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Hey Everyone

I'm feeling better at the moment, I've been staying with Mum, I've embraced being treated like a child. I mean being looked after, me and Mum had a little walk the other day. It says something when she (a 67 year old woman) can walk less than a mile and not be breathless like I was.

Anyway I've gone back to my place and I've got a freezer full of homemade heart healthy food.

Hope you are all well

V

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Valentina98

and more importantly me and Mum didn't murder each

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ParrotLover22 in reply to Valentina98

Lol 😂

Hello :-)

You know you enjoyed it really I bet you will be back there soon again been pampered :-)

Glad you survived your visit and now to getting on with the rest of your life including regular phone calls no doubt from Mum :-)

Enjoy those healthy meals :-) x

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Hey

I thought about what you said about enjoying the time I've got with Mum, and just embrace it.

Not too sure I'll be back soon.... Maybe just for more of her cooking

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Hello :-)

O the picture you paint of your Mum I think I am getting frightened of her now :-)

She means well though even if she drives you mad and yes the cooked meals a massive positive if nothing else :-) x

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Maybe I'm being a bit mean about her.....

I love her really

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:-) x

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Anon2023

So pleased that you are feeling a bit better. Xx

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Janma123

Little steps taken one at a time will get you there. Listen to your body and when you get tired, rest, and then keep going.

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fairyfeathers

great news you are feeling better. Enjoy your healthy meals.

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Becksagogo

Dont be so hard on your Mum. I'm sure that no matter what has gone on in the past, she will only have your best interests at heart. I lost my Mum 7 years ago 😢 and I miss her so much. Being a Mum myself I know how your children are always your babies no matter how old they are.

It's good to hear that you are being looked after. Take all the offers of help that you get. You will get stronger at your pace so don't rush things.

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Nadeje

🤣🤣I know the feeling ! My daughter and I probably would! However, when she stayed at mine for a week after my AVR we didn't even argue! I was on a cocktail of drugs and very weak, so that's why!Normally we have our heated moments, because we're very similar.

Well done anyway! You will get stronger each day! Surely the freezer full of healthy homecooked food will ensure that!👏

Monica

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Beta70

Value your mum while you still have her. None of us are perfect and we mothers take a lot of battering from our children over the years. Now when my adult children complain that their teenagers treat their houses like a hotel, appreciate nothing and take everything for granted I offer them no sympathy and explain it's karma. When we were young children my mum promised us that when we were older and had homes of our own she was going to come round and jump on our furniture. Imagine her surprise when at 18 I rented my first flat and invited her round to visit. She came in and asked "what would you like me to do?" To which I replied "Nothing, just start jumping !" We always laughed about that for many years.

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