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I find i loose patiance and get agressive anyone else expérience this i blow my top realy quickly Its worrying especialy for my friends and family

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weegiz12345

I can get this I find I haven’t got as much patience either, I’m 63, sometimes I have to take a deep breath and count to 10 you’re not alone

Louise xx

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7151 in reply toweegiz12345

Thankyou its nice to not be alone xx

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weegiz12345 in reply to7151

Don’t worry you’re never alone xx

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RFC1CANVAS

yep, I get the same. Got me it is out of frustration because I cannot do the things I used to. This is compounded by my family, out of best intentions, seem to focus on what I can’t do rather than helping do what I can do and get some feeling of accomplishment.

It’s hard to step back from those emotions.

One day I’ll get it right.

Keep positive.

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Lidldidl

Hi 7151 👋🏻 I think it’s understandable to be honest, frustration of not being able to live life as it was & fear of the future - it’s an awful lot to handle. Maybe blowing your top is not a bad thing? (For you - not the family though) I’ve tried talking it through with my family & explaining, but it’s hard to see how hurt they are my outbursts & withdrawn times.

It’s tough as hell, but you’re not alone in this xx

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Tallguy101

No not at all, I find I'm more patient with others because of my ataxia. Before I would occasionally say things before thinking now I'm more considered.

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PatsyIpswich

Yes I can very much relate to that ..

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7151

I used to be à very easy going personne somtimes i find mydelf being very Hurtfull to people i love x

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Barry25 in reply to7151

i’m glad to get answers reading these comments, I thought it was just me, so pleased it effects others as well

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Barry25 in reply toBarry25

well not pleased it effects others but pleased its. not just me

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SCA3gettingup

I am feeling exactly as You. My patiente decrease and I hurt My beloved ones

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7151

Hi yes its awful i Hurt thé ones i love thé most especialy my daughter who.already feels guilty that she dosent do enough ! I screamed at a very good friend thé other day and told her to get out of my house all very upsetting i m pleased i m not alone x

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7151 in reply to7151

Thankyou everyone for taking thé time to reply this rare illness is full of mystérieuxPleased i m not alone

But very much alone when i try to explain to thé people i Hurt 🙄

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Stagger

I lose patients and get irritable quite often. I have idiopathic cerebellar ataxia with CCAS ( Cerebellar Cognitive Affective Syndrome). This affects my emotions on both extremes. I can be very calm and maybe slow to respond one day. Another day I can become extremely emotionally sad (crying like a child) or be very irritable and become very angry.

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Sherena

I can relate, it's a combination of being perimenopausal and dealing with sca 3. Thankfully I am extreme introvert and therefore don't really socialise. I find I am more irritable when am tired and I don't sleep well at all.Maybe have a conversation with your friends and family - kind like an apology in advance, explain that it's not them. Also when I realised that I've over reacted I normally try to do some self reflection to get to the root of what caused the reaction - oftentimes it has nothing to do with immediate situation and once that is resolved then I react a lot differently.

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Nottscounty1862

yes I do. I get irritable and snap at people very quickly. Thought it was just me.

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paul456

What makes me annoyed is all my close family became consultants in scr 6 in about 3 weeks after I was diagnosed. There’s me thinking it took years to be a consultant neurologist 😂.

You take care and stay strong.

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7151

Thankyou Paul xx

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