Coroners verdict

[shangrila27]

The coroner verdict was made last week,acute coronary heart disease ,moderately severe aortic stenosis and COPD. Even now the verdict doesn't agree with one of the cardiologists.I think there is going to be a inquest after Christmas but we can still have the funeral.This has to be further delayed due to a close relative being in business abroad.It isn't surprising that my husband had chest pain when the p.m.report showed 4 fractured ribs.3 of them being from previous CPR.I am still in shock and break down in tears at the silliest of things.I think I said previously that I have been Type 1 diabetic for many years.My blood sugars have gone crazy ranging from 3 to 21 when the norm is 5 to 8 .I know it's the stress and will eventually get back to normal.Once again Thankyou for all the messages and support,your last sentence ,Caspiana,really touched me . I will update with any further news later .

[Damon1864 Volunteer]

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care of yourself 😊 Bernadette xx

[sassy59]

Thinking of you at this very difficult time. Lots of hugs coming your way. Take care of yourself. Xxxx

[CDPO16]

So sorry to hear of your added distress at this sad time. It is quite normal to shed tears at what seem to be silly things. I have done the same in the past after the loss of a loved one in far less traumatic circumstances. Wishing you the strength to get through the days ahead.

[Hacienda]

Thinking of you and your family at this very sad time, Please accept my Condolences. He is at Peace now. Be Strong my Love, for yourself, Please Take care. Gentle Hugs for you. XXXX

[RoadRunner44]

There is nothing I can say that will ease the pain you are going through shangrila, I was heartbroken too when I lost my husband. If it's any consolation I believe its because we experience love that we have to grieve. I will be thinking of you during this difficult time and hope you have friends and family around you to support you. Heartfelt wishes, Chrys

[Susan1200]

My thoughts and prayers 🙏go out to you at this difficult time 😥

[cofdrop-UK]

My heart is heavy for you and I am not surprised you keep breaking down in tears. I truly empathise with you shangrila as I have experienced the added trauma which goes with a loved one passing, as 2 of my closest relatives deaths went to PM and an inquest, along with complaints procedures. It truly goes on and on and takes up every ounce of energy you have.

I dearly hope you get all the answers you are looking for and you can at last concentrate on the happy years you spent together.

With love

Cx

[Caspiana]

Such a terribly upsetting and I'm sure confusing time for you shangrila27 . I hope you have the opportunity to talk through your feelings with your loved ones. It helps so much to hash through all these emotions. Grief is such a difficult emotion to deal with because it comes in so many waves and just when you feel we have our footing another wave consumes us. You have my love and so much sympathy. *Gentle hug*

Cas xx 🌹

[Ergendl]

((((Hugs)))) shangrila27. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this sad time.

[Corin1950]

Thanks for writing this update which must have been very hard for you. Thinking of you and sending love and best wishes to you and your family

Take care

Corin

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[Izb1]

Sending you love and hugs , your blf family are right here with you x

[Dedalus]

How heartbreaking and difficult for you; you're not being allowed to grieve properly. Hope you can get the funeral arranged soon and begin to try to focus on your own health more. Sending love and hugs xx

[Whitechinchilla]

Heartbreaking for you shangrila.

My thoughts are with you and may your god give you peace and strength at this time.

Sincere good wishes x

[Trisha1960]

Sincerest condolences X grieving a loved one is so lonely although you may have people around you, the one you need isn't there xx being tearful is just to let you have a moment to think of happy times, having diabetes is hard to control anyway and times of stress will muck you about,try to get through the next few weeks with any support offered and remember we're all here for any backup,love and hugs xx

[nettevaw]

Praying for you and your family