia

😂 As someone who used to proofread for a living, this is the kind of thing that would make me laugh and cry at the same time!

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Valentina98

Hey Everyone

I've been on a run today! A proper run, I was with a friend and we ran 4 k I'm so happy.

It should be my 10k in September but I contacted them and I'm doing the 3k fun run instead.

Oh and I've been at work, getting everything ready I'm almost looking forward to the kids coming back

V x

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MummaSoap in reply toValentina98

This is awesome news - well done!

I’m so happy for you that things are looking up, you deserve it 😁😍

Best wishes

Soap 🧼 x

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RufusScamp in reply toValentina98

Good news. Well done!

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Blearyeyed

In answer to Amy's question I couldn't say I have any "funny" stories about my heart journey but I do know that I rely on humour and laughter and trying to see the silver linings on even the darkest days to keep positive.I think interaction with people whom understand what you are going through and trying to find something to smile about each day makes a huge difference to how successfully we can control our symptoms.

I suppose my funniest experiences have been around trying to get food that I could eat whilst in hospital because I have other health problems as well as heart issues.

Despite all of this training from celebrity chefs and an army of nutritionists the NHS still seem to serve up the sort of meals that would harden the softest artery and torture the hardiest liver.

On one particular occasion I remember a nurse and I struggling to find me a dinner after three days nil by mouth.

We finally wrote jacket potato and as the toppings were all filled with fat we wrote "any low fat alternative you have PLEASE".

The plate arrived , we opened the top and inside was a lonely uncut spud rolling around the plate and a single squashed lettuce leaf.

And people wonder why I now bring in survival rations with me and get food parcels brought from home.

Hello everyone I've just joined here today Despite greatly improving my health over past few years I Recently had a retinal TIA followed by a very recent diagnosis of severe aortic stenosis

Ive been type 2 diabetic nearly 30 yrs

About to be referred to my consultant cardiologist for discussions and a treatment plan

Still feeling rather shell-shocked !

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Cee-Cee1 in reply to

Hi Jessica - and a very big welcome to the 'hearty' club. There are lots of people here who are very knowledgeable and only too happy to help with any queries you might have. Carol

in reply toCee-Cee1

Thanks so much for the warm welcome

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Ramilia in reply to

Hi Jessica,

Welcome to the social thread group!

in reply toRamilia

Thanks so much for the warm welcome

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Cee-Cee1

And a big welcome back, Andy!

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Anon2023

Good to see you back again!! 😀

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Cee-Cee1

🤣😆😁

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Ramilia

Bad habit of ours obviously! 😀

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Cee-Cee1

Thank you AndythatXtransporter - been missing these! 😂🤣👍

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MummaSoap

🤣🤣🤣

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Yumz199725

😅😂😂

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Yumz199725

Good to have you back again! 😅👏👏😍

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Beta70 in reply toYumz199725

How many times do you have to tickle an Octopus to make it laugh? Ten. Ten tickles!

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Yumz199725 in reply toBeta70

Hhahhha aw love this 😂

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Tos92 in reply toBeta70

😂

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Maisie2014

Just had a fantastic day. My husband was 80 at the end of June and the grandchildren bought him a flight on a glider. Today he had his flight and six of us went onto the airfield to watch. What an experience. It was wonderful and we all enjoyed it. My husband says he’s now looking forward to his flights for his 85th and 90th.

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Ramilia in reply toMaisie2014

Wow! Well done to your husband, Maisie! Glad you all had such a good day.

Thanks so much for the warm welcome

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annpavitt250448

Granddaughters 13th birthday today and had a lovely day at Colchester zoo. Thinking this time last year I would have been reaching for my G.N.T. Spray after walking up and down the hills at the zoo. It's been nearly a year since I agreed to go on the ORBITA trial at Basildon cardiothoratic centre and was one on the lucky ones who had a stent fitted. Although I didn't get that confirmed until March this year.I think the trial ends next year and I will be very interested to see whether stenting or non interventional methods come out top

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Beta70

Hi everyone. I decided to take a walk to the pub last night to get in some of my 10,000 steps. It took me 15 minutes to walk there and three hours later after meeting with friends, it took me 50 minutes to walk home. The difference was staggering!

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Survivor1952

Went on an outing with my local U3A photographic group to the Elgoods Brewery Gardens at Wisbech on Wednesday. They're not open to the public so it was rather nice to get access. Lovely place that employs 4 gardeners full time. Some fantastic flora and fauna.

That was preceeded by a visit to Cambridge on Tuesday to the Biocampus. Yup, back to hospital, given the all clear so it has been a great week so far. Sleeping better after that news, only dampener on things is a sore shoulder.

Off to a works reunion this afternoon, not that many of us going but mainly folk I've not seen in 20 years!

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1234_6 in reply toSurvivor1952

Belated Congratulations on your all clear result from the hospital.Hope the works re-union went ok & that you painful shoulder has eased and that it's a good week for you this week too.

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Survivor1952 in reply to1234_6

Reunion was good. Been to Physical rehab today (3rd session) and shoulder feels much better. BP has come down dramatically too. Struggling a bit keeping exercising in this heat so early morning walks/runs for now. Yes, I'm alternating jogging, walking and running for my exercise. Life feels a bit up and down at the moment but nothing I can't handle, I guess it's a bit of timing, my birthday Saturday and Friday is my 12 week anniversary for my op, feeling a bit old and frustrated ...

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😅👍☺️👋

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