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Can I mend my broken heart?

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Skyp

Awwww downinil.i wish I knew the answer.just try and take one day at a time. Hard I know x

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CL3V3R-G1RL

I wish I knew the answer to that question myself. Some will say time heals all wounds. But truth is we just get better at coping with it.

I'm sorry you are going through this. Wishing you healing and love 🫂❤️

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Downinil

Hi Twinkly…! It is my Mom as well as my husband. Those losses are due to death. The other circumstance revolves around my niece who won’t return my messages. It’s a very long story. Too much to text. I just need to lear patience with the course life takes in this regard. It would be helpful if I didn’t have pain issues involved which make it nearly impossible to get out to my car and drive myself to doctors appointments. The heartache stems from all of these contributing factors. It’s frustrating! You help by offering support. I don’t know what I’d feel like without the support of all of you on HU. Thank you. I need to find a personal assistant to help me get functioning in life again. All of this has stripped me of my ability to care for my own needs independently.

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Smilesalot

Aww sweetie I'm sorry ur going through this. Ur not alone.I lost my Mother and Sister within a year of each other. Maybe I'm cold but I don't miss my Mother as she was a monster. My sister however I miss like crazy. It's not quite as raw as 6 ago. I still cry sometimes.

I hope you cope easier as time goes by🙏🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤.

Hugs sweetie Dawn 🤗🤗🤗🙃🤗

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Smilesalot

My father left age 2 and my step father was as bad as mother. To be honest I rarely think about them.My sister was quite bonkers but she could be really nice. I don't know how or why she died. She moved every few months and changed her name frequently. We lost contact. I miss her brand of crazy lol.

Oh no tears 😢 must stop ✋.

I'm glad you have a good family sweetie 😀🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗.

Have a good Sunday afternoon sweetie🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗hugs Dawn

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Smilesalot

What's broken ur heart sweetie ?If you can't say I understand sweetie.

Sending you lots of heartfelt hugs 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗Dawn 🤗🤗🤗

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Hi Downinil

I felt so sad reading your post, grief is such a horrible emotion to suffer {{{hugs}}}

I completely understand that you feel at a loss to take care of your own needs, you've spent so much time grieving for loved ones, including your niece it's been really tough on you.

If you're in pain too, that drags you down, so I'm not surprised you're feeling low.

Please do remember we're here to keep each other going in times of sadness, so posting here will always bring a reply from friends, and there are many x

Take care Downinil

Chloe x

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Downinil in reply tochloe40

Hi Cloe…! Reading your reply I have tears in my eyes. Your words are like a warm hug that I’ve needed for so long. Thank you.

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Bless you Downinil

Were here for you!

x

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