How?!!

[Downinil]

Can I mend my broken heart?

[Skyp]

Awwww downinil.i wish I knew the answer.just try and take one day at a time. Hard I know x

[CL3V3R-G1RL]

I wish I knew the answer to that question myself. Some will say time heals all wounds. But truth is we just get better at coping with it.

I'm sorry you are going through this. Wishing you healing and love 🫂❤️

[Hidden]

Hello Downinil my mam described grief as the hardest work she's done, but one does learn to live with it in time, you need to rebuild your life which isn't easy without your loved one is this your mum your talking of I remember reading you lost your mum, distraction from over thinking and dwelling on the past it's harder for some than others to rebuild there life's with the loss of a loved one, via circumstances getting out socialising etc, I'm still unsure how I'll cope when my mam dies and iive with that fear every day her been 85 soon I see her everyday, sending a hug 🤗🙏💛🌻

[Downinil in reply to Hidden]

Hi Twinkly…! It is my Mom as well as my husband. Those losses are due to death. The other circumstance revolves around my niece who won’t return my messages. It’s a very long story. Too much to text. I just need to lear patience with the course life takes in this regard. It would be helpful if I didn’t have pain issues involved which make it nearly impossible to get out to my car and drive myself to doctors appointments. The heartache stems from all of these contributing factors. It’s frustrating! You help by offering support. I don’t know what I’d feel like without the support of all of you on HU. Thank you. I need to find a personal assistant to help me get functioning in life again. All of this has stripped me of my ability to care for my own needs independently.

[Smilesalot]

Aww sweetie I'm sorry ur going through this. Ur not alone.I lost my Mother and Sister within a year of each other. Maybe I'm cold but I don't miss my Mother as she was a monster. My sister however I miss like crazy. It's not quite as raw as 6 ago. I still cry sometimes.

I hope you cope easier as time goes by🙏🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤.

Hugs sweetie Dawn 🤗🤗🤗🙃🤗

[Hidden in reply to Smilesalot]

Hello I'm sorry for the loss of your sister and mother I don't think your cold at all, you probably feel kind of a grief for a loving nice mother that you never had, it must have been so hard, I'm lucky I have a loving mother I hope your father was a good man, your sister is still around I have had sines of passed loved ones you have to have a open mind to see them and let them in, the soul is energy it never dies, talk to your sisters photo she's just a thought away love never dies 💛✨🌈

[Smilesalot in reply to Hidden]

My father left age 2 and my step father was as bad as mother. To be honest I rarely think about them.My sister was quite bonkers but she could be really nice. I don't know how or why she died. She moved every few months and changed her name frequently. We lost contact. I miss her brand of crazy lol.

Oh no tears 😢 must stop ✋.

I'm glad you have a good family sweetie 😀🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗.

Have a good Sunday afternoon sweetie🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗hugs Dawn

[Smilesalot]

What's broken ur heart sweetie ?If you can't say I understand sweetie.

Sending you lots of heartfelt hugs 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗Dawn 🤗🤗🤗

[chloe40 Administrator]

Hi Downinil

I felt so sad reading your post, grief is such a horrible emotion to suffer {{{hugs}}}

I completely understand that you feel at a loss to take care of your own needs, you've spent so much time grieving for loved ones, including your niece it's been really tough on you.

If you're in pain too, that drags you down, so I'm not surprised you're feeling low.

Please do remember we're here to keep each other going in times of sadness, so posting here will always bring a reply from friends, and there are many x

Take care Downinil

Chloe x

[Downinil in reply to chloe40]

Hi Cloe…! Reading your reply I have tears in my eyes. Your words are like a warm hug that I’ve needed for so long. Thank you.

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Downinil]

Bless you Downinil

Were here for you!

x