Even when I can eat now

[Dodo777]

I am still losing weight even when food can pass down I seem to only have a cup of my smoothie or soft food which is worrying me because I used to have a good appetite.

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Hi Dodo,

I think this is something you need to speak to you doctor about.

All I can add is my niece had eating problems and the family helped her with that by introducing her to new foods and encouraging her to try various foods. Each day she tried something new and over time increased what she was eating.

I do think you should speak to your doctor about this, as they will be able to recommend who else you should see or what you should try.

Maybe speaking to a dietician might help as well.

Sorry I can't be much further help. I've had eating problems during my depression, but that was just my eating patterns being messed up and comfort eating.

Take care.

[Agora1]

Dodo, I am concerned about your losing weight. I know you had mentioned that a while ago that your weight was starting to go down. It only takes but a few days of not eating enough calories where the weight can drop faster. As 20Voices said, I too, think you need to check with your doctor. Take care of yourself please.

[Dodo777 in reply to Agora1]

I am eating ok now I been taking my emeprazole more which deals with acids and I am meditating more so muscles in esophugus is hopefully relaxing.

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Hello Dodo

I am sorry you are struggling , I think you really need to see the Doc again this is not good for you , I hope you make an appointment

As for your other post , I am sorry your Son got in trouble but have you heard of the saying which I am sure you will have " We learn by our mistakes " from what you say it looks like he has already and lets be honest if we did not make mistakes we would not be human and we would not grow wiser which hopefully mistakes give us that wisdom that we can pass on

Loving yourself is a tough one , especially if you have had a life time of abuse & put downs but that person that did that was the one with issues and you have to believe that , you were innocent and you should start looking trough that mirror and saying " You no what , enough is enough I am ok "

By not loving yourself and working on this the abuse in a way continues , don't let him have that power over you any more and use any strength you have to work on this so you can support your Son

Have you had therapy with this Dodo ?

I am wondering if you have if it would be a good idea to ask for more , I know if something happened continuously for years it can take several attempts with therapy to really make it work

Take Care x