Impossible situation

Hi everyone,

I know we're all going through corona but i feel in such an impossible situation & i'm stumped!!! Although i have diagnosed micro vascular disease & breathing problems with no treatment, i already issolate while caring for my daughter & look after myself. My parents on the other hand are driving me insane. Long story short, my mother (64) has had 2 heart attacks, diagnosed CAD, emphasymia & has just managed to endure 6 rounds of chemo & major surgery to remove the rest of the cancer. She is housebound anyways, with a massive fresh scar but my dad & 30 year old brother that live there, are refusing to listen. There still visiting friends, out drinking etc etc going about everywhere. I've tried everything & now arguing with them everyday & my mum has told me she's terrified. I wish i could bring both parents here but not an option. Totally stumped 🤔😥

[DavidG1971]

So sorry to hear that. Incredibly stupid and selfish. Worth sending them a video a then leaving it to them to work out?

[Hidden in reply to DavidG1971]

Thanks david, just started that last night 👍

[DavidG1971 in reply to Hidden]

I’m in a similar scenario at my house - not brave enough time make ultimatums myself.

[Hidden in reply to DavidG1971]

I've just realized alot of people are in similar situation. Yes i agree, i know it's hard & some people are young to be leaving home but this is happening & vulnerable peoples health, you both, have to be a priority to get through this. I suppose i just have to keep fighting with them & accept the things i cannot change 😕. You know, I worry about my brother to as he's never forgive himself 😥