I'm starting the check-in this week. I'd thought I'd add in a bit about my working week. It's been quite events heavy, busy working with fundraisers for London to Brighton and Bournemouth Pier to Pier.
I really enjoyed this article which I thought I'd share for light reading, about some of the best donations we've received. Not sure I'd recognise them as valuable if they came through my charity shop door...
Funny you should say that, I was doing some 'sorting out' (rude words in our house) last night and was looking through a case of LP's and came across some old Beatles albums. Nothing that would be worth anything as not rare enough. 😡
It's always the way isn't it, other people discover they have these things that turn out to be of great value, but never us! I've still got my youngest daughters (she's 50 next month) Fisher Price Camper Van. I suddenly wondered if that would be of value now, looked it up online and guess it's worth about £50. I want something in the thousands though! Oh well I'll keep my eye on the charity shops in case they have a Lalique vase or light fitting that they're not aware of. I guess car boot sales are the best for bargains, but haven't been to one of those for years. I'm in the process of getting rid of rubbish now and trying not to collect it.
We picked up a Lalique statue of a bull , for $5 CDN, in a charity shop and sold it for $100 CDN. Also someone's collection of star wars figures. Both sold very fast. So yeah things are out there waiting to be found. It's fun hunting if you have the time to go frequently.
I could kick myself. In a charity shop last week I saw a Royal Dolton art deco 6 soup bowls and plates for them to stand on. It was £15 and I didn't buy it!!!! Sob, sob.
It was about 5" x 6". I was asking my hubby about what size it was and he corrected me, he sold it for $350. The best find we ever found was from an estate sale, we bought a small lot because it contained a statue we wanted and bid on it even though we didn't want the rest of the lot. We paid maybe $50 and when we picked it up it had stuff added to the lot that wasn't in the picture; turns out that two things they added to the lot were felt wall hangings of inuit art designs, and the original tag about the piece was still attached, so it was easy to trace the history of the pieces and the artist. we sold them for $1000 each. So much fun, my husband buys and resells so much stuff. Retired life you have lots of hours to fill, he goes charity shopping once a week and searches estate sales easily from the comfort of home. LALIQUE CRYSTAL AUROCH Taureau "Bull, google this and you can see the statue.
I've looked at the Lalique bull. Now that's hobby I admire. You are making me wonder whether I should walk down to the town to our charity shops. Will do it tomorrow as need to pick up tablets too (exciting life). I did buy myself some nice art deco silver earrings to wear when I volunteer at a lovely arts and crafts/art deco National Trust house and garden.
What a great job you are doing Amy. It was so interesting to read of the items given to you and the amount they made for charity. Hope you have a good week too. 👏👏👏
Aww. Know what you mean though. It does seem unfair with some things but the road to ruin is easy………. some things are priceless like our pooches for a start. It’s not all bad. 🥳
Thank you, Amy - and thank you for that really interesting article too. It's nice sharing what we all get up to, you definitely sound as if you've been really busy too! Hope you have a lovely week as well. 😃
When you eat sugar, salt or fat your brain gets a message of pleasure, releasing dopamine and serotonin (the happy chemicals). This chemical reaction leaves us feeling GOOD.
Our brain will do just anything to get pleasure and pretty much anything to avoid pain – in any aspect of our life!
Is that why the best b it of b eing in hospital was the puddings? Something I would never touch at home but the banana cake and custard, the pudding with clotted cream and even teh rice pudding was fabulous. It certainly made up for the completely inedible vegetable mousaka bake where the veg were totally raw and the ploughmans which was a pile of grated cheese, 5 tough, dry bits of lettuce and one tomato
Can you please give us an update on the BHF investigations into Stem Cells? The project kicked off 2 years ago, it was a 5 year project, but since its launch I have heard nothing. When do I get my stem cell injection?
part of it is in your question. You love these things because they are addictive. I blame supermarkets. You would either be very healthy or dead if you had to forage and hunt for your food!
Just saw something well interesting from BHF on Instagram they using artificial intelligence to develop a faster and more accurate tool for diagnosing heart attack, wow! ♥️. I can't find the link as I think it's a video you have to sign up to listen to.
That is interesting. I also read an article, not sure if it was a BHF one, where they stated that they are now developing technology to diagnose heart defects in foetuses whilst they’re still in the mother’s womb. That would be amazing if they could do that!
After months with no issues with tablet foils got another batch of aspirins that need my pointy hunting knife again! Why is it ways mini aspirins that are the problem?!
I agree Andy, I automatically assumed that this was the meaning behind your previous profile picture as you've mentioned your interest in Japanese culture before. I took your profile picture to be a sign of brotherly love. However, some people do seem to enjoy finding things to be offended by - and like to mention it too - so you were right to change your picture.
Oh I don't think so BeKind - you're a very intelligent, empathic sweet lady who always does her best to help and comfort others. That's why everyone likes you so much! 😊xox
Depends on how uncomfortable the discomfort is mate. If its something your willing to live with then I would say don't have it repositioned but if its too uncomfortable then maybe do have it repositioned, it's your descion mate 😉
This is a tricky one. If it were me, I think I would prefer the latter, but then I don’t know the risks involved in that. It would be a case of weighing up the pros and cons.
So sorry to hear of your problems. You are so supportive of others I hope we can repay your help. I wish they would ban the term "heart failure". It sounds so frightening.
Is there someone can go with you to the hospital, or does this not help?
Hi BKDad had heart failure & combined complications with lots of other health issues & other meds. He hated the tiredness & breathlessness the never ending juggling act of balancing the different meds - as a change made by one hosp dept would lead to a visit to A&E to he reviewed by another dept.
He used to struggle with the constant hospital visits, & couldn't always understand why his heart was making him fee so ill.
i used to make him laugh by reminding him that his heart was like a very precious & previously damaged & repaired & restored old Steam Engine & that to keep it working it needed the assistance of medicine (like a Steam Engine needs water, coal & fire to run on) & it needed it's team of workers GP & Nurses (instead of fireman & footplate attendant & signalmen) to help the driver (him) to use it, but that every so often he has to go back to hospital for Consultants to work on him - just like an old Steam engine has to occassionally go back to the railway shed for the mechanics to take a look and carry out any essential repairs. Then after those repairs the precious Steam Engine will then be able to go again and keep working for a bit longer.
Your heart was mended to keep it working, but it's still fragile. Looking after it as best you can & fighting those demon nerves to get to your hospital appointments so that it has regular checks & additional assistance will help keep it working as long as possible. That's all you can do. Please do take care and try not to get too fraught ❤️🙏
hi. I’m so sorry to hear that you are feeling this way but I know that that conversation yesterday was upsetting for you. You have never offended anyone and I’m fuming that this was even suggested as I knew that it would stress you out. Your heart may have some damage from your heart attacks but the rest of your heart can become stronger to compensate. I’ve been told that everyone has some degree of damage to their hearts and I try to remind myself that because I’m aware of the damage to mine, I can take precautions like taking meds and I’m being monitored. I know that you have a good relationship with your surgeon and GP, you sound like you have a great family and there is tons of support on this forum for you. You are stronger than you think and you prove it everyday. X
I'm so sorry that you're feeling down, BeKind - somtimes it just seems to be one thing after another for us. We all have our good (or maybe just 'better') days and clinging on to thoughts of these always helps. As you, and others, have said our hearts are strong old engines and our stronger parts will become even stronger to help to make up for the weaker ones. Take care, Carol xox
I had my pacemaker ‘’ reburied’’ as the cardiologist said , mine wasn’t that prominent but was causing me lots of pain . The wires weren’t affected to my knowledge , I asked if there were any restrictions regarding not raising the arm pm side (as there were when I had my pm )after the reburial procedure and I was told no as they only move the pacemaker . I was very unsure about the procedure as I was worried if the leads dislodged as that happened to me just a few days after having my pm and I had serious scary complications so I was dreading that happening again . I’m glad I did go through with the procedure as I’m now pain free most of the time and the pain I do get is nothing like before . Did you ask your cardiologist about the chance of leads dislodging ? Hopefully this is helpful , it’s not a decision I made lightly .
Hello BeKind, I’m so sorry to read how you’re feeling and that you’re struggling emotionally . Heart failure is a very scary sounding term to use and I’m sure you’re not alone in feeling frightened by being told that you still have it . As the hospital and your gp know you don’t find the prospect of going to hospital easy can’t they give you any medication to help you feel calmer . I needed sedation to have an mri as there’s no way I would have coped without it . Hope you’re feeling g better this morning , sending hugs 🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️
I’m sorry Amy. I know you’re trying hard to please everyone with this thread occasionally but I find them very confusing.
I don’t recognise many people on here any more and those I do recognise seem to be very upset. I used to love the virtual parties and barbecues and the general discussions on the heart hub but just lately all I read is people being offensive to each other. Maybe it’s all tongue in cheek and I’m not getting the humour. This site has helped me over the last 4 years since my heart attack but I don’t log in as much because of the confusion.
I believe this is the first time I’ve responded to one of your messages. I just wanted to say I’m sorry you feel this way. I’m a ‘newish’ member but I do remember the odd virtual party/event on here when they were allowed. Since the rules were re-enforced again, these virtual parties have stopped on the main forum so if you haven’t been seeing them, this is probably why.
You’re right in saying that there has been a lot of upset on here which must not be very nice for those members that log in every so often and are left feeling confused regarding what has happened. Despite that, I hope the next time you log in, you find something which you feel you can participate in and enjoy at the same time!
I look forward to having more interactions with you in the future hopefully.
Hello massie2014 and all fellow members. I would have to say I fully agree. I have been a member for less than a year and from what Iv seen, what you are saying is completely true!! When I joined In October last year I found this forum and it was a breath of fresh air!! There was sad stories, brought tears to my eyes!! But real life stories,not like doctor google!! People who have been through it, experienced it, the worst diagnosis possible!! But then there was the positive stories, people who have defied the odds, miracles!! Then there’s the up beat positive souls, the jokers, the funny people the life and soulf of this so very hard journey!! I feel myself like I once offended bekind28! 1 of the nicest people on here! Loved thatwasunexpected with his ecg interpretation was mind blowing and so intersting!! Andytheextransporter has actually been through it, still has a joke to tell! People my own age maybe not going throug exactly the same but we can’t even relate because we’re scared to even speak. A member posted that he was at end of life the other day. A comment I replied to. Look back and you will see 3 years ago he was a joker, heart stars joined in and this forum was fun, welcoming, a breath of fresh air!! Last months social thread was even taken away! I can’t leave, I may be feeling fitter than ever, but I know 1 day that will change because I still have heart disease. The minority are ruining it. Rant over!
Hi Maisie, my phone wanted to call you Maudie lol, unfortunately on any Internet forum I have been on there are always keyboard warriors, I just ignore them and take it all with a pinch of salt ( strange expression !) I don’t often post but I like the jokes and friendly banter on here and realise that a lot of other people have heart problems like me, and it’s nice to connect with them even if I am not very vocal. If you stick to this thread you should be ok, x
No worries , will you get to actually go and see your cardiologist /EP to discuss a ‘reburial ‘ ? It’s an odd term to use , well I think it is . It’s not so thing that should have to be decided over a phone appointment in my opinion , they need to be able to see how your device looks in person .
That feeling of one small thing upsetting your balance, is a very common symptom of anxiety. My mum and I both have anxiety but my mum says I manage mine far better than her (I think I’ve probably learned to hide it better) but it’s all relative!
I’m sorry to hear that you’re having a difficult time and I can empathise with the weight that receiving that information can carry. But as you say, your physical heart health is no different today than it was the day before that phone call. However, when the overwhelmed feeling sets in, it’s incredibly difficult to rationalise with your brain.
Your kindness to others even when faced with your own adversity is testament to how strong you are! I so wish you could see yourself the way that I and I’m positive, many others do too!!
If you take the time to read this piece of research for the BHF please would you be kind enough to Like it although on this does not actually mean you like it. There is no need to comment. Thank you!
So sorry you have been upset by comments from professionals regarding the condition of your heart, but from everything you have said, in my book, the successful bypasses have 'fixed' your heart. You are up and about while your heart is efficiently pumping blood around your body and moving oxygen and nutrients into the right places . If they had not been successful you would be wired up to machines in ICU! I fully understand how overthinking and anxiety can drag you down, I do it myself but then see how others manage to cope and achieve great things. "That was unexpected" successfully competing in his Olympics is an excellent example, he has decided to put his worries aside and is now living his best life, even making swimming pools in his garden! Then I see so many people on this site querying health insurance so they can travel and holiday in beautiful exotic place in the sun or to visit family and I wonder why they would want to take that risk and end up ill in a foreign hospital? But then I remember that they have decided to live their best life, unlike me an unadventurous boring old heart afraid to take any risks. We are all the product of our own experiences and manage things differently according to what makes us comfortable. If we take our broken down cars into the garage with mechanical problems, when we collect them we are so delighted that they are just running again, we don't expect everything to be in perfect condition! You are such a thoughtful and considerate person and I am sure that others will agree with me that your heart is definitely always in the right place. Wishing you well .
An Englishman, an Irishman and a Scotsman were captured by an evil wizard who condemned them to 10 years each in a pit.However, each was allowed to take 10 years' supply of 1 item.
The Irishman said "Irish whisky!" and was duly granted his wish.
The Scotsman said "Scotch whisky!" and he too was granted his choice.
The Englishman said "Cigarettes!" and lo and behold his wish was granted.
After 10 years they were released. The Irishman climbed out but immediately
dropped dead from alcoholic poisoning.
The Scotsman climbed out next and he too dropped dead from alcoholic poisoning.
The Englishman climbed out last and said: "Anybody got a lighter?"
After a long night of making love, Danny rolled over, pulled out a cigarette from his jeans and searched for his lighter.Unable to find it, he asked Sheila if she had one at hand.
"There might be some matches in the top drawer," she replied.
He opened the drawer of the bedside table and found a box of matches sitting neatly on top of a framed picture of another man.
Naturally, the guy began to worry. "Is this your husband?" he inquired nervously.
"No, silly," she replied, snuggling up to him.
"Your boyfriend then?" he asked. "No, not at all," she said, nibbling away at his ear.
"Well, who is he then?" demanded the bewildered guy.
Calmly, Sheila replied, "That's me before the operation."
hi BeKind, thanks for your message, you certainly live up to your name, x
I feel I know a few of you as I usually read the posts, Andy’s jokes are usually quite funny, I’m hopeless at telling jokes.
I’m off to hospital tomorrow to have a pacemaker fitted and I’m not looking forward to that, just getting stuff ready to take with me, while watching Corrie.
Hi BK, had the procedure at about 10am, it took about an hour, a lot of prodding and pushing, heart felt a bit funny when they put the wires in, worst bit was the local injection and I asked for a little bit more lol.
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