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Me and my late Mother 1981

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Here is a photo of me and my late mother in 1981, I would have to climb up in my loft, which would suffocate me in this weather, to find anything earlier than that.

My Mum had tb when she was 17 and nearly died in the sanatorium. If it haven't been for my Dad’s visits in the war when he was on leave she would have probably died but survived and lived until 1996 a year after my Dad died.

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sassy59

A lovely photo and lovely memories too I’m sure. My mum was engaged to a man called Peter who went to a sanatorium with Tb. The engagement was ended and some years later my mum met my dad....thank goodness. Xxxxx😀

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Patsy164 in reply to sassy59

Thank you Sassy they were lovely memories. We used to laugh such a lot and I miss that.xxxx😀

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Kittykat2 in reply to Patsy164

Lovely pic and lovely memories . Please don't try getting up to the loft 😁 💕X

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Patsy164 in reply to Kittykat2

No I won't Kittykat 😂 xx

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skischool

Lovely photo Patsy,did your dad take it?i bet he was chuffed to have such lovely ladies in his life,hope you both saved him a glass of wine before you quaffed it all lol. :)

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Patsy164 in reply to skischool

Ha ha yes he did take it, thank you skischool. In those days I may have quaffed it but whiskey was his tipple. 😂

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skischool in reply to Patsy164

And perhaps mum liked a wee drop of cointreau that i espy on the table behind :)

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Patsy164 in reply to skischool

Ha ha yes she did 😂 x

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skischool in reply to Patsy164

You must forgive me but i am nosy and inquisitive by nature,thanks once again for the lovely photo,i too love to look at old pictures with my parents in as they evoke such lovely memories. :)

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HungryHufflepuff

What a lovely photo, and lovely memories too. 😊

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Patsy164 in reply to HungryHufflepuff

Thank you HungryHufflepuff they were 😀

Oh Patsy what a lovely photo. Bet it brought back great memories today. We cant replace our memories but we can keep adding to them. Have a lovely weekend. I was a bit like you today and nearly went up the loft to look for pictures but thought the heat and the smell of the insulation would have made me I'll. Will do it another day .Maz x

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Thanks Maz and enjoy your weekend too. Yes the memories are such good one's. My parents died when I was in my 40’s. I think I was in my early 20’s in that picture. So they have been dead a good 26 years still miss them as we all do. Maybe leave found in your lift for the time being 😄 x

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Gladwyn

THanks I enjoyed seeing the photo of you and your Mum. You look alike I think, both good looking ladies. You must have so many happy memories .🙂

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Patsy164 in reply to Gladwyn

Thank you Gladwyn people said we looked alike. Such good memories and laughter and I think I have turned into my mum with her clumsyness, chest problem and ditziness which made us all laugh. 😂

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Alice70

Lovely natural photo of you and your mum patsy

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Patsy164 in reply to Alice70

Thank you Alice x

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Lemon7

All the lovely memories old photos bring back. Bet you have some happy memories of times with your mum.

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Patsy164 in reply to Lemon7

Yes I do Lemon7 she was such a happy soul even with her breathing problems.

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Lemon7 in reply to Patsy164

Me too with my dad. Miss him so much. Even a song (he used to sing along to certain songs). His zany sense of humour etc. Still have my mum and lots of family and friends, Love to look at old photos and bring back memories of happy times,.

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Izb1

Great photo Patsy, looks like you were having a good christmas. I love these old photos, they evoke such memories, thanks for sharing x

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Patsy164 in reply to Izb1

Thanks lzb makes you want to get all the old albums out and spend all day wading through them. X

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Izb1 in reply to Patsy164

Totally agree, love lookong at old photos. I had 9 moves in 10 years and had a box go missing on one of the moves, and i think things always get lost along the way. I do have some photos and one or two albums which i treasure x

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Patsy164 in reply to Izb1

What a shame because they are so precious. X

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Izb1 in reply to Patsy164

I know, but I have memories at the moment, until the memory fails lol x

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ScouseTaffy

Lovely pic x this is a public announcement.... open your loft hatch to let hot air escape

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Patsy164 in reply to ScouseTaffy

Ha ha my family won’t let me go up there anymore they are more afraid I will fall down as I am so clumsy. It must be unbearable up there with all this heat

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illawarra

Patsy 164.It is a beautiful mother and daughter photo. Thank you for sharing it. And what a wonderful love story with your dad's visits saving your mum's life.

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Patsy164 in reply to illawarra

Thank you Illawarra. My Mum said that most of the girls in her ward who died didn’t have boyfriends or many people visiting. So sad.

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illawarra in reply to Patsy164

That is sad!

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watergazer

lovely photo x

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Patsy164 in reply to watergazer

Thank you x

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Sister321

Hi Parsy164. That is such a lovely pic cherished memories.thanks for sharing

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Patsy164 in reply to Sister321

Thank you Sister321. I think this was such a good idea to show us when we were probably well, I know I was anyway.

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Bunny_Ears

Beautiful photo, Patsy! 👍🏻

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Patsy164 in reply to Bunny_Ears

Thank you Bunny_Ears x

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