After many, many long hours of toil and sweat, this adventurer, having suffered unknown stress and many a mirage in his house safari returned with naught but an empty, aged, `smiths crisp pkt`
I use a cane, and am always pleasantly surprised when someone i don't know holds a door (store) open for me. I even had a gentleman who was talking on his cell phone offer to open my car door for me. You see, I had my hands full, my cane in my right, and a bag in my left. I really appreciated his kindness! I've also had store employees or restaurant employees offer to carry my purchase's to my car. Sometimes I have to ask, but people are so kind, and I'm so grateful!!! Glad you enjoyed finding your candy bar and found so much delight in that Helen! ;o)
I retired last December at the grand old age of 48 and I still wake up and think, "Fab-I don't have to get up and go to work". Of course it's a challenge to keep oneself occupied and to find ways of keeping up social contacts but I feel quite privileged to be able to retire early. I also find that sometimes other people can be very kind and helpful and this is definitely a positive thing as it tends to make both parties feel good.
I think ConantheLibrarian's outlook is fantastic. I retired from paid work last year (I do much voluntary work, particularly with Ataxia UK) and it was one of the best things I have done. Of course, it is not very nice to retire at the age of 37 but I feel so much better and enjoy life so much more, that it was worth every cent.
I also agree that most other people are kind and helpful and I have seen many acts of pure human kindness over the years, especially when Ataxia is mentioned.
I have been asked a LOT what Ataxia is. so much so, if I am online, and one of say, my facebook friends asks, I just put a link up for this site. NOT one person I have met knows about it over in harrogate/Knaresborough
I like that when I feel like being lazy, I have a perfectly good excuse! I also like that I don't put on weight that easily, because I use so much energy doing everyday things.
Also, on the whole, strangers can be nice - there are a lot of random acts of kindness. I don't know if I'd have found this out if I didn't have Ataxia.
I don't think its bizarre to have a sense of humour about any disability. I think it's human nature - you can either laugh or cry about it. I choose to laugh about it when I can because it's not healthy to wallow in self pity.
I DO believe that everyone is different, some people see the funny-side of their ailments and others I find are envious of those who are willing to laugh.....is there a law, that I don't know about? where it states, that you can't laugh at your own miss-fortunes or does everyone with an ailment have to be miserable!!!!!
let other people tell/share a funny moment, after all were stuck with our ailments
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