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I lost my soul mate of 42 years on Thursday evening. Can't believe he has gone. We were with him to the end, telling him much we loved him. It is so hard without him.

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Granmum123

So very sorry to hear your news. It's a terrible time for you. I do understand having been there. Deepest sympathy. Xx

So sad to hear about your sad loss. It is something I cant imagine, being married for over 50 years. I would put my arm around your shoulder if I could. Love and sympathy x

I am so sorry Graham has lost his fight. I send my love and deepest sympathy.

Mary xx

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pedantic

May i also offer my sympathies & my condolences on your sad loss xx

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junegirl

Hi so sorry to hear your news please feel free to talk anytime i dont have a partner but lost my mum and best friend to copd, and have it myself, i still miss her every day,

in my thoughts and prayers debs xx

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jackie50

sorry to hear this, my deepest condolences on your great loss.

xx

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emmo

My sincere condolences Grahamsgirl; I've been there and know how difficult it is you are making the right start by sharing your grief with us. The best advice I had was 'take each day as it comes - and don't forget to breathe'.

Emmo

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KingoftheCocktails

May God be with you at this sad time.My prayers are with you.

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evo1510

so sorry do know how your feeling.i went through it my self..but just keep thinking of the good times you had.i had been married 41years..but keep your chin up.all my love xx

So sorry for your loss, thoughts and hugs for you and all the family.

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tanyamarie

So so very sorry to read your husband passed away xx

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Puffthemagicdragon

My thoughts are with you. So sorry to hear of your loss.

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Preshous

So very sorry for your loss.

So Sorry, just keep putting one foot in front of the other. xx

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carol-anne

So sorry to read your sad news. I have also been there, thanks for sharing and keep in touch, Carol,x

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marytaz

Your in my thoughts & prayers. xx

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rattles

Sincerest condolences to you on the loss of your husband xxx

so sorry to hear about your loss,

rose xxx

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lynzita

So very sorry for your loss.xx

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Lynne1955

I too am so, so sorry to hear this. What a difficult time for you. I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling.

My thoughts are with you and all your family.

Lynne xx

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nellie15

so sorry about your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family x

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Mocarey

I'm so sorry you have lost your beloved Graham. I have just celebrated 44 years of marriage and can't contemplate life without my husband. My heart goes out to you and all the family. It may eventually be a comfort that you were able to be with him at the end. I believe he will never leave you. True love never dies. God Bless you all. RIP Graham!

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hufferpuffer

Grahamsgirl, my deepest condolences to you and your family.Praying you find comfort and strength,love Carol xxx

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poeticlady

so sorry to hear of your loss,your Graham will never be far away from you,his spirit will live on xxx

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MrsShimmy

Godbless xx

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Hopefull

Really sorry to hear of your loss,I can`t imagine what its like to loose someone you`ve been with for all that time,so very sad.xx

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cofdrop-UK

So very sorry to hear of the loss of your dear Husband. Condolences to you and to your family. You must have some wonderful memories of the times you spent with such a special Husband and I hope you will find strength and comfort from them.

With love

Cxxx

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linsabout

I'm so sorry, bless you

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Bronch1noGO

My sympathies to you and your family on your sad loss.

Karen

X

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kimmy59

So very sorry for your loss.

Kim xxxx

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grahamsgirl

Thank you to everyone who has left messages of sympathy. My husband had IPF for 3 years and fought so hard to try to overcome it. I love him so much and just don't know what I am going to do without him.

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I too have had IPF for 3 years and have been married to my husband for 42 years. I wish that I could hug you at the moment but all I can do is send you my love. I hope the love and memories you have shared with your husband will give you the strength to carry on. X

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amagran

my husband has ipf, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, I feel your pain after 40 yrs of marriage, I know you must be feeling lost, my thoughts are with you. xx

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jayb

So sorry for your sad loss xxxx

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terri-rose

in my thoughts and prayers. God bless x

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blackbird

So sorry for your sad loss my thoughts to you and your family.xx

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susiequ

You have my heartfelt sympathy in your sad loss xx

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anniediv

So so sorry xxx be proud you were with him and caring for him right to the end xxx lost my dad oct 6th so can understand your grief - mum and dad were married 52 years. take care xx

So sorry to hear of your loss. x

I am so so so sad for you - how dreadful. Please take consolation from the fact that you were with him and were able to tell him how much you loved him. It must be so difficult, I can only imagine. My best friend was left without her husband and slowly was able to get on with life. You must be kind to yourself, it will be a slow process. Hang on to those good memories. With much love and kind thoughts TAD xx

So sorry to hear your sad news. When my aunt lost her husband, she put his photo centre stage and talks to him every day, telling him news and dicussing what she should do :) It is comforting and also has helped to remind her that he would want her to live well and be happy. x

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kenneth74

I'm so sorry for your loss. Words are not enough to express how you are feeling yet the comments on this site show how much people care. Thinking of you.

Take care,

Jane. xx

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Huffnpuffer

I too am so so sorry to hear your sad news, I have been there, and am sending you lots of love and hugs. Wrap your family round you and allow yourself to grieve, we are all thinking of you. xx

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sassy59

Thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. Take care. xxxxx

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Jemma

So very sad at your loss. 42 years of love but please believe in Angels.

Hugs xxx

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Oxyjan

My heart goes out to you and your family. x

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buddygirl

So very sorry l have IPF so l know what you have been through. x

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carer999

So sorry about your loss, my thoughts are with you

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mskpjb

God Bless grahamsgirl, I was where you are this time last year. Nothing I or anyone else can say will make the pain less or fill that space, but know that we all care and also know that he`s still with you only now you carry him in your heart. Be kind to yourself, Love, Sheila

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thatcham1939

I am so sorry for your loss, you will keep memories for evver in heart, God bless

Grahamsgirl love janxxxxxxxx

I'm so sorry love. He will always be with you in your spirit and your heart. One day you will be reunited.

Thinking of you. Hugs and kissesxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Bev xxx

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smokless

I'm so sorry for your news take care ,how wonderful that graham felt love at his passing my heart and my prays go out to you jackiex

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Gucci

I am so very sorry for you. I lost my wonderful Hubby 3 years ago and I know how you feel. I cannot bear the thought of you going through this. You are in my thoughts and wishes. Take care of yourself. XXX

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