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Recently a number of people have asked if I will be holding another virtual event. As I am now into "Learn to Walk Again - Part II" I am happy to do so. I was thinking of something around the August Bank Holiday in two weeks time. If you are interested please reply. I know Maisie2014 is, and in addition Lezzers and Prada47 like to hit the gin and rum respectively!

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22alfie profile image
22alfie

What does this involve?

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Hello :-)

I was really hoping someone else would have explained as I bet I will confuse you more :-)

So basically Michael will put a post on saying it is a tea party and we all use our imaginations and pretend we are at a party and join in the post replying to each other

Also with it been virtual we can have all the drink and food we like because it is imaginary

We have a little banter and chat with each other on the post

A bit of light fun :-)

I hope you may have been able to follow my explanation of what it is :-) x

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Maisie2014

I’ll put it in the diary. πŸ™‚

Hello :-)

As I am agoraphobic a virtual tea party would be something I could attend :-)

So yes I would love to come :-)

Thank you for cheering people up Michael and volunteering to do this much appreciated :-)

Hope you are keeping well :-) x

Milkfairy profile image
MilkfairyHeart Star

I have a new favourite tipple after my trip to Portugal.

White port and tonic with a slice of grapefruit🍸

Any particular nibbles required?

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MrsSuzuki

Can boring people join, I only like tea β˜•.

πŸ˜‰ Lily

β€’ in reply toMrsSuzuki

You are not boring I like tea to so we can both have a nice cuppa :-) x

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080311

Count me in, seems ages since we had a get together.Hope things are improving for you MichaelJR.

Pauline

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Lezzers

Did someone mention gin??? Count me inπŸ’and there is absolutely no truth in the rumour that I have gin & rum in the same glass! Hic! πŸ™Š

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Nettekinβ€’ in reply toLezzers

And here she is at the first mention of gin......! How are you both keeping? See you at the party, guess you will be in the corner again? Xx

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply toNettekin

We're doing well thank you. Husband is now on new medication so fingers crossed 🀞 for that. Hope you're doing ok? Yes, no doubt I'll be in the corner, but not slumped!!🀣🀣

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Beta70

Thanks for the invite I defo will be attending. Theme for the day could be Alice in Wonderland's mad Hearties tea party. Am so looking forward to it. Best wishes.

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HHH2017β€’ in reply toBeta70

Love this idea...my granddaughter ready to direct any stragglers πŸ˜‰

Mad Hearties this way!
β€’ in reply toHHH2017

How cute is she, beautiful you must be so proud :-) x

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HHH2017β€’ in reply to

Thank you ❀️ We really are πŸ₯°

β€’ in reply toHHH2017

:-) x

β€’ in reply toHHH2017

What a complete sweetheart, costume is very appropriate for us lot xx

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Beta70β€’ in reply toHHH2017

Nice one, the job is definitely hers!

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply toHHH2017

Oh what a beauty. The job is definitely hers, looks like she has enough experience xx

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HHH2017

Yes please Michael 🍹Pimms at the ready! Hope Part II is going well for you 🀞🏽

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Emeralds55

I'd love to attend , love a virtual tea party πŸ₯³

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Janma123

Great idea, thank you for the invitation, I will endeavour to join you all. Jane

Yes I would love to join you again, but can there be a bit more effort for us Vegans please.

Neither a celery stick with a stoned cherry on top, nor a lettuce leaf rolled around a pickled onion, count.

Will secretly be bringing gin disguised in a toilet bleach bottle { washed out of course } to hide from a certain member that may or may not have run off with the last one { Bombay Sapphire } I brought to the table at your last β€œtea party β€œ

RSVP

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GrannyEβ€’ in reply to

Hey what’s wrong with a bit of celery with let’s pretend we are cream cheese and a walnut? Only problem is that it is very crunchy and makes a noise when eating it.

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Lol

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GrannyEβ€’ in reply to

I had always used lol as lots of love and then a grandchild told me it was not that anymore but laugh out loud. I am now confused as I often am by language nowadays cos β€˜fings ain’t what they used to be’.

β€’ in reply toGrannyE

You can have it as both !

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francesw47

Never attended one before, but might give this a go!! Just the smell of gin is enough incentive for me....and Michael, thanks to you for organising!Frances xx

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VelvetSky

Count me in. Hope you are feeling better Michael.πŸ₯³

GrannyE profile image
GrannyE

Yes please if I am able. May I celebrate with a cup of Earl Grey rooibos with almond milk? I might even go mad with a dark choc rice cake. How about that?

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GrannyE

Not sure about bbq cos of the virtual sparks! Do we really want to set the world alight?

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Etblue

πŸ‘πŸ˜€ thanks for invite and looking forward to it

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Tavired

I have never been to a virtual tea party, but it sounds like fun. I will bring my own veggie bangers and burgers!!!

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Harefieldfan

Sounds good.

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ILF1

Yes please - first time attendee so hope I will behave (there is never a guarantee !!)

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seamaid

Hi, another " First Timer " so am looking forward to coming sounds like a lot of fun Thank you for the invite,

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uzininemm

Can we expect a certain hearty to turn up with his pool. If yes count me in. Bags first dip.

As for eating/drinking I will have everything that I can't have now!

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Alison_Lβ€’ in reply touzininemm

That sounds like an excellent idea. Although we'll have to be careful using our phones and laptops around all that virtual water ;)

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Alison_L

I'll be there! I'll bring scones, with butter, strawberry jam and Cornish clotted cream (in that order).

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply toAlison_L

😱 surely clotted cream then jam??

Alison_L profile image
Alison_Lβ€’ in reply toLezzers

Absolutely not...

Lezzers profile image
Lezzersβ€’ in reply toAlison_L

😱 I'll bring my own!!🀣🀣

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Alison_Lβ€’ in reply toLezzers

Tell you what. As I don't want to upset anyone, I'll bring all the bits separately, and you can then put them on any way you like. I believe there are some people who don't put butter on their scones - that's even worse than putting the jam and cream on the wrong way round!

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MichaelJHHeart Starβ€’ in reply toAlison_L

I am in Hertfordshire and in a Hertfordshire Cream Tea it is a fruited scone, no butter, jam and then cream! The butter is in the scone!

Alison_L profile image
Alison_Lβ€’ in reply toMichaelJH

You can never have enough butter - I lather croissants in the stuff as well.

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply toMichaelJH

Mine is a personal preference, fruity scone (no butter, the scone falls apart when you try buttering it!) Lashing of clotted cream then jam πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹ I'm now starving!😭

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply toAlison_L

That sounds like an ideal solution. Don't wish to rock the boat β›΅ but will the scones be homemade, and preferably fruit??? Butter??? Really??? 😱

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Alison_Lβ€’ in reply toLezzers

Homemade and fruity. And extra butter.

Lezzers profile image
Lezzersβ€’ in reply toAlison_L

But the scone falls apart when you try buttering it 😭😭

Alison_L profile image
Alison_Lβ€’ in reply toLezzers

Only if the butter is frozen!

Lezzers profile image
Lezzersβ€’ in reply toAlison_L

I like my butter very cold 🀣🀣

Alison_L profile image
Alison_Lβ€’ in reply toLezzers

Then don't have any. I suspect you're just trying to be difficult! :)

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply toAlison_L

Well yes that's true, I excell at being difficult! but I truly do like really cold butter! Happy to share my gin with you as a penance for being difficult though 😳 🀣

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Alison_Lβ€’ in reply toLezzers

*sigh* I shall bring both very cold butter and not-so-cold butter, and then I should be delighted to have a glass of your gin, thank you.

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply toAlison_L

An excellent compromise ☺️ in my defence for being difficult I will own up to being bored stiff!! I'm currently watching plaster drying which is only slightly more interesting then watching paint dry! I can't shut the windows until the plaster has dried so I'm confined to barracks 😭😭

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HHH2017β€’ in reply toLezzers

Im laughing sooo much reading this thread 🀣 thank you both 😁

MichaelJH profile image
MichaelJHHeart Starβ€’ in reply toLezzers

Will the Gin Girls be bring this?

Cream Tea G&T
Lezzers profile image
Lezzersβ€’ in reply toMichaelJH

Well who knew that was even a thing! Hmm I wonder what that tastes like.πŸ€”

HHH2017 profile image
HHH2017β€’ in reply toLezzers

There's always one lol!

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HHH2017β€’ in reply toLezzers

The only way is???πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‹

Scones
Lezzers profile image
Lezzersβ€’ in reply toHHH2017

🀣🀣

Lezzers profile image
Lezzersβ€’ in reply toHHH2017

You cannot get clotted cream to spread like that on top of jam, its an impossibility!! You'll just end up with blobs of cream intermingled with blobs of jam, then the whole thing will crumble just as you're about to bite into it and it'll end up in your lap! You'll then have to look around furtively πŸ‘€to see if anyone has noticed. Much safer to put the jam on the cream ☺️

HHH2017 profile image
HHH2017β€’ in reply toLezzers

Don't panic, I'll bring some bibsπŸ˜‰

Lezzers profile image
Lezzersβ€’ in reply toHHH2017

😜🀣🀣

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MichaelJHHeart Starβ€’ in reply toHHH2017

If you are into messing eating I will bring some tomato ketchup sandwiches! πŸ…πŸ₯ͺ:)

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seamaidβ€’ in reply toLezzers

no no Jam and THEN clotted cream please x

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply toseamaid

πŸ€”πŸ˜±πŸ˜­πŸ€£πŸ€£

Beta70 profile image
Beta70β€’ in reply toAlison_L

Brilliant as long as its Hartleys jam!

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MichaelJHHeart Starβ€’ in reply toBeta70

I would prefer Waitrose's No.1 Strawberry & Pink Champagne Preserve

Beta70 profile image
Beta70β€’ in reply toMichaelJH

Absolutely, after all it is your celebration party, that sounds amazing, there is just no Hart in it ! I will try to order some.

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Heyjude31

Yes please πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ˜Š

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marigoldb

Yes please Michael, fresh fruit salad, single cream and whiskey and ginger ale. Can’t wait to be with all other hearties!

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Alison_Lβ€’ in reply tomarigoldb

Single cream?? You're welcome to have some of the Cornish clotted cream that I'm bring for my scones :)

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spinningjenny

Oh brilliant! I’ve recently been told one of my kidneys has packed in and the other is working half-cock. Just what I need on top of all the heart stuff.

I’m planning on bringing all the food that is bad for me. Definitely olives, smoked salmon, loads of sausages and plenty of crisps.

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Alison_Lβ€’ in reply tospinningjenny

How awful for you, Jenny. I'm now dealing with a brain tumour on top of my heart problems. At least, it's on top when I'm standing - they're level when I'm lying down! :)

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spinningjennyβ€’ in reply toAlison_L

Sorry to hear your unwell too. You've got to keep a sense of humour otherwise we'd all go mad.😁

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply toAlison_L

I'm sorry to hear this Alison, I hope it's treatable in some way xx

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Alison_Lβ€’ in reply toLezzers

Thanks, Lesley. It's non-cancerous and slow growing. I'm having a second head MRI next month to see how fast (or slow) the growth is, then "they" will decide where we go from here. It's grown in my inner ear canal, so I'm now almost deaf on that side, and that's permanent, whatever happens :(

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply toAlison_L

Good to hear it's non- cancerous and slow growing but I'm sure you want it dealt with ASAP. Will a hearing aid be of any use & would removal/treatment stop your hearing loss from progressing? Xx

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Alison_Lβ€’ in reply toLezzers

Audiology have given me a hearing aid, and they've tried several times to tweak it to improve my hearing, but the problem is that what hearing I have left is not just low level, but also distorted, so the hearing aid just increases the volume of the distortion, to the extent that it starts to affect the good hearing in the other ear! Audiology have now effectively given up on me.

Surgery/radiotherapy MIGHT stop the progression of the hearing loss, but it's effectively brain surgery, which brings with it a host of other risks (including total hearing loss, loss of balance and facial palsy) and a potentially very long (years) recovery time. I'm hoping my lodger hasn't grown, so that I can be left on Watch and Wait.

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply toAlison_L

I can understand how the increased distortion would make things worse. Surgery and/or radiotherapy is a whole new ball game so hopefully you'll be able to watch & wait 🀞 xx

HHH2017 profile image
HHH2017β€’ in reply toAlison_L

So sorry to hear this ☹️Wishing you well & loving your humour. X

Alison_L profile image
Alison_Lβ€’ in reply toHHH2017

Thanks H. I always knew I was bonkers, so now I have an excuse :)

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply tospinningjenny

Sorry to hear this, is this due to your medication? I'll sit with you & help you out with all that food, particularly the crisps!!

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spinningjennyβ€’ in reply toLezzers

Apparently I was born with wonky kidneys but it was only discovered this year. Hey ho. Glad to share my crisps with you, what is your favourite flavour?

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Lezzersβ€’ in reply tospinningjenny

I suppose it's one of those situations where you don't know something is wrong until its very wrong. Hopefully the dr's will have something in their bag of tricks that will help πŸ€— ready salted is my favourite, definitely not good for hearts or kidneys!! Xx

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spinningjennyβ€’ in reply toLezzers

I’ve to have one kidney removed and surgery on the other. I should be alright, I can manage on part of one kidney. Ready salted coming up.

HHH2017 profile image
HHH2017β€’ in reply tospinningjenny

So sorry to hear your news πŸ₯Ί love your outlook! Im a Jennie too πŸ‘πŸ½ Best wishes xx

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Newstart3

Sounds like fun ... yes please. Shall I bring the rhubarb and ginger gin and lemon and blueberry sponge cake ... πŸ˜€

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Alison_Lβ€’ in reply toNewstart3

Yes please, Newstart. But try not to get the two mixed up - I'm not sure I fancy rhubarb and ginger cake :)

Newstart3 profile image
Newstart3β€’ in reply toAlison_L

Ha ha, me neither ... lemon and blueberry gin though ... I wonder!!

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Heythrop51

I was thinking a French stick , a selection of cheeses and a bottle of Beaujolais. If it's warn Burgundy might be to heavy?

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Newstart3β€’ in reply toHeythrop51

Mmmm, sounds a good choice for summer ...

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Beta70

I am now really looking forward to our party and just wondering what to wear! I have several wardrobes full of clothes in all sorts of shapes and colours and in many different sizes. Some people might consider me to be extremely lucky whereas others would describe me as an extreme hoarder! Before I retired every time I bought a new item of clothing I dragged out an old item and put it in the charity bag. This worked well at the time but now I have less income and love the charity shops, each time I visit I come home with at least 3 or four pre loved items and eventually have to use any money saved up to buy new extra wardrobes. I have just been looking at quite a large red kaftan which I bought in April. The advantage to wearing this is that I could put two or three smaller items in its place, plus the spillage of red wine, strawberry jam and fresh strawberries would not be noticeable. What is everyone else wearing?

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MilkfairyHeart Starβ€’ in reply toBeta70

I like the sound of your kaftan 😊

I shall have to wait to see what the weather is like.

Maybe we can ask MichaelJH to arrange just the right weather to suit us all.

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Beta70

So looking forward to your party this coming weekend. Is it planned for Saturday or Sunday and may we leave lists of whose bringing what online? Hope you are progressing with your walking, best wishes....πŸšΆπŸšΆβ€β™€οΈ

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