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Just going to go all over sloppy for a minute...my son Brendan...in the photo...and I... have been estranged for years for all manner of incredibly stupid reasons...but he's just accepted my invitation on Facebook so I'm a bit teary but happy and taking it very slowly...

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RibvanRey

I am so happy for you vashti. Being similarly estranged I can glimpse at your trepidation. I hope it does go well for you both. Rib

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sassy59

How lovely for you vashti and I truly hope it all works out well for you both. Made me feel all warm inside. Bless you. xxxxxx

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Hi sassy, sorry to but in on vashti post, but ur reply to me shows up in my mail box but when I click on it, it won't come up on my post to read properly or respond just wanted to let u know Im not being ignorant just can't get ur response up. X Sonia x

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No worries Sonia and thanks for replying anyway. Take care. xxxx

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Louisiana

Soooo hope it brings you together . I know all about not having contact with sons.....it's heartbreaking. Good luck to you both :)

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pegbl

All my thoughts and best wishes go to you vashita ......you must have felt elated when he accepted you on facebook........as you say tread slowly and gently......... I for one will be rooting for you lots of hugs xxx

p.s nice looking young man mmmmm

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butter-fly

How wonderful for you Vasti. I truly hope all goes well. Your heart must be soaring.

I often wonder if our children know the awful pain they cause when they cut us off, or worse in some cases, if they care. Yet we still love them dearly and mostly blame ourselves for the estrangement, no matter what. Our children, or some of them, can switch off their love but it is not an option for a mother (or father) It's there to stay.

Enough of that. Just so happy for you.

Sara x

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redted

Great stuff,so happy for you, let us know how it goes,take it gently. What a stunning photo.

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medow

(((((((((((Hugs)))))))))) wonderful news x x x x

Hi vashti that is wonderful news, a babies first step is magical so even though this is the first step it still means a lot, vashti this Xmas spirit keeps growing lol . Thinking of u. X Sonia x

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Suz01

As they say the longest journey begins with one step. Good for you Vashti for reaching out and well done him for accepting. Hugs Suz x

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casper99

Awww, that's lovely Vashti, fingers crossed things go well for you both. x

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jimmyw123

oh please god, make everything work out, then finish up with the best christmas present you both could have,,, thinking of you both vashti,,, jimmy xxx

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Towse1950

Good looking man...yes take it slowly with no remorse for the past look to now and the future...nothing nothing in the past can be changed. Wish you well have a great sob.....x

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Jolyn

That's wonderful and a step in the right direction.

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warwickstag

Very best luck with this Vashti, hope the future goes well for you. We only get one shot at this life so make the most of it.

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Nanaeal

Fantastic Enjoy the moment

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emmo

How good for you ~Vashti, do hope it works out for you. I was the same with my eldest but gradually we are getting better, very slowly and carefully edging round any 'issues'.

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frances21

He looks like a wonderful person - so glad for you that he accepted your invitation. I reckon parenting is the hardest job in the world...

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Dragonmum

So pleased for you Vashti but also saddened that so many suffer this same estrangement. As parents we always wonder if it was something we did or didn't do - the old saying that "A mother's place is in the wrong" resonates with all of us at times. I so hope that past hurts can be left in the past where they belong and that the future, for both of you, brings healing and joy.

This happened with my eldest daughter. Still not 'close', but at least we're in touch. Happy for you. :-) xxxx

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peege

Grand news. Here's hoping for new beginnings xxxxxx

That's really heart-warming news Vashti. You were given all that was needed to contact him initially and I hope that everything develops at its own pace for the two of you. Great photo too x

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