First time sex

[Ms_stac]

Hi, my boyfriend and I have decided to have penis in vagina sex for the 1st time. Just wanna ask how first time feels like. Is it painful as people have been saying or otherwise

[lucyryan]

Hello,

I think the feeling for the first time very much depends on several things. For example, for girls, you might find it easier or less painful if you have enought foreplay to get yourself very aroused and therefore lubricated enough before even attempting the entrance. Or you can use lube to help you with the process. First time you might find it extra hard just to get the tip inside, in my experiences, it could feel a bit uncomfortable/painful because it will feel like something bigger pushing strongly against the small opening. But once the tip gets in there, the rest will be much easier.

Be really vocal about how you feel and let your boyfriend know if it hurts - take your time, very very slowly and gentle, stay at any point for as long as you need before progressing futher; there's no need to rush and if it doesn't work out for some reason that's perfectly fine. You will likely to get used to that feeling after a few times.

Also really important to do something else that helps you relax or become aroused in the meantime - this helps to distract (so you become less concentrated on that one intense feeling) and again lubricate the processs a bit more.

[latinoamericanos]

Remember you are in control of your body mija, if your too worried or don’t want to do it you don’t have to! The first time is never the best, but it isnt always horrible, make sure you are comfortable and aroused, otherwise there’s a larger chance of pain as you won’t be as “lose” possibly ask for some prehand “warm up” just to feel comfortable and there’s more of a chance of him finishing before you so atoraste you get pleasure, after your first time you may feel quite sore and won’t want to do it the rest of the day, but the second time is much much better and from then on is more and more comfortable🤍 never forget buba sex should be pleasurable for the both of you, do not fake it, and communicate with your partner to build that bond, after the first time you’ll feel a more intimate connection between the two of you.

don’t forget if you want to stop mid way, you stop, your in control of this situation mija🤍