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[chloe40]

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Chloe <3

[chloe40 Administrator]

After all this time, you are still very much in my thoughts Dad and always will be, sending love, Chloe <3

[kenster1 Volunteer in reply to chloe40]

I wish I could have told my mum to hold on a few more months then she would have had reasons to live for instead of more or less giving up.

[GoGo_JoJo]

Dad... you're still my hero. I understand more about your vulnerabilities and flaws but that's OK, heroes are human too.

Mum... I forgive you. You didn't know how to be open and loving, I wish you could have learned that from me but it wasn't to be. Let it all go now, hold onto to only love and light.

Catharina... your love and friendship meant so much to me. We were a strange pair, 4 decades apart but we proved that real friends cross all barriers. I loved you then and love you still.

[Lezneed2ruth]

Dad you know those conversations we had? During your visits for treatment, I now know exactly what you meant when you said to me

"Lesley your going to have to look out for your mum"

My reply was "don't worry Dad I will do , of course I will."

"NO! Lesley seriously you will have to make sure she is alright, she can be difficult, Lesley no matter! your going to Have to sort things out for her, she is difficult so you need to make sure everything gets sorted... "

I totally GET what you was trying to say, I see what you meant 100% Crystal clear, Unfortunately I may very well put! some people's nose out the loop, concerning your wife and how in the past, certain people's have taken much more than was offered. You don't want her to be sucked into helping others. I remember that situation Dad, and I remember you hurting when, mum finally told you. And I know at that time you both nearly lost everything. But you took a hold of the problem and arranged to sort it. And you did.... I will never allow anyone to come even close to, be that involved, if they were not around when you were still with her, Dad.

I can't Promise, But I can say I will be involved in all important matters of my mum's, just as though I was you doing exactly as you would have done it... And I have pushed certain people's noses out of joint.... But DAD NOT THE ONES WHO You'd think would be? But I got this, Dad don't you worry.. Love ya Daddy xx